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- 08-10-2009, 03:08 PM #1
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Not really new here. Just havent gotten around to doing my intro. Anyway been mad antisocial for as long as I can remember. I was always an inbetweener never being apart of the cool crowd but too cool for the nerd crowd. I was also a late bloomer. I always wondered about these social interactions and how people made friends and shit cuz I never obtained the social skills I needed to really get it. I had friends but they made friends with me not the other way around. And girls threw themselves at me but I never realized what was going on till years later. I acted like an asshole sometimes and sometimes like a nice guy (in betweener) cuz neither really worked for me. Never really trusted nobody and did things by myself alot. Looking back on it I guess I was insecure. I always inadvertantly spiked emotions but I would spike them in girls to the negative rather then the positive.
my bad...100 posts late
I had a lot friends in and out my life but I pretty much pushed em out of my life eventually these last 10 years. I drifted away from my highschool friends when I went to college. Made new friends and got drunk and smoked weed almost everyday with them and the majority of my social interactions were with these drunken future crack heads I was friends with and whoever they were cool with. When I was 20 I already new my life was shit and decided to try fixing it. At that point I had no idea about Strauss's book or anything I pretty much just took the simple approach. The simplest solution is the best answer to the problem. All there was evidence to the contrary (girls telling me I was cute) I never really believed them and thought I wasnt good looking. This is wut I thought was the problem. So I got a job and saved my money to join a gym and hired a personal trainer (cuz I didnt know shit outside of pushups). Best couple thousand dollars Ive spent in my life. Working out became my hobby and I did it constantly and bulked up and gained about 60 pounds. I am currently comfortable with my body. The only problem left was now the inside but I had yet to realize it.
I thought the best way to meet girls was to get drunk with them and hope for things to go my way (which was stupid). Anyway I continued doing wat I was doing working out constantly and then getting drunk and high and hoping for the best for awhile.
I met this kid though that introduced me to the club scene. First night I ever went to a night club I ended up making out with a girl while sober (well 1 beer doesnt count as drunk). This guy told me about David D. cuz he read one of his books but he didnt fully know about the PUA world. He made me dress nice. So I watched some David D seminar and that was it. I kept going to the club once a week hoping to meet somebody. Along the way getting numbers, make outs and a bunch of bad dates where I would either supplicate or be to much of an asshole. And this lasted for about a year and a half.
In this year and a half I also graduated in college and I was already working as a computer programmer in a hedgefund (before all the market crashes). I pretty much lost touch with all my beer drinking buddies too. Anyway my club friend started flaking on me so I started going out by myself. When Im dolo Im lost in my own head alot so I had to pretty much use liquid courage to get the results and they were few and far between. The flake friend had some sorta problems and Im not friends with that guy no more. I gave him the chance to be my friend and he didnt take it. Anyway the company I worked for went out of business.
All in the same time period I made out some girl and I over exerted myself at the gym and ended up getting mono. So I couldnt drink anymore for a long time (without harsh consequences). i still dont know how I got it either from over exertion or from that chick. Doesnt really matter. I was stuck at my moms house for months unemployed friendless just chilling on the PC and watching TV while recovering. When I got better I still couldnt drink so I was tryna figure out a way to get with girls without being near alcohol and I find out about day-game and wingmen. When Im with people I can approach anyone but when Im alone Im stuck in my own head unless Im drunk. So I searched for a wing through these types of sites looking for a wing down for the day. At the same time I also found out about Strauss's book. So Im like fuck it I got nuthing else to do so I started reading it.
My introduction into this world came fast and all at once (no homo). And it took me a while to sort out the info and really figure out wut was going on. Anyway AOC ran a free day game seminar and one of my flake wings I met on line invited me to go. I didnt understand the product they were selling (the bootcamps) cuz it was only my second week into the whole world and I had only read like the first 90 pages of game. Anyway I didnt have the money to sign up at the time and said fuck it. A week later I met with another PUA team called Vibe society where I understood even more of wut was going on in terms of the concepts of boot camps. I pretty much didnt have the money for this and the doctor said I could drink wutever I wanted at that point. So I decided to go back to my old ways. Anyway my first night out in about 10 months was horrible. I went to such a crowded club that no one was dancing cuz there was no room. I couldnt even get to the bar. So I just sat in a chair alone nursing the one beer I could get my hands on. Anyway some hot girl opened me. And we talked for awhile and I probly coulda at least made out with her but I didnt see the signs until it was too late I had blown it with her. This latest loss really ate away at me and I realized to get a better life I have to move forward and decided to fully do this PUA stuff. Im the type of person that can read and watch endless stuff without improving so I decided I had to do the bootcamp thats the only way I can learn. Cuz theory is theory but thats all it is to me. I need to see the application and practice it myself over and over. And Im gonna need to do this all by myself eventually cuz I got in touch with my drinking buddies all my friends are worthless flakes who rarely even wanna hang out anymore and if they do wanna hang out they dont wanna leave the house. I got no problem spending the money cuz I view it as a personal trainer of sorts.
So I got a shit job in a warehouse in NJ (big step down from my previous job) for several months got yelled at by 2 idiot bosses for about 2 and a half months which was enough time to save my bootcamp money. I quit that shit. And the day after I quit I got my wisdom teeth pulled so I currently got the money on ice and am still recovering from my surgery. On top of that Ive decided to get my life together on all aspects. Ive decided to go to cooking school and then I will go to graduate school for business (cuz computer science sucks dick....yea get mad). And Im gonna work out and do the bootcamp after I recover.
Im still torn on whether to do AOC or love systems. Im not even gonna look at any of the listings till after Im better cuz these sales guys are mad pushy into getting a commitment which I dont wanna do till Im completely better. Plus I wanna meet the coaches before hand too.
Anyway thats my story. Was bored today. I never liked people pitying me cuz I dont need that shit. Im not a victim and have never felt like one. I blame no one for nothing. Not even myself. It just is wut it is. Gonna fix my life with girls, my social circle, my physical health and my career all at once. Its gonna be hard but fuck it the more difficult it is the less intimidated I am.
- 08-11-2009, 05:03 AM #2
Hey welcome to the forums.
Interesting (and long) story
Sucks on the mono - never heard of it until God (Federer) got it Jan 08.
Props on you for waiting on spending money on the bootcamp - while i think it's a great investment, it's alot of money - and you need to be committed. Rather than me giving my (or anyone else giving you theirs) opinion - we have a full review section that has (uncensored - we don't delete/promote good/bad reviews - it's totally honest/geniune/legit) reviews on both LS products/services (including bootcamps), and many of our other top competitors. Check out below:
Love Systems Reviews - The Attraction Forums - Free Pickup and Dating Advice
Other Products - The Attraction Forums - Free Pickup and Dating Advice
Here is the AoC cumulative thread: http://www.theattractionforums.com/o...umulative.html
This is a comparison review - by a guy who took a RSD bootcamp, then months later he took a Love Systems bootcamp. From the game, you'll have heard of RSD - they got a bit of a bad rap in that book, but they were/are one of the bigger companies in the industry.
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I really urge you to take your time with this, read through all the reviews before making a decision. Love Systems do offer a full money-back guarantee, so it is risk free. They have a 99.5% or higher success rate I believe. It's ridiculously high.
Either way - welcome to the forums, kick ass, get approaching and remember - the bigger your post count, the bigger your penis size is.Code:
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- 08-11-2009, 05:48 AM #3
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good looks Millo. Thats how I found this site actually I was googling for bootcamp reviews.
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