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    Any ideas?

    I gotta ask this publicly because it's killing me...

    What do you make of girls who are checking you out constantly, but when you approach them in a completely relaxed and laid-back fashion they say they have a boyfriend or some shit?

    Just recently I had a girl at my local gym checking me out so blatantly it was embarrassing...and this lasted for days. She would always position herself so that I could see her tight ass and tits while working out, giving me all kinds of hungry looks, but when I asked her out she said she was married?!

    And just in case anyone is wondering-no, there was no bird crap on my head and I didn't have a flourescent shirt!



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    You are botching the interaction somewhere along the line. No matter how shameless the IOIs, thinking "It's on, she wants to have sex with me!" is usually a mistake, unless you close girls easily. All those IOIs are really buying you is about two minutes of conversation, and it can easily be screwed up with uncalibrated behavior.

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    Thanks for the input...although I thought I came in as smoothly as I know how...and btw, I asked around and it turns out she really is married!

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    Well, if it happened just the one time, it could be anything. When you said "girls" I thought this was a consistent problem.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Indred_Cold View Post
    I gotta ask this publicly because it's killing me...

    What do you make of girls who are checking you out constantly, but when you approach them in a completely relaxed and laid-back fashion they say they have a boyfriend or some shit?

    Just recently I had a girl at my local gym checking me out so blatantly it was embarrassing...and this lasted for days. She would always position herself so that I could see her tight ass and tits while working out, giving me all kinds of hungry looks, but when I asked her out she said she was married?!

    And just in case anyone is wondering-no, there was no bird crap on my head and I didn't have a flourescent shirt!
    Because she's married if she says "yes" to going out with you then she's guilty of being a whore, a cheat, and a home-wrecker. She wants you to meet her casually and slowly seduce her. It's much easier on her concious that way.

    Just like pre-meditated murder is much worse than temporarily going insane and killing someone--banging a woman like this needs to be a slow progression until it "just happens".
    Everyones an expert--few are experienced.

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    Saw a girl who told me she did this.

    She was insecure and wanted the guy to come over and talk to her so she could blow him off and got that buzz of approval / validation. She had some issues. But most do.

    We sleep with girls to get validation, sometimes all they need is for us to go over and take the bait. They know as soon as we have come over and started talking they could get us into bed so the games already over in their head.

    More cocky, negy, two steps forwards one step back could help in this situation

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