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    So I have been behind on my posts. As you know, I’m really dedicated to this blog. Unfortunately, my housemate and I have been at war with multiple internet providers for a week now. BT are liars and really treated us poorly. Now they have put some kind of tag on our phone line to prevent other companies from giving us internet. What kind of world is that? I am hopeful that o2 will sort me out in the end. Anyways, a lack of internet at home and nearly getting attacked at McDonald’s has left me with limited options. I have been thinking a lot though!

    I will try to update you on some highlights, but first let’s talk about the Rockstar Finale. We are all going down to Essex to burn that town down this weekend. You better getter ready for LRs and SRs (or is it SRRs?). I am sharing a room with Starlight and now that both of us have had sex with Soul , we are keen to see which of us really has the bigger dick. Then again it’s not the size of the boat….it’s the size of the ocean. So you better get ready.

    So last week I started at a new Muay Thai club. This one is brutal. It’s in the middle of a super ghetto estate and it just has concrete walls and mats on the floor. It is really brutal and really tough. I almost passed out last week. My skills are very high, but my agility is crap. I really need to get my aerobic skills honed again. It was so embarassing and I had invited a girl to come watch my first class with Ghost. Fortunately, she got lost and just went over to Mr M ’s. Nights out last week are kind of a blur, just really not a lot of good conversations.

    Friday night I had a French girl visiting on her way back home. I’ve started letting backpackers crash on my couch in London. She was my first one and it was a really cool experience. I will definately do it more in the future . She went out for a curry with Zigzag, Ghost and me. We had a really good time. The we did some dancing on Brick Lane. It was nice to be around a girl and totally not try to game her. We were all on the same page and having a really nice time.

    We got back to my house and Sasha came round for a bit. He went straight into routines and I kept asking him to stop. He kept joking that he was just messing with me, while he was running textbook mystery method . He kept telling jokes, negging the girl, kinoing and trying to get her to go over to his apartment. I kept asking him to stop but he was ignoring me. It was a real lack of social calibration. There is a time and a place for everything. Eventually I had to throw him and ZigZag out. And dude’s Ziggy was totally innocent, but it was the only way I could get Sasha to leave. I feel like I can’t let him come over to my place again. I mean he totally disrespected me by refusing to stop gaming when I asked him too. I mean there is no way you can run routines I wrote in front of me without me realizing it. I will have to think about this a lot, but I was super angry at the time. It was really important to me that the girl have a really nice, comfortable time.

    Saturday night, I went out to Tiger Tiger with Crossfire. We met up with some of her friends, one of whom was super cute. I was really just being myself, but it kind of imploded late night. I was really really off my game. I was trying to run Shane-game in front of Vercetti , but I was just so nervous that I couldn’t get out of my head. It didn’t help that the club was so ugly. I mean some days London just breaks your heart. I am trying to break through my final mental shame barriers. I am so close to exploding. Once I defeat my final aa monster, I will be unstoppable. It’s not a question of if. It is only a question of when. So Saturday night was kind of a bust.

    Sunday we all went to Carnival, which was sooooo average. It’s like they took all the people I never want to meet and had them ruin a nice neighborhood for a weekend. Then they end if off with some good, old-fashioned cop fighting. I was not impressed with any of it. I can see why most people I like never go. Then we went to see Batman, but we were in the back row in the corner. At least I was all drunk. Good movie though.

    Right now I am trying to rest from gaming to save my strength for Essex this weekend. I am gonna drop some serious Paladin on that town.



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    So we finally got some time with Braddock on the final Thursday of Rockstar. I have been so busy that this is my first opportunity to write about it. He taught us about disqualification.

    This theory is so far advanced past negs it’s not even funny. The idea is to always give a girl some room to chase you. By giving her a chance to qualify herself and make her feel like she’s earned you. Think about it. IF you’re parents buy you a really nice car when you are young, you won’t value it nearly as much as if you worked your ass off and earned it. This was the only lecture I took notes for and it was really amazing.

    This weekend I tried a couple of disqualifications and they worked really well. I was able to get a makeout off the same girl as Starlight by using a good disqualification Braddock taught me. He really poured a lot of knowledge into my ears and I can’t recommend him enough. He really knows his stuff and it all worked for me this weekend in Essex.



