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    Hey Everyone

    Hi guys,
    My name is Ryan and I am a 23 year old virgin. I find it really hard admitting that publicly so please respect that. To give you a little background, I have had one girlfriend in high school which wasnít very serious and Iíve had occasional flings and hookups, but for a while I decided I was going to save myself for someone I really cared about and loved. But over the years that never came to fruition. Recently, I have not had any success with women because I am really insecure about still having my V card. I was wondering what you guys would recommend for me. Is Magic Bullets worthwhile?
    My main weakness is not meeting women, though I still have a lot of approach anxiety. Every woman I meet that seems interested in me, I ruin it because I donít know what to say! Anyway, any help or direction towards help would be greatly appreciated guys! Thanks for taking the time reading this.

    Ryan



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    Quote Originally Posted by Rolo45 View Post
    Hi guys,
    My name is Ryan and I am a 23 year old virgin. I find it really hard admitting that publicly so please respect that. To give you a little background, I have had one girlfriend in high school which wasnít very serious and Iíve had occasional flings and hookups, but for a while I decided I was going to save myself for someone I really cared about and loved. But over the years that never came to fruition. Recently, I have not had any success with women because I am really insecure about still having my V card. I was wondering what you guys would recommend for me. Is Magic Bullets worthwhile?
    My main weakness is not meeting women, though I still have a lot of approach anxiety. Every woman I meet that seems interested in me, I ruin it because I donít know what to say! Anyway, any help or direction towards help would be greatly appreciated guys! Thanks for taking the time reading this.

    Ryan
    Hey,

    Seriously you need to stop worrying so much about being a virgin. If you continue to place it on a pedestal the more nervous you will be about it and the harder it will be to obtain.

    Magic bullets is most certainly worth it even if you have read "The game". Think of it as the bible of PU while this forum is the church where people talk about it. It outlines exactly the steps the stages and exactly what you need to know to get out there and start approaching (especially how to deal with AA).

    I had a sticking point almost exactly the same as yours not knowing what to talk about. My solution was making the conscious decision to get stuff to actually talk about and learning the art of "storytelling". The only way to get through this is get out there get hobbies and practice talking to people and not be a keyboard jockey.

    Thanks for your introduction.

    Lyfe

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rolo45 View Post
    Hi guys,
    My name is Ryan and I am a 23 year old virgin. I find it really hard admitting that publicly so please respect that. To give you a little background, I have had one girlfriend in high school which wasn’t very serious and I’ve had occasional flings and hookups, but for a while I decided I was going to save myself for someone I really cared about and loved. But over the years that never came to fruition. Recently, I have not had any success with women because I am really insecure about still having my V card. I was wondering what you guys would recommend for me. Is Magic Bullets worthwhile?
    My main weakness is not meeting women, though I still have a lot of approach anxiety. Every woman I meet that seems interested in me, I ruin it because I don’t know what to say! Anyway, any help or direction towards help would be greatly appreciated guys! Thanks for taking the time reading this.

    Ryan
    Hey there Rolo!

    It's ok to be a virgin. Actually it makes no difference. Only on a psychological level. It's not like womens virginity where there's an actual physical difference between being and not being.

    I'd suggest you lose your v card with a prostitute. I hope you don't find my comment offending in any way.

    Why a hooker? Well, it's easier because she's not expecting you to perform well or anything. There's no pressure or weight upon your shoulders. It's just a 1-2-3 thing and you go home feeling like a man

    Good luck!

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    don't worry about being a virgin. I remember when i used to over think and now I wished i would of lost it earlier and now waited for that one girl. Yup I waited for that "one" girl and really it didn't pan out and go as well as i thought it was gonna go. As well girls love teaching guys how to fuck them. It's like having their own personal vibrator that can hit all the spots. YOu've just got to find that girl that's willing to.

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    Try a hooker. You could call yourself a Quasi virgin. Then call your first time when you find a nice girl willing to sleep with u

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    Virginity is not a big deal. You are seriously gonna wonder what the fuss was about when you have done it. Its more important for you to find a girl you emotionally click with. That is miles greater than having had sex.

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    Don't get a hooker. Hookers = diseases that will totally bring down your survival and replication value if you die from some disease. lol. If you don't know any ugly girls that would be willing to remove your chastity belt just practice game. Obviously you have a problem opening so start working on opening. Don't be afraid to use the canned stuff because it works It's like 95% effective using good canned openers you only get called out 5% of the time. In which case by that time you will have gotten enough experience with opening that it won't affect you too bad. Remember there are 6 billion people in the world your not gonna die if you get rejected there are more hot girls around than starbucks coffee shops. I believe in starting out in the bar because theres more targets and if you screw up the music is so loud that nobody notices also by talking to all those people even when your getting blown out it gives the illusion that you know everybody. I'll try to stop now I'm known for writing long posts that hurt peoples eyes. lol. Anyways good luck and if you have to make a note to yourself and tape it to your mirror that says STOP BEING A PUSSY AND TALK TO PEOPLE! do it.

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