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    In-Direct and Direct all in ONE OPENER?? WTF?

    I've been field testing this opener on Campus as of late, and let me tell you... it is GOLDEN!

    I've used it 10 times, and have number Closed 10 times.

    Humorus: Hey, I got this guy that i met a while back, and he asked me for my phone number... well heres the thing.. the guy is... well.. kind of annoying.. a bit socially awkward, and he got word that i was going to this party, and HE REALLY wants to go with me so i can Introduce him to all the people that i know... I was thinking about sending him a text, but do you think that this text comes across a little "MEAN" ?

    You hand her your phone

    You show her a text that has a message along these lines.

    To: Cute girl on Campus
    Msg: Hey, i saw you over here and i thought you looked really interesting, I just wanted to see if you were friendly.. Yeah.. THe whole awkward social guy was just an excuse to come over and talk to you..


    At first when i tried this opener, i felt like i was coming off as a person who lacked confidence because i had to use a cover up to talk to the girl..

    but my body language, and the way i told the story said other wise.. so the only reactions I have gotten from this opener have been REALLY positive..

    Including
    Hb: awwww, thats sweet!
    Hb: wow.. thats really smooth
    Hb: arent you a creative one (Humorus: you should see what i can do with Macaroni, some colored paper, and some glue.)


    Lead me not into Temptation... I can find that place my self!

    Got Frame?-HumorUS

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    Fantastic, totally throws a girl off and its original.
    "You'd be surprised how fast the weather changes."

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    LOL!

    you think this one would also work in a club?
    Failure precedes experience. Experience precedes mastery.

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    i dont see why not. if you can project your voice strong enough over the music, the text should do the rest of the work
    Lead me not into Temptation... I can find that place my self!

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    Wow, that is excellent. The only way I could see it being improved would be to shorten the verbal part of the opener. It's not bad as it is, but "less is more" after all. You typically want your opener to take no more than 1 breath / 10 seconds to say.
    I could see the text part of the opener working just as well if the verbal part were something like:
    "Hey I need your opinion. My best friend met an amazing girl the other night, and he's getting ready to send the first txt. He asked me to proofread. What do you think of it?"

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    Hey man just letting you know I tried this the other day. Unfortunately both girls of the two set said they had boyfriends, but it still got a laugh.

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    hey I'd like to know. in what kind of situation did you use?
    I think it would be perfect if a girl is sitting.

    I thought it would be kind of awkward to ask question like this to a girl who is going somewhere plus she would think you were prepared (meaning you do this to bunch of girls all the time)

    so if you use that to a girl at library or coffee shop, you could say you just came up with this idea

    btw, I made it short to make it fit on one page so she doesn't have to scroll it down

    another question, I am blown away by 10/10 # close ratio.
    would you mind telling us how many repplied to you?

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    all of em.. but i cant have 10 chicks at once (im a terrible multi tasker)

    so the connection with some of them fades, and they just become another girl in my phone book that i'll contact whenever i am having a party or something.

    10/10 number close is easy.. it all depends where and how you transition.

    if you stall in your opener, it'll come off as awkward. GO there with a purpose, tell yourself.. look i came to get a phone number, i think this girl is cute, and i want to get to know her better...
    Lead me not into Temptation... I can find that place my self!

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    You show her a text that has a message along these lines.

    To: Cute girl on Campus
    Msg: Hey, i saw you over here and i thought you looked really interesting, I just wanted to see if you were friendly.. Yeah.. THe whole awkward social guy was just an excuse to come over and talk to you..
    THAT is some good shit.

    Thanks HumorUS I will be adding this to my arsenal immediatly haha. Keep em cryin man (with laughter you sickos).

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    I did something similar to this at a coffee house poetry reading. You were supposed to remain dead silent. So, I simply wrote a note on a piece of napkin and as I passed by this HB8's table, I set it down.

    Note read: "I know we're not supposed to talk in here, so let's not be naughty rule breakers. Text me: ###-###-####"

    Not 5 minutes later she texts.

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