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    Newly single again

    Hey everyone, been browsing the forum for quite awhile and found a lot of great info here and im looking forward to getting my game up to par.

    here is a little background info on myself: Im 23 now, and was with the same girl for 6 years. She was my best friend but in the end we got too comfortable and decided since we were both too young to go our separate ways. It broke my heart at first, but it was a mutual decision we both made for the each other. I never really got a chance to develop any game because i found this great girl so early in life. Fortunately im in good shape and have been told by many girls im an attractive guy but my game is non existent. I lack confidence to talk to strange women and cant hold a conversation very long. girls will approach me quite often and ive got about 3 on the side right now but im having difficulty closing on any of them and sometimes feel them losing interest. I guess looks will only get you so far, as they say. What do you all suggest i start with?

    thanks!



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    I was (am) in the exact same position. Had a gf from my 15-18th and didn't know how to approach at all. A few months later I had another gf for 6 months and now I'm finally learning the ropes (I'm 20 btw). I had a few ONSs and such, but it was all within my social circle and with lots of alcohol, so that doesn't count IMO.

    Anyway: I can only suggest what I did/am doing:
    - Make an agreement with yourself that you do not engage in a relationship, even if you found a superhot cool girl (this is hard, but otherwise you quit practicing after only a few approaches)
    - Read a little bit so you understand the concept. Then start approaching. When you know what your problems are, read about those. Don't read everything in one go
    - Practice a lot in daygame. Approaches are easier I think because when you approach they don't expect they hit on you (like in a club). This also means you have to build attraction from a lower level, but it's good for your AA.

    From there on the ball should start rolling Good luck!

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