Thread: 'Player' stamped

Hey everyone,
Firstly I'd like to say hey to everyone and thanks for a great location for everyone to communicate. I've been doing pick uping for a while now, and my game has gotten pretty good. Whenever I go out at nighty I easily get a couple of women's numbers and kiss close which sometimes leads to more than just that. However, I strive for getting the hottest women now (living in Sweden so there are a lot of hot women), which means for me 8-10's.

The issue I'm having at the moment is that several of my friends in school say that a lot of people are telling them that I'm a player, and I've asked around a bit and the rumours are definitely around there. Most girls instantly get an impression of me that I'm a player.

Now to the question, the majority of the time, will this be negative? I suppose some girls will be excited to see what all the fuss is about, but I believe that most girls will be more cautious around me. What are your thoughts? The people don't have a lot of proof to backup these rumours, but they say my attitude is what makes me look like a player. Is this positive or negative? Even new girls that I met percieve me as a player, and once again they say it's my attitude. Does this mean I should tone down my cockiness?

Thanks everyone.

When people call you a player, it means that you seem to be good with women and have the capability to handle women easily..

i get called a player A LOT!! I always stop people in their tracks..

Girl: Oh my god, You are such a player!!
Humorus: Wait a damn minute! hold on! Let me clarify something.. By player, do you mean, that i know a lot of women and they all want to sleep with me?
Girl: Yeah!
Humorus: Well, yeah, I guess i am a player then. wow.. YOu're good!
Girl Laughs

(if she doesnt laugh, Tone it down and say )

Listen Sweetheart, Im a High Value Man, If you can't handle that, then we have no business talking.. You'd be better off with a guy like that (point to a random guy who is obviously a chump) Yeah, There are alot of girls out there that appreciate what i bring to the table, so what you have to do is make ME appreciate wht YOU BRING TO THE TABLE And if you can't handle the Competition, then you're not the one for me.

Girl: OMG, you are such a player!
You: You're right *grin*

Continue conversation.

Originally Posted by HumorUS

When people call you a player, it means that you seem to be good with women and have the capability to handle women easily..

i get called a player A LOT!! I always stop people in their tracks..

Girl: Oh my god, You are such a player!!
Humorus: Wait a damn minute! hold on! Let me clarify something.. By player, do you mean, that i know a lot of women and they all want to sleep with me?
Girl: Yeah!
Humorus: Well, yeah, I guess i am a player then. wow.. YOu're good!
Girl Laughs

(if she doesnt laugh, Tone it down and say )

Listen Sweetheart, Im a High Value Man, If you can't handle that, then we have no business talking.. You'd be better off with a guy like that (point to a random guy who is obviously a chump) Yeah, There are alot of girls out there that appreciate what i bring to the table, so what you have to do is make ME appreciate wht YOU BRING TO THE TABLE And if you can't handle the Competition, then you're not the one for me.

Great stuff, I've also been wondering how to handle this, I've just been labeled a player within my social circles and i sorta just bushed it off, thanks.

-Sid

Humorous that was a really good answer. I'll do that in the future .

CMPitts: Also a really good answer, but would that work when she says in it in a negative tone instead of a positive one?

Before when a girl called me player I'd respond with "No, the normal definition of a player in our society is a person that sees women as objects and do not care about them. He just wants to sleep with them. I on the other hand, I treasure every woman I'm with and I love all the memories we creat together. So therefore I believe that I'm not a player, I'm just someone who loves women."

But your answer is better, it fits better with my character since I'm really cocky and sexual.

Thanks a lot guys.

CMPitts: Also a really good answer, but would that work when she says in it in a negative tone instead of a positive one?

Either way, my friend. It's all how you frame it.

Here's the deal with being a player: women hassle you about it, they pretend to hate it, and then they hook up with you anyways.

The only downside to the player vibe is that sometimes women are reluctant to be SEEN hooking up with you. You'll encounter resistance if you're not discrete. Otherwise, it's not a bad thing at all.

I have a post on my blog about being the "good" kind of player. I suggest you read it.
On being a Player | Tenmagnet - Lovesystems Pick Up Artist

Women just keep on fascinating me

Thanks a lot Tenmagnet for the advice, I appreciate the blog you have up on the net.
Thanks a lot guys, I'll be sure to give people the good player 'vibe', and when they confront me I'll do what HumorUS said.

One last question, if they ask/tell my friends I'm a player, what should they do? And vice versa, if girls ask me if my friends are players, should I handle it a specific way or just do what HumorUS said, just turn it around towards my friend?

One last question, if they ask/tell my friends I'm a player, what should they do? And vice versa, if girls ask me if my friends are players, should I handle it a specific way or just do what HumorUS said, just turn it around towards my friend?

Just laugh and treat them like they're being silly. You are what you are, they can call it what they like.

That said, don't call yourself or your buddies "players". Not because there's anything wrong with it, it's just cheezy.