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    Intro to TheProject - a guy in Rio de Janeiro

    Hey people,

    First things first: I am English (a Londoner), 34 years old and live in Rio de Janeiro.

    I read 'The Game' very recently and what appealed to me most was Neil Strauss's idea of building a lifestyle and improving himself, to achieve not just outer game technique but develop inner, real inner game, to go through the process of outer game, and then onto deep, absorbed inner game – so women become attracted to you and end up doing the chasing. To not just go after girls but to change ones life and ones own DNA in terms of self-perception as this is one of my sticking points.

    Hence my choice of username: TheProject. I am going to be my own project and have given myself a two year window (I chose two years 'cos we never really achieve the things we say we're going to do over one year do we? New years resolutions for example!!) to make significant and dare I say it major changes to my life - so equal focus has to be spent on inner and outer game.

    Like anything in life to make changes one must make a list of things one wants. Here is mine and through it you’ll learn a bit about me:

    1) A quality girlfriend - to have the confidence to have a HB girlfriend who is intelligent, kind, good-hearted, and who has charisma. Getting to the point where I can get that elusive one is gonna take a lot of work - so, lots of practicing on a lot of ladies – and ironically, avoiding the pitfall of one-it is and learning how to combat the bitch shields – especially that biggest one – the simple fact of a HB10’s looks.

    2) Develop SOLID Inner Game- to be the confident person and become an Alpha Male. To help achieve that I´ll be varying my reading extensively with self-improvement, lifestyle and seduction books.

    3) Instead of leading a hand to mouth existence and paltry, paltry savings in my bank account - to be rich!!! Money - many of my friends are rolling in it - and good luck to them! But I can clearly see that money is the reality factor in life - it can help bring happiness and freedom to ones life - I don't care what anyone else or any hippy says!!! Having passive income sources and…

    4) Develop a significant aspect of Outer Game - APPEARENCE! - I’ve been working out for about a year on and off but I really need to lose that bit of stomach fat still and maximise the looks I have got - that means getting a tan and having the six-pack and the muscles, the shiny white teeth and re-vamping my wardrobe - it's important to look your best and I don't see that as handing power to the ladies.

    5) Develop the other aspect of Outer Game - TECHNIQUE! - I AM a natural, I can pick up girls but have severe AA for the HB10s, I tend to rely on my natural instincts and stuff like that to pick up medium range girls and never go for the top ones - so I’ve identified my inner game as the problem combined with DLV - e.g. - s**t job and income. - I have no trouble getting numbers of girls and not too much trouble getting sex most weekends - but way too infrequently from top, top HBs. HOWEVER, I do realise that developing more outer game confidence might be helped by adopting techniques and routines, and stories and openers etc. In other words to PLAY the game and find a formula.

    6) To drink less, if mastering the game is about self-control then I have to master my weekend thirst. I start well at the beginning of the night but then often drink 24-36 hours straight and am usually found in a bar someplace incoherent and asleep on the bar at weekends – not good!

    7) To develop the career that I actually went to college and have a talent for rather than toil in away in a safe and poorly paid dead-end job. I have never really tried to go after my career because of low confidence. This must change. Enough time has passed in a crappy vocation.

    8) To learn a martial art – I used to box a long, long time ago and loved it and then stopped. A martial art DOES give you alpha confidence and it’s required to prevent yourself getting intimidated by alphas or wanna-be alphas and getting amogged – not to resort to violent means but to give you confidence – this affects how other people treat you.

    9) To travel more – to go to interesting places – not just the places which have girls but all those places which are culturally interesting, to build that portfolio of life experience that is personally satisfying and also helps the ‘lifestyle’ game. It does help - when I stick photos on my facebook of exotic places it´s always the ladies that leave loads of comments.

    10) To have my own place – I am in my mid-thirties and still throwing money down the drain by renting – it sucks!!

    11) Lastly A bloody decent sports car – a BMW ZX4 would do quite nicely when I head back to the UK. Lastly, to own a dog!! No…I mean one with four legs!! I´ve always wanted one!! An English or French Bulldog. I think they are great – and also to get a kick-ass tattoo that I have been vacillating about for 10 years! And also a……hmmm…better wrap the list up here.

    I intend to post regularly and after having a quick look at the forums I will probably focus on 30+ forum, Newbie discussion,Field reports, Inner Game, Culture and Lifestyle, Daygame, and of course - Strippers and hired guns (hey, I live in Brazil).

    Prazer everyone.



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    What an intro.

    Welcome.

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    Your plan sounds fun, seems kinda interesting that to see people are still motivated in their mid 30`s, gives me an idea what I can do since I am in my early-mid 20`s. Follow your goals.

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    Welcome to the forum:
    8) To learn a martial art – I used to box a long, long time ago and loved it and then stopped. A martial art DOES give you alpha confidence and it’s required to prevent yourself getting intimidated by alphas or wanna-be alphas and getting amogged – not to resort to violent means but to give you confidence – this affects how other people treat you.
    Bear in mind that this will have no impact on your game whatsoever. I know very elite MA guys who are super confident fighters but it in no way translates into confidence with women. Do it if you enjoy it, but a BJJ black belt will not get anybody laid.

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