Thread: 22 year old virgin, never kissed a girl. Advice?

Hello everyone. I am a 22 year old virgin who has never kissed a girl, had a girlfriend, held a girl's hand etc.

I have approached hundreds of women but have been rejected every time. I am not socially inept, I dont dress or act weird, and I practice proper hygiene. I also aim low. Despite all of this not even hideous fat women are willing to give me a chance.

I have tried everything. New clothes, different hair styles, different approaches, getting a rhinoplasty. nothing has worked.

your answers are in these forums, man
read through for 2-3 hours today about approaching and go out tonight and start.

By that point, fuck it, you're already further on the road to becoming a playboy than 90% of AFC guys out there. Just have faith and stay committed to the process

stop aiming low, and stop asking for game on a silver platter, there are tons of books on this stuff. read up and come back and ask about particular sticking points.

Also work on your body language and voice tone, as not to come off needy.

Originally Posted by mycer

stop aiming low, and stop asking for game on a silver platter, there are tons of books on this stuff. read up and come back and ask about particular sticking points.

Also work on your body language and voice tone, as not to come off needy.

I have already read "The Game" by neil strauss and have taken a look at a couple other PUA books. After learning enough about PUA and trying it when I was 19-20 I can conclude it does not work for me.

read some books such as: The power of now, psycho cybernetics, 92 ways to talk to anyone, and maybe some body language books.

I have already read "The Game" by neil strauss and have taken a look at a couple other PUA books. After learning enough about PUA and trying it when I was 19-20 I can conclude it does not work for me.

ok, first of all, how have you concluded that the methods and training that have helped significantly improve the lives of thousands of men somehow do not work for you? As someone who has spent years in the community, I have heard this excuse countless times. Not once has it been valid.

Social Skills are learned skills. It's not that you either have them, or you don't. We can teach them to you. But YOU need to work at them.

Pick-Up is not easy. It's hard work. Anybody who was EVER in the seduction community will tell you that. You get out of it what you put in, just like everything else in life.



and really, if you've concluded that our methods don't work for you, then why are you here?

Originally Posted by CoyoteIrish

ok, first of all, how have you concluded that the methods and training that have helped significantly improve the lives of thousands of men somehow do not work for you? As someone who has spent years in the community, I have heard this excuse countless times. Not once has it been valid.

Social Skills are learned skills. It's not that you either have them, or you don't. We can teach them to you. But YOU need to work at them.

Pick-Up is not easy. It's hard work. Anybody who was EVER in the seduction community will tell you that. You get out of it what you put in, just like everything else in life.



and really, if you've concluded that our methods don't work for you, then why are you here?

I was not aware this was strictly a PUA forum.

You've taken the first step. You've unplugged yourself from the Matrix. As of now you're ahead of 90% of guys.

The next step is to read up on the general structure of the game. Opening, Transitioning, Attraction, and Qualification should be your focus. This should take you around 6 hours cumulative. MORE IS NOT BETTER HERE, you need to progress to the next step ASAP. Try reading Magic Bullets, or The Mystery Method (it's a bit outdated but it's still good)... those are the best two beginner books IMO. But you don't HAVE to read them, like one poster said you can find all the info for free on these forums.

The third step is to get into the field, and practice. Bars, clubs, coffee shops, parties, even the streets are good places to practice. The goal for night game is a one night stand, in day game it's the phone number (which you might get a date from).

My best piece of advice? PRACTICE. Don't sit on the computer and read for the next 6 months. More theory without the practice is WORTHLESS. The game happens in the field, not on the computer.

Originally Posted by advanced1

Hello everyone. I am a 22 year old virgin who has never kissed a girl, had a girlfriend, held a girl's hand etc.

I have approached hundreds of women but have been rejected every time. I am not socially inept, I dont dress or act weird, and I practice proper hygiene. I also aim low. Despite all of this not even hideous fat women are willing to give me a chance.

I have tried everything. New clothes, different hair styles, different approaches, getting a rhinoplasty. nothing has worked.

I would say that 95% of people who are socially inept, dress and act weird, and smell badly don't know it; if they did they would change.

If you're any of the above you most likely don't realize it and so you'll just keep on doing it. Or maybe all those things are in check and you just need to work on your game, but not likely.

Originally Posted by Basically Yes

I would say that 95% of people who are socially inept, dress and act weird, and smell badly don't know it; if they did they would change.

I am certain that is not the case.