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    So this is my final Project Rockstar post. We went to Essex for the weekend. The girls are supposed to be friendlier there. I made out with approximately 15 girls on Friday night and Saturday night I pushed the envelope with two different Tens. I am playing a new game at a new level. There is just so much going on. I would love to go into tons of detail, but for me the final Rockstar details are private. I had a really amazing weekend and really strengthened some friendships.

    It was a really hard a grueling 8weeks and I have so much life and work to catch up on. I just want to catch up with my life. I have so much blog-coding to to that it’s not even funny. I have to prepare for university next week and set up work. Rockstar gave me so many tools and connections that I am having trouble keeping up with it all. I met hundreds of girls and my game is amazing now. I still have a lot of growing to do, but soon I will be bringing some amazing things to the table.

    I really want to take a breather for a few days and just reset my batteries. I still have no internet at home, which is absolutely killing me. I hate BT now so much. They are true bastards. I am sitting on Virgo’s couch trying to code with my little laptop, but it’s not nearly the same as using my desktop with 2 monitors at home. But life goes on. Hopefully I can get a ton of work done today. If you want to hear more about my adventures, don’t hesitate to contact me.



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    Default Project Rockstar: Epilogue

    I woke up this morning at 5:45am with a naked French girl by my side. We've slept together in 4 countries and she likes to call herself my French mistress. I told her about Rockstar and it blew her mind how scientific and focused (some) guys have become in their pursuit of women. In fact she found it kind of sweet and endearing. Then I taught her how to give an incredible blow job. We stayed up until 2:00am working on her technique

    Now it's time to go home. 8 weeks of ground-breaking experimentation in game and beyond. Done. In the can. Complete. I can't think of any way that I would have rather spent the last two months.

    I've changed. My confidence has increased by a multiple. Not that I was unconfident before, but with the continuity of going out night after night and hitting the streets by day, there is a deep-rooted confidence that I'm a high value male, and if girls don't want to talk to me for some reason...well quite frankly they're missing out

    I've lost 10 pounds and 4% body fat. My before and after pictures will be up sometime soon, the difference is striking. Credit to London Hunk for the diet plan and his continual oversight (harrasment) for us to stay on task. I now have a stronger sense for what is healthy to put in my body.

    On the Social Circle front I have many new friends who are some of the most interesting people I've ever met. These relationships were born from game and game is certainly a lynchpin in many of these relationships, but our interests overlap into business, travel and adventure. Hell, I got to experience China VIP style...and I know I'll be back sooner than later. Pretty sweet!

    To the instructor team: Mr M , London Soul , Vercetti , 5.0 , Dr Yen, Sasha, London Hunk and all the guest instructors - THANKS!!! Your dedication and willingness to share what you know is inspiring, not to mention you're all bad ass in field and I love hanging out with you.

    The Rockstars: Black Swan, Paladin, Optimistic, Keychain , Prize Fighter - You guys ARE Rockstars!! We have all changed and grown so much. I really look forward to kicking it at the Superconference (Yes!!!) next month and catching up. We've shared an awesome experience, let's not let our friendships end at that. I've enjoyed every minute of it (even when it was uncomfortable).

    Now it's time for the next chapter in life and game! I've got a solid blueprint for what I want to accomplish before year end. It's a massive list and quite ambitious. If you want to follow my adventures going forward here's the scoop:

    www.TheStarlightBlog.com - Check it!



    May you all lay the most beautiful girls in the world and kick ass at all you do! As for me, San Francisco looks better than ever, and after I get some sleep I'm going to devour it.

    ~ Starlight ~


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    For the in-field portion of the Day Game seminar I went out with Starlight from last year's Project Rockstar. I can honestly say that this guy made me feel like he was an old buddy who was teaching me something new. He was so upbeat and provided such great feedback that just the infield part made it all worth it. He kept providing feedback in a very productive manner. All the instructors were great but a special shotout to Starlight, this guy is awesome. If you guys have a chance to work with him do it. He honestly is just a very positive upbeat person who will feel more like a friend than an instructor.

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    After the previous nights random adventure we headed to Yates and then back to liquid. I started nervously... it was the end of project rockstar. After this I need to be in a position to carry this on on my own.

    I went out and went around the club just saying hi to everyone but for some reason things didn't hook. It was pissing me off! So I said to Blackswan, this feels like too much work for the last night; lets just have a good night.

