Major problems taking HB8 home. HB:"I'm soooo bad in all this dating stuff!"

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    Major problems taking HB8 home. HB:"I'm soooo bad in all this dating stuff!"

    Hey guys,

    I had a date last night with a blonde HB8, she invited me as her date to a cocktailparty that her sorrority was hosting.
    We had a lot of banter and role playing going on (pretended to be spies who were going to sabotage the party). A lot of kino, (hand on ass, handholding, dancing and she did a lot of endearing poking on the nose and things like that). She even left a friend behind that had hurt her ankle, in a nutshelll; it was on!

    Here's where it went wrong; the bar was closing and some friends of her went home with their dates and others went to an after hours bar. We went to get her bike, where I suggested to go to my place, because I've got a cat that does backward flips. She said that she wanted to go to her friends and then we kissed two times, but no tongue.
    We went to the after hours bar, there I met some of my frat-mates, introduced her to them, she went later away to another bar and said that I'll meet her there later. And after that we kept running in circles and she went home.

    Here comes the really strange part; I've called her up, she was already going to sleep, I asked if I should come over for a drink, she refused and sayd: "I'm sooo bad all this dating stuff..." Me: "Howcome? If you're not good at you'll never have a boyfriend!" HB: "Well, the last time is 5 years ago..." Then we set a date for saturday, but then again she was a bit drunk (well, the status before drunk).

    So the big questions:

    Where did it go wrong?
    What next?

    Thanks already for your comments guys!

    P.s. If it is relevant, i've met her originally in a social drink between her sorrority and my fraternity, we really hit it off back then, posted a lot on each other's walls on facebook, but did not see her for 4 months due to vacations and stuff.



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    Facebook is a pickup killer man it could have went wrong as far back as that. When she first saw you that night she may have appeared more into it than she was because who doesnt gravitate towards a familiar face? Once she realized you were going for the home run she got flaky and showed multiple iod's.

    Just my theory of what happened. maybe im wrong.

    -A

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    Well, I've called her up, ignored the whole debacle of the end of last night and invited her for coffee... She was overly enthousiastic about it so guess no harm done!

    As far as your theory goes Alpo, she got more into me as the evening proceeded, but you are right that once she got flaky as soon as she realized I was going for it. Thanks for your input man!

    The big question remains, what to do at our coffeedate... Suggestions anyone?

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    Quote Originally Posted by moflow View Post
    Hey guys,

    I had a date last night with a blonde HB8, she invited me as her date to a cocktailparty that her sorrority was hosting.
    We had a lot of banter and role playing going on (pretended to be spies who were going to sabotage the party). A lot of kino, (hand on ass, handholding, dancing and she did a lot of endearing poking on the nose and things like that). She even left a friend behind that had hurt her ankle, in a nutshelll; it was on!

    Here's where it went wrong; the bar was closing and some friends of her went home with their dates and others went to an after hours bar. We went to get her bike, where I suggested to go to my place, because I've got a cat that does backward flips. She said that she wanted to go to her friends and then we kissed two times, but no tongue.
    It's your job to ESCALATE. Don't expect her to move things forward. Give her a "preview" of hot making out and turn her on by kissing her neck. You want this bitch hot wet and bothered...then you can take her home. Cake.
    We went to the after hours bar, there I met some of my frat-mates, introduced her to them,
    My question is, why create unnecessary cock blocks and complicate the game???
    she went later away to another bar and said that I'll meet her there later.
    PLEASE tell me you are not going to wonder at the end of this FR why you haven't fucked her! PLEASE!
    And after that we kept running in circles and she went home.
    Because you didn't do anything to her.

    Here comes the really strange part; I've called her up, she was already going to sleep, I asked if I should come over for a drink, she refused and sayd: "I'm sooo bad all this dating stuff..."
    = "you failed to lead me, and I am a girl, have no right to lead (and look like a slut) ...bye"
    Me: "Howcome? If you're not good at you'll never have a boyfriend!" HB: "Well, the last time is 5 years ago..." Then we set a date
    It's over, Johnny.
    for saturday, but then again she was a bit drunk (well, the status before drunk).

    So the big questions:

    Where did it go wrong?
    Hahaha is this a rhetorical question?
    What next?
    NEXT! is next. Go sarge other girls. Don't put too much hope in this broad. You sort of screwed up. The only way you can recover this if she's even worse at this.. but it's a matter of time when a more suitable man comes along that knows what he's doing.
    Thanks already for your comments guys!
    You're welcome.
    P.s. If it is relevant, i've met her originally in a social drink between her sorrority and my fraternity,
    Do you know how many girls i fucked THE SAME night on socials like those? Dude, this is your time. Not later, not on 2nd,3rd,4th or nth date. THEN AND THEN. While it's hot.
    we really hit it off back then, posted a lot on each other's walls on facebook,
    this is going backwards. You already have her in your pocket why go back to facebooking and myspacing?
    but did not see her for 4 months due to vacations and stuff.
    So here is the thing. Most guys fuck up by NOT escaliting on the spot and saying too much.


    Fuck her as soon as you get a chance, THEN and only THEN decide what you want to do with her (girlfriend, fuck buddy, friend, etc).


    Hey man, it might work if she's clueless, but i wouldn't count on that in the future. This is weak game. You pussy-foot around the bush too much.

    Quote Originally Posted by moflow View Post
    Well, I've called her up, ignored the whole debacle of the end of last night and invited her for coffee... She was overly enthousiastic about it so guess no harm done!

    As far as your theory goes Alpo, she got more into me as the evening proceeded, but you are right that once she got flaky as soon as she realized I was going for it. Thanks for your input man!

    The big question remains, what to do at our coffeedate... Suggestions
    anyone?
    no no no no no! no coffee...dude...cut this crap out. This is chump shit man. Day2 (date) is coffee. This is time to fuck her.


    Invite her over to YOUR place. Set the mood. Order some cheesecake and coffee. Light few candles. Put in a movie. Spray febreeze, clean up your mess. And make sure that your roommates are the fuck out. Get comfy on the couch, have plenty of pillows, blankets and condoms near by.

    And cuddle up with her. Start kissing after 20 min into the movie, escalate physically, turn her on, by touching and kissing her neck. Make it look passionate and get her naked slowly. Then fuck her!!! For crying out loud. FUCK HER! already! lol




    No coffee dates!
    The ghost of pua's past.

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    Thanks for your answers man, I've learned a lot! I'll keep U guys posted!

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