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    The thing is, I don't know pop culture, and couldn't give a rat's ass about it. I know cars, and history. That's all I know. I don't have any word finesse at all, and it almost got me in trouble one time, and worse, it made my friends look bad. History is an "every day topic" for me. Maybe I'm weird and backwoods?


    On another note, I'm glad y'all aren't like the other forum I'm on. I deal with dicks enough as it is at work, and I don't need the shit outside of work. Thanks.



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    Well actually, if you tell it with humor (the story with the captain), I'm sure you can get her full attention. Add a bit of kino and you have yourself a great story! Pop culture doesn't interest me as well, I know a lot about physics and building web applications.

    I just had a date and told her about the LHC experiment today, which is boring. But I told it with passion and humor, so she liked it it's all about tonality, passion, humor, etcetera. If you add those in the conversation, it doesn't really matter what you tell them. If you have the perfect story and tell it with a "I don't give a shit and feel bad"-mood, you'll fail as well.

    I think you need to dive into inner game first.

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    Quote Originally Posted by willthethrill View Post
    Phateless, I reckon I don't have anybody to coach me on the 80% you mention, but as far as the 20% goes I'm better off with my mouth shut. Also, what show on VH1 are you referring to? I never watch that channel. If it's not sports, drag racing, or history/Discovery, I don't watch it.
    The Pickup Artist, on VH1. Great show, very profound transformation for these guys.

    The Pickup Artist | Videos | VH1.com

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    Thanks, I'd heard of it, obviously, but never saw it. I'll have to check it out when I get on a faster connection. All we have is good ol' dial-up out here in BFE!

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    If I sarge or go out with friends. I simply say I'm going to go up to at least X sets today. You can run canned material at 1st but I've found its only helpful if you know how to stack and I'm bad at it. Best advice I can give you is don't give a F*** I've been told i'm a decent looking guy, pretend its your birthday and everyone is there for you. high five random guys/girls no one cares there drunk if its night game. I tried it sober but my brain screws with me. practice all you can at different places. its all been said before but if you like me your inner game is blowin you up if you plan on approaching 3 sets at 1st if the 1st one blows you out go right in for set 2 and set 1 will be looking to talk to you cause they missed out of the fun guy who didnt give them a 2nd chance. above all paint the theme in your head that your the prize not them

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    Ive tried that mentality as well. I've told a friend I want at least 3 phone numbers, and without a doubt, I always leave with none, and maybe two approaches that have gone fucking horrible. I can't do it drunk, or I'll try to see if my beer bottle will sit on her ass without falling, so I'm told.

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    its all in your head its in mine for sure I have found it prudent to reboot every now and again too or you burnout. music right before i go in works and i was litening to some nlp thing i forgot where but he said to snarl like a tiger (in side your head of course) gives you the primal hunter urge) as you go in itll stop your AA and make you seem (if your having an off nite) more confident) ive yet to try it at a club but used it a few time at work to this one girl i ran into one night at the bar. I originally became timid and ended the convo at a simple pass by saying hi but i realized i was pussin out so i used it and it helped. i know the more i do it the less work itll be
    a thread of psyche outs would be helpful to get your mind of approach sometimes

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    Have you ever had anything that you had never done before? Like say you want to learn how to work out but you don't know the first thing to do. So being a smart guy you check out some books on bodybuilding and working out and you develop a routine and look at the pictures and try to copy them. Pick up is similar. You start out and lets say club=gym. You are scared to go in and all the people there seem to know what they are doing while you have no clue but you have read the book and so you just go in and start doing whats in the book. Than you look around and see what other people at the gym and club are doing that look the way you want or get the results you want and you take it from there. Rome wasn't built in a day. Just think of a time when you wanted to learn something new that you had no clue about. How did you learn how to do that. Think of pick up the same way there are tons of books and videos and all sorts of information use the search function as well start with finding openers. Go out and try these openers. The first time I tried this stuff It was amazing my freinds were all jealous would just ask me to go talk to girls they couldn't believe how easy it was for me. I actually couldn't myself. All I did was use the fight opener and it was situationally relevant because there was an actual girl fight in the club I was in that night. Once you learn to open consistently work on building attraction. Once you build attraction work on isolation. once you get isolation work on building reporte and comfort. Once you get good with report and comfort usually seduction is in the natural order of things because the goal is to close and by close I mean have sex with the girl which means she will for some amount of time have an investment and you can have sex with her again. Read the game, and try to always go situational with your openers if you need a canned opener to fall back on come up with a history related one. I would go with something conspiracy and jfk related as most people are at least a little knowlegable on that subject maybe discuss the affair with marilyn monroe and did that really happen? sort of thing girls are fascinated with relationship type stuff usually.

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    I've read "The Game", and it's easier to understand than ThE VA Handbook to me, but both are still hard for me to understand. I've been in this community for about 8 months so now and I haven't seen much progress. I don't see where I'm fucking up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by willthethrill View Post
    I'm Will,
    I started laughing at that point.

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