    Straight away I opened 2 Swedish girls and their London friend who was showing them around. I went direct and she liked it but I didn't physcially escalate enough. I ejected but met up with them later.

    I went direct on one girl and she opened so well. I thought... shit... I hadn't been doing that at all. Granted I only did it on a single set and her friends were already walking in front (I didn't realise) and she carried on walking. I should have physically stopped her (the claw!) but I made this up the next time.




    Later that night I went direct on a cute brunette girl. She opened wth a beaming smile and I thought wow. I kept on going direct and then some disqualification... 'I haven't hit a girl in a week but with you I might make an exception' etc. Damn that went down well and just started chatting about whatever... met her friends (she was here for a birthday for her roommate), isolated her then made out with her. All her friends went home but her and her roommate wanted to head back and have a few drinks. I was invited.

    Got back to theirs, had a bit of vodka and the birthday girl was totally drunk so she went to bed. I told my target that I could only stay for a bit as my friend (Blackswan) needed to get back into the hotel room to leave for the US and so I took the drink into my targets room and watched a few youtube videos on her bed. Fuck, fuck, fuck. Its on. We started making out and I grabbed the back of her hair. Damn she was turned on. I'll skip the final details but this was my first SNL. A few minutes afterwards Blackswan called up and I told her I had to head off. I took her number and planned to meet up in London, near where she works, this week. I headed back to the hotel and met Blackswan on the way. Awesome timing.

    What a great ending to Project Rockstar; fucking awesome final night. You can learn anything... it just takes effort and persistence.

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    Final Days

    I am writing this final post from my hotel room in Los Angeles. I was going to wait until I got my blackberry back from Mr M to write this (all my notes are on the phone), but I couldn’t wait. Aside: I won’t try to charge my phone before I leave for the airport from now on, because I will inevitably forget to unplug it when I’m frantically gathering the rest of my luggage.
    I’ve been trying to find a place to live in LA (hence, writing from a hotel with no internet), so my apologizes to all the unanswered contacts.

    First, credit to the guest speakers on the final days:

    Johnny Soporno (JohnnySoporno.com) is a guy that is truly living the playboy lifestyle. The proof is in the pudding and if you check his phone it is filled with beautiful women doing naughty things and kittens in the dryer—not in the same photo. If you’re wondering what Johnny’s style of game—it’s essentially direct, overtly-sexual, honest and comfortable. He is perfectly okay showing strangers photos of his hot pornstar girlfriend, him muff diving, etc. Parties with several naked girls running around in his house are within his reality.

    What did I personally learn from him? Strive for excellence in sex game. Kegal exercises, white tiger tantra, learn about the different orgasms women have. Be the best lay in town.

    If I want MLTRs, I should be comfortable and even encourage my women to have other men in their lives. There are several benefits to having open MLTRs, than say, an exclusive harem. One, your women won’t be as dependent on you. Two, your women will be more open to revealing what the competition is doing and keep you at the top of your game (not just sex-wise). Three, if you are truly working on yourself women will see how much better you are than most other men.

    Having a sexual frame that is so strong it is no longer a frame, but a reality will utterly consume everyone that gets in the way. Johnny Soporno is one of the those people who has lived a ridiculous lifestyle for so long that it has become a part of his identity and that’s cool to see. When I find some time I am going to go through all his free material at WorthyPlayboys.com.

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    Braddock held a phone conference on qualification which I was extremely upset to miss. Hopefully, the other Rockstars will post a summary of his talk on the thread. Back a few months ago Braddock was one of the lead instructors (along with Mr M ) at my bootcamp and he is an extremely bright and energetic guy. He has and will continue to raise the bar in high level game. His game theory is tight, and his technical material is on another level. Basically, the king of entertaining banter with a purpose (for example, disqualification). I’ve heard other instructors say that they wish they had a tape recorder when they are around him.

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    Angel from Shanghai spoke to us via conference call on MLTRs and locking in the gains we’ve made during Rockstar. There was a lot of good information to be learned from managing MLTRs. For me I was most concerned about locking in the gains. Some of their techniques come from NLP, others are just practical tips. Essentially, the push for change has to come from within. Just like when it’s easier to have an instructor or wing to push you into set, it gets difficult to continue growing when you are your only motivator.

