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    Avoiding being a rebound

    Theres a girl I met at a party..theres a Field Report about her actually. Problem is, she just recently got out of a 1-year LTR and he's a "first love". I'm tryingto avoid being a rebound but the IOIs indicate a potential online. Not sure about in person. How do I prevent being a rebound? We both have gotten outta something(hers being 1 year, mine being 1.5 months). She's pretty hot so I'd rather not blow it



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    Quote Originally Posted by Almighty Mexijew View Post
    Theres a girl I met at a party..theres a Field Report about her actually. Problem is, she just recently got out of a 1-year LTR and he's a "first love". I'm tryingto avoid being a rebound but the IOIs indicate a potential online. Not sure about in person. How do I prevent being a rebound? We both have gotten outta something(hers being 1 year, mine being 1.5 months). She's pretty hot so I'd rather not blow it
    how do you prevent being a rebound, just be the prize and play it hard to get. Once she is attracted to you enough, it doesn't matter if she had a bad breakup.

    Just make her the decision to like you by demonstrating non neediness and being a challenge.

    how do you prevent from being a rebound? You ignore about her last BF and continue developing chemistry. It only matters how she is attracted to you, not by how much you are attracted to her. So continue being a challenge, continue building rapport, and continue flirting with her.
    I stopped giving a Shit back in 2007. =)

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    Ok man, here's the deal with rebound girls....

    They're just out of a big relationship, and the LAST thing they want is a clingy guy who wants to be their boyfriend. That's what turns them off.

    So what do you do? Stop worrying about being the rebound guy, because that's exactly the kind of clingyness that's going to put her off. EMBRACE being the rebound guy, do a damn good job of being the rebound guy, and let her come to you.

    This is fishing, not hunting... you have to give her a taste of the bait (awesome sex, good times) and then let her chase it.
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    Haha..Thanks guys..I played/lost 4 straight games of beer pong before reaching my comp last night so that would explain the lack of articulation. The clingy sound too.

    I'll just keep on going at it and see what happens.

    Vapor, because those usually tend to be more headaches than not from all those guilt emotions girls get. Sure, I'll be able to game others and find new girls but theres still the headache of any fallout if she feels guilty.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Almighty Mexijew View Post
    Haha..Thanks guys..I played/lost 4 straight games of beer pong before reaching my comp last night so that would explain the lack of articulation.
    Sounds to me like you need to brush up on your beer pong skills, a side note, if you can hold your alcohol, having your target be your beer pong partner is a great opportunity, however, if you suck at beer pong don't waste your time, one and done is not helpful....

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