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    Quote Originally Posted by cash202 View Post
    What specifically?
    How do you keep such a good sex life in a relationship? I mean like an AMAZING sex life throughout the duration of the relationship. Usually when I date girls, the sex is awesome for the first couple months. Then, after that, things become stale and sex only happens like 1-2 a week as compared to like 4-5 times a week in the beginning.



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    Welcome to the forum, bro. Is it possible to do your neuro hypnosis thing to make someone not want/need other people's approval? Thanks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BetterThan View Post
    How do you keep such a good sex life in a relationship? I mean like an AMAZING sex life throughout the duration of the relationship. Usually when I date girls, the sex is awesome for the first couple months. Then, after that, things become stale and sex only happens like 1-2 a week as compared to like 4-5 times a week in the beginning.
    I am finally back from holidays. First question I simply have to ask.

    >>> How is that a problem?

    I don't know about you but I notice for myself that my sex drive oscillates over time. Periods of hyper-horniness and "I'd rather go do some work".
    Incidentally it correlates with my partner's period. When she's ovulating I am generally more horny. Interesting, yeah? So, having between 2x a day and 1-2 a week is a kinda normal to me.

    How's you sex drive going on average? In the beginning on the relationship you are high on endorphins so it can compensate a low sex drive.

    Anything else that comes to mind that can affect it even if it doesn't seem to be related at first? Ever had a relationship with AMAZING sex life throughout the duration of the relationship before?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Grimbo View Post
    Welcome to the forum, bro. Is it possible to do your neuro hypnosis thing to make someone not want/need other people's approval? Thanks!
    Approval of what? And who's approval you want/need?

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    Quote Originally Posted by BetterThan View Post
    How do you keep such a good sex life in a relationship? I mean like an AMAZING sex life throughout the duration of the relationship. Usually when I date girls, the sex is awesome for the first couple months. Then, after that, things become stale and sex only happens like 1-2 a week as compared to like 4-5 times a week in the beginning.
    Player you need to STOP JACKING OFF!! If you're jacking off in secret, she won't know and she'll just think you're not interested in her... Oh also, have you tried watching porn WHILE you two have sex? that's pretty fun... if she's not too jealous I garuntee you'll enjoy it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cash202 View Post
    Anything else that comes to mind that can affect it even if it doesn't seem to be related at first? Ever had a relationship with AMAZING sex life throughout the duration of the relationship before?
    Yes I've had a relationship where we would literally be sexual every single night. Whether it would be blowjobs or sex it would happen at least once everyday and it was amazing. But that was the ONLY girl that was that sexual with me.

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    hi i m also new to this forum !! welcome guys !!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BetterThan View Post
    Yes I've had a relationship where we would literally be sexual every single night. Whether it would be blowjobs or sex it would happen at least once everyday and it was amazing. But that was the ONLY girl that was that sexual with me.
    Can you pinpoint the differences between this relationship and the others? Anything, even if it seems to be unrelated to sex / romantic stuff / etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cash202 View Post
    Can you pinpoint the differences between this relationship and the others? Anything, even if it seems to be unrelated to sex / romantic stuff / etc.
    She loved me. In fact, she was the ONLY girl I've ever had tell me that she was in love with me. She was so far head over heels for me that it was sort of ridiculous. But, on the other hand, the last girl I was casually seeing was super into me and tolerated anything and everything I'd do but we only got sexual maybe once a week at that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BetterThan
    She loved me. In fact, she was the ONLY girl I've ever had tell me that she was in love with me. She was so far head over heels for me that it was sort of ridiculous. But, on the other hand, the last girl I was casually seeing was super into me and tolerated anything and everything I'd do but we only got sexual maybe once a week at that.
    Leaving the girls aside for now, what did YOU do differently in this relationship? Do you remember how you triggered love in her and how you triggered sex?

    From NLP perspective, a girl (or any person for that matter) has (among many other) "deep love" strategy and (my term) "get horny for a guy" strategy and they are different. With the ONLY girl, it seems to me, you've managed to trigger both and with the girl who's super into you, only the love strategy.

    You can elicit the strategy conversationally if you are comfortable enough "being weird", so to speak

    So, to get the girl to love you, you repeatedly trigger her "deep love" strategy and, boom, she's in love. If you repeatedly trigger "get horny for a guy" strategy and anchor the result state to yourself (which, sort of, automatically happens if YOU do it), she'll be horny when you are around => more sex.

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