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    Introduction, my story

    Hi all, psop here, I am 18 years old, from the Netherlands, and I am new to this forums and hereby wish to introduce myself. I've actually been around on this forums for quite a while now just reading other peoples posts but as that is not really helping me i decided it was time for me to introduce myself and start posting. Now I also want to give some background information about myself, sorry for the long post.

    When I started on primary school I always was a really shy boy, I was small for my age, skinny, and therefore got bullied a little bit. Skipped a class there and ended up with people older than I was. Bullying stopped, but I was still shy and never was a popular boy.

    Then highschool, started pretty much of the same. When I was thirteen my dad instantly died from a heart attack and I was left with my mom and my younger brother. Things started to go downhill there, my mom was never really though on me, so I could just skip classes, and be at home where I started gaming. A lot... Looking back now I know I was addicted to these video games. However I hid this gaming from anyone else. My mom thought I was doing homework..., and none of my friends knew I was a gamer. I magically got my first girlfriend back then, but she was quite a weirdo, not so cute after all, didnt last too long. My grades in school got down and I had to redo my fifth year, resulting in me losing some friends and being too shy to make new friends.

    Finally in my exam year I became a little bit more social, made some friends, but I would only hang out with these people at school, after school I was always alone. Passed my exams and got excited because I could finally make a new start at college.

    So now I am in my first year of a technical study at a university here. My grades are pretty good, not excellent but i pass all my exams. But my social life is still pretty bad. I made some new friends, but I feel I started college wrong. I did not join a fraternity because of the “I dont need to buy my friend” attitude which I feel might have been a mistake. I also live with family a bit outside the city where I go to college, which is not a plus. However I am looking for a dormitory now.

    My experience with girls is really really bad, only had that one girlfriend in highschool, never even kissed any one else. Now I dont think I'm that bad looking, however I'm still way to skinny, 1.74m, 57 kg, like 125 lbs. I don't really do any sports, I occasionally squash with a friend, but that's not doing anything. Now i really want to start working out, but I don't have friends that would do it with me, and I'm scared shitless to go alone. Excuses, I know. As with everything I keep postponing this.

    This year I started reading some stuff on the internet, bought and read mystery method, have not applied anything in field. Then i found this forum. I was going to buy magic bullets, but after reading some stuff about college game it seems totally different, so I haven't. Don't know if I should read more books? But reading is probably not the problem. I'll soon post some pics I think, although I'm really scared that anyone would find my pictures, I prefer anonymity.

    My goals are for now just to get a more social life, have more friends than the people I hang out with now, also social dead ends, and eventually get better with girls.

    -Psop



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    You are at the right place bro. Most of us started off as being shy, social retards and worked their way upto being chick-magnets. Even i am and improving although not at level with others here.

    I'd suggest you read Neil Strauss The Game , it contains info about pua but i'd suggest you read it for the motivation. Then Magic Bullets because it contains all the techniques you need to know. But don't just read, get infield and practice. Because thats when you will improve. It won't be easy but you have to get out of comfort zone.

    As for working out, i found out that doing it alone is much better, you won't have then friends that will act like they know shit and tell you wrong shit to workout. Get a book on bodybuilding, i found out Mcgraw hill to be best but you can have any you want, look around the exercise section for help. It does help to have a friend who can help you with exercises(forced reps e.g) but don't make that hold you back. And scared to go alone ?, just do it man, you will be scared the first day but it will be normal. And the guys at Gym are always pretty cool, its not like anybody would laugh at you or do anything.

    Gotcha ?, get rocking bro! . And welcome!

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    First of all thx for the fast response. Just bought Neil Strauss The game, I'll read it next week, but getting in field will be a bigger challenge for me. I do go out occasionally with friends or go to some parties, but never been to clubs and such. You also suggest just going alone here?
    -Psop

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    In the field ? NO WAY!. Gym is a different thing, the field is different. Nothing can replace a good wing, AA will be much less and you can get away with cockblocking friends and shit. If you have a wing, then go for it. There would be no way you won't approach if you go out with a wing but sarging alone, most chances you will succumb to AA and not approach.

    But again, if you can't find a wing, don't let it hold you back.

    You don't need to goto clubs, anywhere you can find a chick is fine. Where i live, we don't have clubs or are for very rich people so i just do daygame. But club game is easier cause the AA isn't so high and its a social place. whatever man, just go get infield. I/we are waiting for a field report from you!

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    Ok, thx, will probably do daygame too for now. When something happens i'll post a field report
    -Psop

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