Weird Day 2 flake...

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  1. #1
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    Weird Day 2 flake...

    Last week at a birthday party on Saturday I met this pretty hot HB 8.5 and things went very well. Spent over 2 hours with her at the party, moving around, at one point lying down next to her on this special couch. Kissing, but with me in control (not full blown making-out). Party starts to end and she goes home w/ her friends, but I get her number and say I'll call her the next day. Text back and forth a little that night.

    Sunday I call her and chat for a bit, I can tell she's into me, I get another call and tell her I'll call her back in an hour. I don't, and I'm busy during the day, but I text her that night. She facebook friends me and I accept.

    I'm pretty busy during the week so plan to go for Day 2 the next weekend, but I text her Tuesday night. She texts back Wednesday and I call her again - we chat a bit and I ask her what she's doing over the weekend, she says nothing so I propose meeting up, she suggests Saturday and I say great - I'll call her on Friday or Saturday.

    Friday night I text her: "Don't get too crazy tonight missy... I expect you to be in top form tomorrow "

    She responds "Party was yesterday so I won't have trouble with not getting crazy tonight "

    Today (Saturday) I call her around 4pm. Voicemail - first time she hasn't picked up my call. I leave a brief message asking her to call me back. Nothing.

    A few hours later I text her: "Ur too cute to be playing hard to get, dork"

    No response.

    Assuming she doesn't respond in the next couple days, should I do anything? Not sure where I went wrong here as she seemed very into me throughout, responding to all my texts, picking up my calls. Should I do anything or just move on??


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  2. That shit happens sometimes. Could be a million reasons not even about you. No more contacting her until she tries contacting you twice. Unless it was an emergency or family related, she's a Grade A Flake.

    Read Truestory's Flake Thesis: http://www.theattractionforums.com/d...ut-dating.html

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    Thanks for the input.

    I didn't update right away because there was no point in bumping the thread but funnily enough she texted me within an hour after I posted this. She was expecting me to call Friday and when I called Saturday instead she was busy blah blah anyway we're supposed to meet up Wednesday now. So I guess the final flake test will be soon.

  4. #4

    Quote Originally Posted by craze9 View Post
    Thanks for the input.

    I didn't update right away because there was no point in bumping the thread but funnily enough she texted me within an hour after I posted this. She was expecting me to call Friday and when I called Saturday instead she was busy blah blah anyway we're supposed to meet up Wednesday now. So I guess the final flake test will be soon.
    IDK, don't totally let her off the hook. It still sounds like an excuse to me. You texted her on Friday, saying "I want you to be in top form tomorrow." Unless she is an idiot, it is pretty obvious you guys had plans Saturday.

    But hey, I could be wrong and it could be an honest mistake. See how Wednesday goes.

    -1001

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    Update: she did flake on Wednesday.

    I called her Tuesday night and we chatted and arranged to meet at 9pm the next day, and she said she'd call me at 7pm after her study session (she's a PhD student). I told her to leave a message if I don't pick up as I might be in the gym.

    So I get in the gym at 7pm and no call. Get out at 8:30 and she left a message... study session is longer than she thought, they are having dinner and going to study more after dinner, she doesn't know when they'll be done blah blah. At this point I think both of you guys are right and she's just a grade A flake - nothing to be done about it.

    Then on Thursday night she sends me this text: "I am so sorry for yesterday, we worked until 12:20!! But tomorrow or Saturday ANY time ANY where, just tell me and I will be there for sure!! If u still wanna meet"

    So I'm thinking maybe her excuse was legit... I invite her to a party Friday night, she comes (by herself), and she's mine.

    So I guess the moral of the story is you never really know what's going on in their crazy heads... just don't sweat the flakes.

  6. #6

    Quote Originally Posted by craze9 View Post
    Update: she did flake on Wednesday.
    So I'm thinking maybe her excuse was legit... I invite her to a party Friday night, she comes (by herself), and she's mine.

    So I guess the moral of the story is you never really know what's going on in their crazy heads... just don't sweat the flakes.
    Good for you! Happy Ending...(pun intended).

    -1oOo1oOo111oOo1oOo1

  7. Cool it turned out

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    WHATS Hb stand for ?

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