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- 12-28-2009, 11:28 AM #1
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Whats up guys? Just joined the site and want to introduce myself.
My name's yaboyrd I'm 34 from San Francisco. I'm really new to all this. Tell you the truth, I kind of stumbled on the Neil Strauss book, the Game last week. All this time I thought I was alone in my own grief. My problem is, just that, I stumble a lot. I mumble when i'm nervous. Sometimes my game is on, sometimes its not. I don't know how to control it. I don't know how to open and I DEFINITELY don't know how to close. I'm always told how cute I am, but there's always the "but we're just friends". So yeah, this is a whole new world that I want to step into. I wish I found this out when I was younger. It would have saved a world of frustration and years of getting burned. So if any one has advice on where to start, let me know. I need a mentor.
- 12-28-2009, 02:03 PM #2
Hey man Im just right down in Santa Cruz, maybe Ill come up to SF sometime havnt been up there for a while now.
I personally have recently gotten out of a marriage with a 6 year relationship and im just starting to get used to the game again. Of couse its winter so nothing major going on in SC at the moment but I have a lot of warm sets I can pratice on till summer here.
Girls who just want to be friends can be good. Just keep them around and use them to help you find hot chick. Dont be afraid to ask them to help out. Go out with them and use them as a pivot. Hell you may find a new chick or you may make your "Friend" jealous and get some from her after all.
I was one of those guys that never did the friends with women thing. Whenever i began to find the slightest connection with them i always had to push it. However, Ive always had Lesbian friends (the ones that are more mainly) and managed to maintain friends with them because that sexual element was never there. Recently after my divorce Ive been rebuilding my social circle and a couple of girls are now my friends, mainly because they wanted a full blown relationship and I just did 6 years of that and im not interested.
So yea having girls as friends can be helpful but if shes not adding anything to your life (ie, Helping you get more girls or playing along) then get rid of her.
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