Mental Breakdown or PUA: My Lifes 2 Options

Mental Breakdown or PUA: My Lifes 2 Options

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    Mental Breakdown or PUA: My Lifes 2 Options

    I am not waiting for a routine or inner game technique to save me from my life but I need to change something.

    Being entirely routines bores the crap out of me that being said using various routines as applicable appeals to me e.g funny or deal with bitch shield

    I need to keep away from certain people who belittle my ambitions. Emotion distance needed. Pickup is a way for me to get to grips with what are my issues and deal with them. One at a time when I can stand in front of an intuitative, intelligent girl and she can find me fantastic and strong. Not just got some interesting lines.

    I speak to girls too often like I am an action man good looking but no penis I need to show sexual interest and take risks.

    I do not even get the lets just be friends the girls in my life think I gay because barely see me with girl.

    I need to stop waiting for it just to happen with a girl I see like no girls day to day how can it happen except for maybe God parachuting a girl into my backgarden......waiting

    I not around woman unless am related to them which is screwed up in terms of meeting some girls

    I if not take action could easily go into a depression just from pressures from work and family. It constant I need something to get my mind of my life before I explode and well pickup may not be doctor prescribed stress reducer I GOING FOR IT

    I am a hoarder of money I do invest or live a fun lifestyle with it. It just sits in a shit paying interest account. I need to have more fun and take more risks.

    In reality I do not want to be a PUA just want some cool friends and some worthwhile girls in my life. The idea of travelling the world picking up girls not appeal to me I just want genuine connections.

    I want to play the field A LOT but I really want a fulfilling relationship. Every week spend a night with my sister, husband and niece. The warmth and the caring of family appeals to me but in order to feel complete I need to get it on/ more ass than a toilet seat.

    Ever since leaving uni my social life been SHIT I need to make an effort to get more people in life this bothers me probably more than my crapness with women. I know I want girls in my life not just for sex but some of them just have a habit of making my day a little bit better and happier.

    I look for excuses not to approach women. If I debate whether to talk to say “Fuck it” and go in.

    I want to learn routines at start to learn to be more social aware but then swap out for entirely me. Some guys need routines because there own are bloody weird (no penis, STD's) some routines do girls a favour from the clueless.

    My job is important to me this must never get in its way.

    I want a passive income so never have to rely on job and if decided hate could leave in a second.

    I compromise and let others push me around due to various reasons.

    I want for people to see me as funny and charming. I know a little about different methods but no clue which one want to follow any recommendations.

    Thinking AFC Adam mainly due to I like the idea of being sociable and lots of girls in my life.

    I want ability to get genuine connections in day and night game. Why be amazing at one when my dream girl I could miss because not jumped that boundary.

    Doing a bootcamp seems weird to me but I need to accept that my life not where want it so if paying money to someone to show me direction and help me get there faster then I need to do it. It might be good idea for me to have a outer game mentor. I will use there tools until the day comes that I am the only tool I need for a fulfilled existence.

    Sarging every night would be boring to me I need to find a medium between going out/using routines and being myself.

    A girl does have value to me for her looks but rating system is awful I either want her or not. I need to not over invest in girls as done just recently and got burned.

    Business mentor and connections. There a lot of things in my life I want and woman is just a small(but very often thought about) thing

    If I show all that I am then I have no doubt a woman will want me I just need to express this while not trying to show off or come across needy. That being said I want to have so much awesome things in my life going on that people gradually unveil all that I am and shocked but what they find.

    The right thing and the easy thing are not the same thing. I have a habit of going the easy route.

    I have a duty to make the most of my life. There are countless example of people in my life who are frustrated and they just make other people life more difficult. Like them on the inside I punish myself for my own limitations.
    What I am doing at the moment is not working it is time for a change.

    I live in Nottingham, England by the way.

    I am Waylander and I have accepted that unless I make a change with my life then a eternity of depression and past failures will haunt me.


    Will



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    Only kidding - mate, live in Rio, don't have the passive income, kinda living hand to mouth which needs to change - in the meantime going to the beach a lot and beginning to build inner and outer game. Hence my username : TheProject - for the next 2 years (I have no idea why I chose that timeframe - maybe because the things that we plan to do over a year never quite materialise so I added another one on?) I am my own project - the goal?? Inner and outer game exellance - to change my life and lifestyle. Pleased to meet you.

    TheProject - English in Rio.

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    I was meant to have a oneitis come round to my house today. She just text me wanting to go cinema. Girl I like a lot my feelings for her holding me back so much. She is a right prick tease and confuses sometimes I think she likes me sexually other times think just friends it really pissing me off. Think about her when on field and feel guilty and do f all. She asks me to take her on dates then cancels on me for other guys. I have got a lot of shit going on in my life and this just one thing I can do without. I OVERLY invested and it pissing me off. If I had another girl interested I would jack them off but she collects orbiters. I need to make this declaration I either get laid today and make her my girlfriend or I cut that connection see her every couple months and ignore texts.

    She messed me in the head for too long. Constantly acting like a girlfriend without sex, talking about how everyone one going to think we a couple, how & when we going to get married. Thing is I do not even think she knows herself she rides which ever emotion on at that moment in time. I should have shagged her when I got the chance but no I worried she too drunk but when spoke to her next day she so would have been alright with it. I think she may have shit load orbiters one day she gets bored or drunk goes all the way with one of them and logic it afterwards that she likes that one the most.

    DECLARATION
    I will do everything possible to destroy my feelings for this girl
    I will start building a awesome social circle: do all sorts of activities and different types of people
    I will actually take this PUA stuff seriously it will become my mission to learn how to be good at this stuff I will spend time in field both day and night practicing every week.
    To understand what the hell going on within women's minds happens all the time to me they get into me and then all of a sudden not into me. I see very few women but the ones around tend to like me then something just fizzles out.
    I will take my self development and concentrate on the core things that I want to improve FOR MYSELF and will gain me respect from others who are worthy of being interested in.

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    The Project

    Thanks for the message I think 2 years is good time frame for working on yourself as long as plan it out rather than use a goal far in the distance as an excuse not to go out.

    Good luck

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    No staying at mine rather go to hers "Are we hanging out today" .she texted me asking to come around. She did send a text but I not read it. I scored but in football with the lads. Instead we went and hanged out with her friends who all spoke foreign language then go see film. Film awesome her mates quite nice, another guy there who she prick teased. I gave her hug during film she let it stay but body language so not into it. Afterwards got from her how much she wants to come round to mine, lots of hugs, how safe she feels with me, when we going on holiday together, she demanding I not call a hassle anymore, why will I not introduce her to my friends and how one of her girlfriends think it fate me and her met. This to confusing to me I want things simple.
    Time to plant some more seeds
    Time to be a PUA
    When I gave it a go first time even when I fucked up I felt proud of myself afterwards, at time felt like shit, that I stood against all that fear and crap results. When it went well it was like the best drug in the world. I miss that feeling so much better than my current state of CONFUSION.

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