You couldn't get any sets to stick. The last set looked at you funny after you delivered your opener. You were AMOGed harshly, and were blown out of set after set. You're thinking, "What the fuck? I'm a fucking PUA. I should be getting this shit. Ok, ok, next set." You go to the next set:
So, You've had a Rough Night...?
HB: "Sorry, I have a boyfriend."
Your shoulders fall. You lose hope. You feel generally frustrated. You've been in the game for x months, and your results are still incongruent. You wonder if you are really cut out for this after all.
We've all been there. We've all had those days where nothing has gone right. We've all felt in some ways that we are not really PUAs, but just wanna-bes.
STOP! Stop with this negative thinking. Instead of beating yourself up after a crappy night, or crappy week, take a moment, and celebrate your achievements. That's right. Negative thinking will eventually eat away at your willpower, and your faith in the methods. It could very well be the factor that keeps you away from the game for the rest of your life.
Instead of this, think of all the things that you have accomplished since finding the community. You've developed tight inner game. You respect yourself, and know that you deserve the best that life has to offer. You've opened hotties that you used to dream about. You've gotten numbers, and watched as other guy's mouths dropped while you did it. You've "layed into" some incredible women. You've become a better person, haven't you?
Rough days suck. But don't make your willpower a casualty of your rough day. Willpower is what keeps you in the game when you have little to nothing else left. Don't hack at your willpower by becoming negative. Instead, put your head down, and get your ass back out there tomorrow, because I promise you, it will be better. Those who keep coming back in the face of failure will ultimately succeed. Keep track of your accomplishments, and nothing will stop you from becoming the best person you can be.
Today was rough.
Tomorrow will be better.
Keep the faith.
I love you. (lol)