Awakening of my PUA journey

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    Awakening of my PUA journey

    Hey guys, I don't know if people actually read these, but I think it'll do me good to write my story. This is a long one, but enjoy.

    I’m 21. I’m not that bad looking and I’ve been working out at the gym for the past years, having built myself a good shape. Unfortunately, I’ve discovered this is not really important compared to personality, attitude and confidence.
    I’ve always been socially awkward. When someone talks to me, I find it very hard to keep up the conversation... I usually just stay there and say nothing. With girls, it’s almost a nightmare. I did have a girlfriend for three years, but she was very jealous and god knows I haven’t met any other girl while I was with her. Basically, this took away 3 of my teen years from interacting with lots of girls. It’s been three years now that I’m single, and I’ve had sex only once since then. The only girls that I talk to, or that I feel like me, are the girlfriends of my friends.

    Anyways, a year and a half ago, I moved to my area’s big city, Montreal, for university. Before that, I almost never went out and I was very shy. The friends I made here are the ones that were cool enough to talk to me first and continued to do so. At the beginning of my studies, there was this party at my school’s pub. I don’t think I had ever tried to hit on a girl in this kind of environment. I tried to run a pickup line on some girl (I don't even know where I got the balls to do so), and this was my first major fail ever.

    I met this cool couple, the guy is now one of my best friends and the girl is hot and entertaining. They were the ones that first took me out in Montreal, and I’m forever grateful for that. The girl invited me to dance, and I absolutely didn’t want to because I had never danced and I didn’t know how. She took me by the hand and there I was on the dance floor with her and one of her friends. I was looking like a fool, but I was quite enjoying this. Since then, I’ve not been afraid to go out and dance.

    I was first introduced to David DeAngelo a year ago. I didn’t read his whole book, but what the guy said did make some sense. At that time I didn’t know what the whole game was. Reading his stuff did make me want to go out, but I didn’t know how to apply it and to have a cocky and funny attitude was beyond me. It’s just about two weeks ago (a year later) that I was introduced to The Game by Neil Strauss. That book was so amazing in many ways. Though it is not really a reference book to play the game properly, it showed me the whole PUA community, how it started and how it evolved. It also showed me how people actually transformed their lives through this, and it was so inspiring and motivating. I went to bed late at night, and procrastinated homework just to read it, and I was very sad when I finished.

    I think it was a revelation, something that could get me up on my feet and change my life. I picked up the Venusian Arts Handbook. I also can't wait to read Magic Bullets and other books. It blows my mind how people can change so fast and how this stuff really works.

    Anyways, this past year and a half I only met five girls… Two are my friends’ girlfriends, two are some Asian girls I met in a club but I don’t feel attracted to them, and the other one I met on New Year’s Eve in a club. We kissed but that’s all and I’ll probably never see her again.

    I think I have potential; I’ve developed such a passion reading about this. I just need to get out of my shell, work on my social and conversational skills, work on my story telling, work on my identity, and build a game plan and most importantly, practice practice and practice in the field.

    I haven’t started my game yet, I’m pretty busy with school. But I’ll probably be busy with school for another two years, so I think I’ll need to find some time for this. I don’t really know where to start, and I find it pretty awkward to go out alone, and I don’t know any potential wingman since my friends are almost all in relationships. What doesn't help is the fact that I'm always shacked up in my room in front of my computer. I usually go out to go the gym, school, super market, or when friends want to have a beer. I recognize my problems, just have a hard time fighting them. So I'll need to find a way to kick myself out of this room.

    So this is it. I may not have shown this through my writing, but I’ve changed quite a bit this past year and a half, even my mom told me. And I still have A LONG ROAD ahead of me. I’m glad I came across this whole game thing and I do believe from the bottom of my heart that this could be life changing for me.

    Thanks for having read this, and wish me luck in my will-start-someday journey of the game. I can't wait to say thank you to all the people who will have helped me accomplish my goals.



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    Hey,

    I like your work!

    I picked up on two points

    Firstly - You dont like to go out solo
    Secondly - You use the gym

    There are two different scenarios for each - Firstly, most girls who go to the gym only go to keep in shape so most are keen for drinks so for me a good time to sarge.

    The second point with Gyms is that they have usually have spinning clubs etc, this is a great way to meet other people who are interested in keeping in shape and ebcause you are on equal terms with them (doing the same class) there is an instant interest.

    Got to go but briefly,

    Going out - bugger will finish later

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