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    Quote Originally Posted by willthethrill View Post
    I've read "The Game", and it's easier to understand than ThE VA Handbook to me, but both are still hard for me to understand. I've been in this community for about 8 months so now and I haven't seen much progress. I don't see where I'm fucking up.
    Practice. I didn't feel like I understood things all that well at 8 months either.

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    I realize these things don't just happen overnight, but I figure some progress should be made by 8 months. You had some kind of progress after that time period, right?

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    Quote Originally Posted by willthethrill View Post
    I realize these things don't just happen overnight, but I figure some progress should be made by 8 months. You had some kind of progress after that time period, right?
    You must be practicing wrong.

    Go to this thread:

    I still suck at this!!!

    I said something to that guy, and it's about the same thing you need.

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    Quote Originally Posted by willthethrill View Post
    I realize these things don't just happen overnight, but I figure some progress should be made by 8 months. You had some kind of progress after that time period, right?
    In hindsight, it was just starting. It was about a year when I started to feel it all coming together. By a year and 6 months, I felt like I would meet girls on accident, and other people's girlfriends were starting to become a problem because they'd show interest in me when I wasn't even paying that much attention to them!

    At that point I would just go about my business, do what I like, talk to whoever was in front of me, and I'd always end up with some cute girl with very little effort.

    Trust me, keep at it with a good attitude and it gets better. Watch the clips on VH1 though, because I really did learn a lot from watching field tests. Also check youtube for videos of game in action, because it helps to watch the mistakes of others and recognize your own.

    At 8 months you're right on schedule. Start changing up your methods and experimenting. Are you familiarizing yourself with THE ABUNDANCE MENTALITY? It doesn't matter if you make a mistake, because there's always another one.

    7 billion people on the planet and half of them are women. Don't trip.

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    In hindsight
    My very very first approach ever was this girl named Pam, a filipino girl who was totally acnefied. I remember it to be my first because I was a bookstore when it happened, and I was literally reading the game. She sat next to me, I opened by saying, "So you like food," because she was reading a cookbook. I kept in mind that I shouldn't ask for her name until she told me hers. The real reason it was so important was because I number closed her then I asked her how come she hasn't asked me what I was reading, so she did ask me. And I playfully told her it was THE GAME the prevalent manual to how to pick up women.

    Yeah, she didn't answer my calls.


    My second approach EVER was a HB9.5 I thought she was a 10. And I approached her while she was on break at Olive Garden. I number closed her and a lot of stuff happened after that. The most important part was that I could number close really really hot girls like it was nothing.


    The thing about most guys is their social level starting out with this. I started out really good, not the best because I grew up poor. Being that I grew up poor, I had to learn how to talk to people, how to ask for petty change so I could take the bus. Stuff like that, it was sad, but it helped me a whole lot in the long run.

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    I'm hearing I'm where I need to be, right on track, and I'm hearing that I'm practicing wrong?

    WTF?

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    Quote Originally Posted by willthethrill View Post
    I'm hearing I'm where I need to be, right on track, and I'm hearing that I'm practicing wrong?

    WTF?
    You're not practicing wrong - we're just saying you shouldn't limit yourself to one method. Experiment and see what fits.

    Everyone has a different personality and is interested in different types of girls. There is no one size fits all solution here.

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