Thread: Intuition and calibration

(This was inspired by Mystery btw)

For me these are the magic words in The Game . These are the keys that unlock a huge part of the questions being asked here. What I see is that people read seduction stuff, how to open, attract, qualify , close, build comfort , seduce etc but when there is a slight, the smallest change, or if u meet a girl that is a bit different than the ones u usually meet you become lost

"But this wasnt in the book or the video's i watched!"

And this comes to expirience and field testing but also in how you see the matrix. Its good to learn new techniques but what is the technology behind em? Why you use em? Why they work? What do they show about you? And why the thing they show about you is appealing to girls? Can you understand what a girl likes?
Some girls like dominant men, some like less dominant men (bad expiriences?), some have buggage, some had psychotic boyfriends, some had parents that screwd her up or grew her up as a princess. Can u calibrate on what to give on every category of these girls?
It all comes down to calibration and intuition.

Definition of Calibration: 1. Calibration is the estimation of some parameters of a model, under the assumption that the model is correct, as a middle step in the study of other parameters. Use of this word suggests that the investigator wishes to give those other parameters of the model a 'fair chance' to describe the data, not to get stuck in a side discussion about whether the calibrated parameters are ideally modeled or estimated.

2. Calibration is taking parameters that have been estimated for a similar model into one's own model, solving one's own model numerically, and simulating. Attributed to Edward Prescott.

As you have already understood. If the model in your mind is incorrect (I dont deserve this girl, success, she has more value and i need to trick her so she ll like me) and you build your whole game based on these thoughts its almost certain that you ll fail because humans do follow psychological patterns but their previous expiriences have made em totally different entities that do follow a psychological archetype but you must calibrate your game based on this info. How? expirience.
After you meet two "princesses or spoiled brats if u prefer" your game obviously needs to be situated on this parameter. Its the same with the so dreaded negs that everyone uses but they think its some magic tool that will make the girl attracted. If the girls has low self esteem even if she looks like a model and you hit an insecurity you are screwd. You are blown out and you stay there wondering why "it didnt work this time".
So now we are pretty much clear why you need to take all parameters into account with girls. But there is another parameter that needs calibration and this is logistics. Obviously if you cant isolate for example you cant run smooth game. But many people disregard this aspect and they keep running game when everything is against them. The amogs talk to u to distract you. The obstacles (aint i sweet?) try to get the girl away from you even if they like you, since they think that since she is here she might not be that much into you and so on. And what many people do? keep running game. Right...
Now you ll probably say:

"Ok and how the fuck do I know if she is a princess type or an insecure beautiful girl? Or how do I know if the logistics are right to isolate?"

Easier than you think. Its a matter of Deja Vu.

"I ve seen this before!! I ve been in this situation before!"

Exactly intuition that comes from expirience:

Definition of Intuition:
1. direct perception of truth, fact, etc., independent of any reasoning process; immediate apprehension.
2. a fact, truth, etc., perceived in this way.
3. a keen and quick insight.
4. the quality or ability of having such direct perception or quick insight.

Interesting aint it? It looks like a mind reading definition to me. To calibrate you need to see what patterns have been played before or even things u ve read in books or here in the forum. In other words my friends its reading the code of the social matrix and not just watching images passively.
The girl that walks in front of you and has her head up and doesnt look at anyone is easily something u have seen before. Its also the type that many guys would label as a stuck up bitch. But not us. We have seen this pattern before. You ve seen how when you run the opener she thinks that you try to pick her up and then magic happens.

"Hehe you look like a good girl and even though you aint my type its fun to talk to you"

and you keep talking to the friends. BOOM her programming is screwd. Her own intuition reads "ERROR ERROR" because she hasnt met anyone like you before. And since she doesnt have any pua expirience its up to you to not start doing afc patterns on her.
On the other hand her "OMG i cant believe he just said that" is something u can easily recognize you have run that line numerous times and her reaction is well expected. After that your intuition tells you "you are in". After a bit some guy approaches her, again you have seen that before, you know how to handle the interruption.
After a bit you see her friends getting ready, you catch with one quick look her guy friend talking with the obstacle looking at you. he looks angry. But again you ve been here before. You take her number and stay 5 minutes. Then you eject. The logistics werent in your favor but you got the number.
Ofcourse you ll probably say again:

"Ok but what happens if I havent been here before? I just started with this Game"

That comes down to how your intuition works based on teh information you have taken from books. Do you read something just to read it or to make it a second nature to you? If you know how guys react when u steal the girl they like in front of them your intuition will probably tell you: If he is bigger than you and starts coming angrily at me, eject. if he is smaller just amog him. If he is small but starts talking to some other guys and looks at your eject and so on.
Put your self in the shoes of other people (yes even in teh girl's high heels lol), you ll probably see things differently. Your intuition expands. Dont be so into you. You must understand what other people do, why they do it, what it has to you etc.
I thought I d write this article because I kept answering many questions here with the same answer over and over again. Intuition and Calibration.
I hope it will help you a bit. Till next time.
Best of luck.

Silverghost

Silverghost i like this post particularly because it informs me that i should put myself in everybody's shoes and not just the one i'm gaming. When i think about it your way, alot more of the guys and females intention becomes clear to me.

Thanks!

Originally Posted by HonestlyHonest

Silverghost i like this post particularly because it informs me that i should put myself in everybody's shoes and not just the one i'm gaming. When i think about it your way, alot more of the guys and females intention becomes clear to me.

Thanks!

No problem mate. It is such an easy concept but very few people follow it

I like this post. Good stuff!