    Find people who will keep you accountable. Be aware that contextual references: old sights, sounds, and people can conjure up old habits. Don’t let it happen. I know that my game got a little worse when I first arrived in London, because I wasn’t getting the same positive references. Now that I am back home, I don’t want those same references to hold me back.

    I can’t remember the link to Angel’s company which is based in Asia. Anyone who knows this please feel free to post and or PM me and I’ll edit this post.

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    In the past week I’ve done about 10 to 12 free 1on1 sessions in London that went on for about 2 hours each. If I had a dime for every lap I made around covent garden… I wanted to briefly discuss a couple of my thoughts on instructing and learning. I’m relatively new to the game and I have no intention of downplaying this fact; at the same time, I’ve had an extremely condensed learning curve.



    Instructing is more exhausting for me than picking up women. In the beginning, I always felt the need to be ready to give feedback, encouragement, words of wisdom, and be attentive to the students’ concerns. I was playing therapist, coach, and lecturer. I told Vercetti that I was burned out at the end of doing a 6 hour session. As an experienced instructor to many students and working with LoveSystems , Vercetti gave me some golden words of advice: manage your expectations.

    Having run my own business and done sales I knew the concept of managing expectations on the client side. Under promise and over deliver. What I had not taken into account were my own expectations as an instructor. I was expecting to dramatically change people in 2 hours. Overloading them with information I’d learn from Rockstar and punishing myself if the student had not made a breakthrough. And in many cases, the student feeds into this cycle usually because they are trying to soak up as much information as possible. This has taught me something about the learning process of game and being a student in general.

    Many beginning students ask for more information than they could ever remember or use, because they hope that there is one piece of advice that will radically change their game. To some degree, I think many of the breakthroughs in self-improvement and game have already been made; although, social circles and direct/sexual could use more publicity. If someone could incorporate all the information already out there on game, their sexual lifestyle would be more than adequate.

    My “formal education” in game has been extreme and I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone. 3 months ago I took a superconference -esque bootcamp in LA with Mr M , Braddock , DaHunter , 5.0 , Daxx , Prestige , Kisser, Helicase . After that I went out 4-7 nights a week and wrote in a journal/de-brief each night until I joined Project Rockstar and you can follow those adventures in the Rockstar thread.

    I certainly have not been able to assimilate and use every piece of information I’ve received in the past 3 months. I wish. However, I have made an effort to learn and improve the most in a short amount of time by periodically asking questions that were most difficult for me to ask, remaining humble, and staying out of philosophical arguments. I will elaborate on a few of the points I’ve touched on here.

    Asking questions that are difficult to ask. I’ve found that the questions I least wanted to ask were the ones I most needed an answer to. They were difficult for me to ask, because they acknowledge a weakness or blind spot in myself and a request to someone else for help. For example, Starlight has done exceptionally well in building independent value during his time in London and I picked his brain one night about networking. That discussion helped me see things in a new way and made me realize that some of the things I had been doing weren’t optimal for building relationships. I’ve had discussions with Mr M about being present and in the moment. These aren’t easy conversations for me, because they are what I perceive to be deficiencies.

    Remaining humble. Maybe you didn’t have a big ego when you first started in game. You read the Game and realized that there were people doing much better with women. Getting into the seduction community is a big first step, because it is admitting that there is work to be done. On the other hand, it is only a first step and there are traps in self-improvement that also known as plateaus. These are worse than sticking points . At least with sticking points we know there is a specific problem (difficulty escalating, kino , number close, etc.). A plateau occurs when we stop growing for long periods of time.

    Having met a ridiculous amount of people in the community, I see individuals who have reached a plateau, because they don't keep pushing themselves to learn. Sure, they may ask questions, seek out more experienced community members, but they don't actually incorporate new knowledge. This leads me to the last point…

    I try and stay away from semantic game-related debates. I personally have heard many conflicting theories and technical tips on game from top instructors who are equally successful with women. The myth of self-improvement is that there is one golden strategy, thought process, or acronym that will change your life. The truth is that there are good pieces of information scattered everywhere in this community. How to take advantage of the good pieces is a function of what stage you are at in game and how receptive you are to learning something new.

    The people I've seen improve most in game are the ones most receptive to change.

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    Mr M gathers us at the hotel in Essex to give us some parting words of wisdom. He kept it concise and the important points will stick with me for a long time. Leave the women better than you found them. By having done self-improvement ourselves we have the power to help and teach other people if we choose; to make other people’s lives better. Continue striving for excellence in all fields of life… game is just one part. True value is impossible to fake and by striving for excellence one has more value to give.

