19, Aussie, and I'm going to see how the ball rolls.

19, Aussie, and I'm going to see how the ball rolls.

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    19, Aussie, and I'm going to see how the ball rolls.

    Hi Everyone. So Iíd be considered a youngster here, but might as well start young than never. Just some quick information about me before I get started my new chapter in my life. Okay so, Iíve just turned 19, I live in Brisbane, Australia and never had a relationship D: . Yep thatís right, no relationship, havenít even kissed someone :O . But meh, shit happens. Iíve actually surprised myself I havenít gotten myself depressed over it; itíll just be a problem later down the track. Meh, Iíll learn.

    So due to my age, I have been out of school for a year and Iíve almost completed my studies where I get a diploma in Accounting, (so itís literally a Numbers Game). My looks are pretty average in comparison to other guys I see, probably a 5 or 6. Iíve become a more social dude in the last year; retail work does that to you.

    I actually found this website a few months ago after an idiot (Known as an AMOG here) gave me a link to some cheesy relationship site. But linked in it was these forums and what turned out as a joke might have (in the future) been my answer. I guess weíll see eh?

    My personality is a nice guy (worst trait EVER) and being quite chatty, so Iím good once the conversation is rolling. In my life, Iíve quite frankly, either given up on all the girls, or friend zoned the crap out of them that there isnít really anyone left. :P

    So what do I propose? Itís kinda obvious Iím not a Ďparty down until the whee hours of the morningí getting myself completely plastered on alcohol and probably jumping off a balcony. Sad but true. So my solution, learn the Ďharder skillí of Day Game.

    I have actually attempted my first day game approach 2 months ago as a tester in the middle of a city foodcourt and FAILED big time and ejected 10 seconds later. But, I never saw her againÖ. And thatís the logic behind it. And I do make general chit chat with people when society gives me the chance, like when I am in the right place on the train, or in a line waiting for something.

    So yeah, finally, Iíll say Iím actually doing things to improve my chances. Iím hitting the gym as I have no muscle - I'm fit though, and shit like that Ė and I do talk to people so Iím not totally socially inept. So keep an eye out for me, a 19yr old Aussie, doing Day Game instead of Night Game. This shall be interesting!



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    I recommend you to get drunk and get beat up (but only a couple times). Become a man before you try and get a woman to follow you. Get tougher, hang out with men who have more game than you and soak it up like a sponge. You don't have to become a brawler, but in this process of mistakes, the more valuable skill you'll learn is the linguistics and the diplomatics necessary to prevent a fight. That there is a SURVIVAL TECHNIQUE!!! Gained from payed dues. "Going in to love with fear of heartbreak is like going in to the battlefield afraid of your enemy's arrows!" A man who can use his linguistics to survive the caveman tendencies of drunken assholes will intrinsically attract women because he has learned to use his tongue to turn a foe in to a friend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CrWood View Post
    I recommend you to get drunk and get beat up (but only a couple times). Become a man before you try and get a woman to follow you. Get tougher, hang out with men who have more game than you and soak it up like a sponge. You don't have to become a brawler, but in this process of mistakes, the more valuable skill you'll learn is the linguistics and the diplomatics necessary to prevent a fight. That there is a SURVIVAL TECHNIQUE!!! Gained from payed dues. "Going in to love with fear of heartbreak is like going in to the battlefield afraid of your enemy's arrows!" A man who can use his linguistics to survive the caveman tendencies of drunken assholes will intrinsically attract women because he has learned to use his tongue to turn a foe in to a friend.
    Hahahah, so basically you're saying I should voluntarily try to provoke fights, and then try to talk my way out of it without being a pussy? I think fairly 'quick on my feet' and can bend conversations to an extent to where I want it to be - or rather dismiss confrontations. I understand you're trying to say I should get some bad experiences, which in turn, teaches me how to avoid these situations but for this part - wouldn't getting drunk and getting the shit beat out of me lower my self-esteem drastically. "I'm definitely going to head out to a bar or club with the plan to get beat up." :P The being with higher value people I understand clearly and not going into a battle scared of their shit makes sense to me. Also, I'm assuming you're advocating me to try clubs and bars, instead of day game to a degree then?

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    No, no you got it all wrong... (except that Night game IS more intense than day game)

    Bro just PM me your phone number, and let's talk as friends and share game... and assess where we both are, perhaps we can both learn something from each other man to man, but if u aren't cool with that then so be it... I'm just not afraid to make friends and I'd like to accelerate the process of learning.

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    read my intro if i seem too much a stranger, im just a man who treats other males like brothers (growing up with 3 older brothers and hanging with other folks does that to u)
    Hey guys! Here's my LONG intro. Just a wild dog with his leash off.

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    My advice would be to gain some attractive skills as well as the gym to get fit. You likely lack female interest hobbies, take up cooking and then focus on a style you like so when you do get a date at about the 3-4th date you can do dinner your place and bring some wow factor this is my hobby cooking a mad dinner for her. Other suggestion is to take up dancing as a hobby, try salsa as lots of women are there and even if they friend you they will also naturally have other friends you can game and it improves your social circle to know fit women from dancing even to other guys who will then talk to you about how to approach your hot dancing friends.
    Take some time off and travel mainly so you gain life experience but also to have a few stories that you can use as dhv. Your main problem if your average is just that being average is boring so step it up and do more interesting things even if you can't Afro to travel.

    Date ideas - no coffee first do rock climbing, laser tag, paintball, cart racing, high action things these totally blow women away as a first date idea and are fun you then transition to coffee after fun when she is pumped up and work on comfort and kino.

    I don't know what your knowledge level is either but magic bullets is a great read 'the game' and alot of other books aren't as relevant but are good background info on the scene. Best of forum is good and specific sections will help you improve those areas as you get to them.

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    Fellow Aussie

    I agree with speeding up the learning process and surrounding yourself with people seeking to learn the same thing, like minded people with a common goal, being the best in their chosen field.

    On a side note it is good to see a fellow Aussie following this path. I have been teaching myself for about a year and as of yet have not found too many people who have discovered this.

    I'm based in Toowoomba about an hour and a half from Brisbane, so if you ever want a wing or to just catch up and talk game, let me know.

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