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    Day game please!

    Hello to all.

    I must admit, i've been watching from the wings for some time... reading, reading and reading some more but now feel the time has come to get some infield experience.

    I've never been terrible with girls and have always had a relatively large female social circle. However, this has all too often proven detrimental to my game. Whilst at college some girls even questioned whether I was straight! I can only think that this may be a reflection of my lack of alpha qualities.

    Day game is definitely my prefered tact at the moment as I feel it enables the most indirect form of approach. I ran a set this afternoon whilst out shopping which inspired my post.

    Saw a HB 7 at the supermarket browsing the mother's day card stand. I took a double take and browsed the stand next to her also looking at the cards. I made an observational opener about my unfamiliarity with the process of picking a mother's day card telling her it's something I let my sister take care of. She commented that she was unsure which card to get and I told her she had to get this one card she was holding out. We looked through some other cards, got her laughing and I definitely received some IOIs but didn't go for the #close. For once this wasn't because I was anxious/feared rejection but instead because I CHOSE not to - I genuinely didn't feel attracted to her.

    I've definitely been encouraged by today's approach and am here to learn from all of you.

    How many of you started with day game and have you found it easier when moving on to club game?



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    Quote Originally Posted by manticore88 View Post
    Hello to all.

    I must admit, i've been watching from the wings for some time... reading, reading and reading some more but now feel the time has come to get some infield experience.

    I've never been terrible with girls and have always had a relatively large female social circle. However, this has all too often proven detrimental to my game. Whilst at college some girls even questioned whether I was straight! I can only think that this may be a reflection of my lack of alpha qualities.

    Day game is definitely my prefered tact at the moment as I feel it enables the most indirect form of approach. I ran a set this afternoon whilst out shopping which inspired my post.

    Saw a HB 7 at the supermarket browsing the mother's day card stand. I took a double take and browsed the stand next to her also looking at the cards. I made an observational opener about my unfamiliarity with the process of picking a mother's day card telling her it's something I let my sister take care of. She commented that she was unsure which card to get and I told her she had to get this one card she was holding out. We looked through some other cards, got her laughing and I definitely received some IOIs but didn't go for the #close. For once this wasn't because I was anxious/feared rejection but instead because I CHOSE not to - I genuinely didn't feel attracted to her.

    I've definitely been encouraged by today's approach and am here to learn from all of you.

    How many of you started with day game and have you found it easier when moving on to club game?
    I've had these experiences man and I tell you, always go for the number close. Attracted or not. Build up a social circle of women. They have friends, who have friends, who have more friends. I am confident as well in the natural pick up department. I find this whole community thing pretty interesting. I think of some of it can be creepy though, I think the majority of it has its good purposes to help individuals whom are social inept build confidence and meet women all the while, make a buck where applicable. Going direct is pretty ballsy and respectable. It goes quite well sometimes. I've seen girls stand in approx awaiting me to open them. I've done so and other times, said I am not attracted and opt out. Seriously, there is no excuse. Attracted or not. I don't have to be fucking but, it still gets the engine going. Its better to be talking to someone then not at all. Its better to have women with you then not. Even the line is a solid place to open sets on the way into a venue. It starts the out going vibes. Personally, I look at pick up & game in different manners. Pick up being one aspect of game. Game being a diversity of things from career, social status, money, education, pick up etc and so much more. In terms of day & night pick up, kinda like RSD's Jeffy says, the only difference is that the sun is out. I hit on girls in day time or night time. I use natural pick up and the community is to put things into perspective. Further more, I think you can transition from either or. I find myself going solo sometimes. I do some of my best work. You just need to be confident and stay out of your head. Clubs are fun and its typical to see someone and mingle whereas, directs, time, etc is more general then day time pick up. I usually day time pick up girls the sec they check me out. I am working on more cold approach. I've did the throughout my life but, not as much as I do now. I am constantly working on stepping it up. Find what is comfortable man and plow past that. Growth comes when your in your uncomfortable. Cheers bro!

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    Cheers ambivalent. I'll definitely take heed of your advice man. Next set i WILL number close. Situational is comfortable - i need to go for the obvious. The same goes for numbers in the set. I personally find three sets easier to open than where the target is on her own probably because its less obvious of my intent.

    Sound advice. Keep playing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by manticore88 View Post
    Cheers ambivalent. I'll definitely take heed of your advice man. Next set i WILL number close. Situational is comfortable - i need to go for the obvious. The same goes for numbers in the set. I personally find three sets easier to open than where the target is on her own probably because its less obvious of my intent.

    Sound advice. Keep playing.
    I agree witih Ambivalent as well. Since you are newer to the game and lack in field experience, number closing will help with your calibration. You need to get lots of approaches and number closes under your belt, even if you crash and burn. It will build your confidence and number closing will become a blur and instinctual after awhile. I love some of the routines in the Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game. Good read and worth the investment.

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