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For a while now I have been ...
Extreme arousal technique... maybe I'm on to something?
For a while now I have been talking with this girl that LJBF'd me. Recently got her thinking otherwise, however. Without resetting the frame, I just changed myself completely. Got a whole new wardrobe, used to be the "nice guy" so I picked up Cocky Funny, and just straight showed higher value. We had never even really kissed or anything, but I mentioned something to her that I thought was worth posting because the results were simply amazing to me.
We had been talking about sexual stuff, but she seemed to always have a bad time with previous guys. I explained to her what should have really happened and how it is supposed to be done. She immediately started thinking about it and started getting horny. I let this off because I wanted to build tension with her.
Later that night I told her based on her reactions of getting so horny with imagery, I could give her an orgasm without touching her vagina. She called bullshit so I told her to lay down. I found a silk scarf and blindfolded her with it. Once blindfolded, I told her exactly what I was going to do. For the benefit of this post, I will give an outline of what I said (even though it was from most other posts on this forum its nice to have them in an order that worked for me).
Once she was laid down, I got down close and whispered in her ear explaining the three fears of sex for women:
1. Not as beautiful as she needs/should/could be
2. Unwanted pregnancy or AIDS
I reassured her by saying she is extremely beautiful and sexy even just laying there, that we were just fooling around so no need for pregnancy, and that I was going nowhere so I will not abandon her. She smiled a bit, I can tell it was reassuring.
Next, I told her that I was taking responsibility. I told her that her previous boyfriends were too shy and don't know how to handle a girl correctly, that is why they asked to do things instead of just doing them. I said to her I'm not asking for a thing, but I am doing everything.
After this, I told her the different orgasms she may feel. I explained in detail that the Clit orgasm is a sharp pleasure, while the G-Spot is a deep orgasm. I told her what I was going to do to stimulate these, going around in circles, rhythmically, and softly brushing with the pads of my fingers. I told her she could feel the grooves in my fingerprints due to her sensitivity.
I began massaging her, working attraction points I knew with my fingers. The ear, the neck, the nipples (having never touched her before she REALLY trusted me), the hips (pulled her shorts down a bit, ran my finger along the panty line), and the back of the knees. Once I hit the knees, I started stroking her thighs, explaining how sensitive they are getting. Started following my fingers up and down with tiny kisses on the inner thigh (this REALLY got her going!). I made sure she was fully relaxed, then I went in with the deep kisses on all the attraction points. Her body was shuddering. Breathing very erratic.
I asked if she was scared, she could barely talk, but managed to say no . I dragged my fingers from her thighs, up her shirt halfway, came back down, back up, back down, worked my way little by little up her shirt to find her bare nipple. She gave a whimper, it was cute ! I then dragged my finger down to her panty line again, she bit her lip, I moved in and fingered her. She orgasmed VERY quickly. Once she did though, it looked like she passed out haha! She was dead tired from it (as I can imagine). Then, I kissed her for the first time, her lips were very dry.
Driving her home I thought about how I had done that, just mentioning I could make her orgasm without touching, but I got her so wound up in the moment she wanted me to touch her more than anything. I thought you guys would like to hear this, it really came in handy for me !
wow that was a great turn around from a friends zone. Good work- how smoothly did the transition from orgasm w/o touching to escalating kino happen?
Maybe I'll try this someday, but I'm affraid I don't have the guts to do that. I mean... pulling down he shorts and touching her nipples before ever kissing? I'm just too much of a nice guy ;-)
FANTASTIC post man
Great stuff. Turnin up the temperature.
Lol thanks for the comments . The transition for kino happened very smoothly actually. I waited until she started moving around uncontrollable and then started to escalate very slowly. Made sure to start light, then moved in deeper. Instead of straight grabbing her boobs, I worked my hands slowly up her shirt, pulled my hand back out, put it in further, and so on. Made sure she wouldn't resist. By the last thrust of my hand up she arched her back. She ate it UP. I didn't think she would let me go that far even without kissing first, but she didn't care about her LMR when she was that worked up lol.
It's a start.
For the record, it's much easier to make a woman orgasm without touching her "privates" than it's made out to be.
You can even make her cum without touching her.
Keep at it, You'll go far.
Always ask Questions.
It takes Titanium Balls to be Honest.
Interesting read. Good job! I actually might use this
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