New and old

Old fart,
47 yrs old.
been married for eons uhgg...
but wifey has medical issues,sex no longer an option,
but divorce is not a good option either,
ya i'm fuc(#&#@'ed..
But cheatin is still a viable option,
but i'm so out of touch with how to approach women,etc.
find all this stuff fascinating.
wished this stuff was around,as well as the internet, when i was in my 20's.
we just had to wing it back in them days.