    Another lesson, Mr M pointed out during week 3 or 4, and I thought was worth reposting here. There is no perfect Game, no holy grail, no end—there will always be something to improve, so don’t neglect the rest of your life for incremental benefits in seduction . To be in the top percentile of seducing women and bottom of wealth and health is a failure.

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    Essex was cool, except I caught a flu that Mr M got from the hookers in Shanghai. I wasn’t in the mood to game, but decided I could at least contaminate a few Essex girls. High on cold medicine and beer. Loud 3 story warehouse-style dance club, I opened 80-85% of the women there, shaking hands, kisses, hugs. I’m sure I acted as the vector point of disease on the east side of London.

    Hit on my first pregnant woman. When she told me, I took it as the worst shit test ever. Went direct and told her I always had a fantasy of making out with someone who was 5 months pregnant and drinking at a bar. She didn’t take that very well.

    I laughed when Paladin told a girl she had missed the opportunity of a lifetime when she blew me out. “Do you know that you just missed the opportunity of a lifetime? That was your shot out of Essex. That guy is a walking lottery ticket. He works at a hedge fund, the closest thing your future husband will get to a hedge is with some clippers.” “lol Paladin, that chick didn’t blow me out dude, I didn’t even talk to her.”

    It’s 3am on Sunday morning, my flight out of Heathrow to Los Angeles is at 10am and I’m still on the other side of London. Say my good byes at the club in Essex and at the hotel, reminisce with Optimistic about how far we’ve come and the next step. I try and text every number close I’ve gotten in London and my phone poops out of credits. No time to sleep, take the night bus to Mr M ’s house and from there head straight to Heathrow.

    On the plane, I think about gaming the stewardess and the mile high club, but I can’t stay awake long enough to complete the plan…



    What’s next for me? Well before Project Rockstar I had been set on starting my career in the office. Now my mission and goals have radically changed. I could write forever on what I’ve learned about on the topic of lifestyle choice, but I’ll save the essay for another time.

    If you’d like to keep updated on my travel and adventures around the world visit my journal (coming soon): www.BlackSwanLife.com, which will also be linked to RockstarStory Book.

    Thanks to everyone who participated in this... I wasn't going to even try and credit everyone from the community who I've come into contact with and has taught me something, but fuck it. let's give it a shot... PM me and give me hell if I left you out.

    Thank You:
    Mr M , Vercetti , Daxx , 5.0 , AFCAdam, Soul , London_Hunk, Dr Yen, Lord Mega, Skeletor, Sasha, Braddock , FreedomOfSpeech, Sheriff , Sebastian Drake, Johnny Soporno, Harlequin, Angel, Ryan, Maximilian, Virgo, Max...

    and of course, the Rockstars... Optimistic, Starlight , Paladin, Keychain , Prizefighter. Remember the gangsta photo at Home House? We have the power to make that image famous one day.

    See you guys at Rockstar 2009!

    -BlackSwan



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    Default A Week After Rockstar....

    So in my 8 weeks in rockstar I learnt a lot. I thought it would be useful to find what have I have integrated in my life and what I'm keeping up in my week since the end of rockstar. The key areas where I can already see a huge change are:

    1) Goal-setting
    2) Positivity
    3) Personality in social settings

    Now these span a lot... so lets get started:

    1) Goal setting

    I had aims and goals before Rockstar. Obviously I did or I wouldn't have applied. But they were less focussed. I believe having a goal is key so you can plan to achieve it. If you just have vague interests then it makes it nearly impossible to plan what to do. If you know what you must do and what you are committed to do then you can plan tasks to achieve it.

    I absolutely love my iTouch now but not for the normal reason. The notes function is fantastic. I'm sure the notes on other devices are just as good but the important thing is to be able to generate lists and easy edit them. I have a few goal lists, 1 looking long term, 1 for the next 3 months and one for the following 3 months. I have just started out setting my own goals properly so I will start putting it into practise and see how it develops.

    But the massive thing is that now I feel that I have soo much time on my hands I've achieved more towards my goals then I had in the previous 6 months. Examples would be wanting to attend a TEFL course, learn more re first aid, improving my posture (thanks to Adrian for info on Rolfing - I will do it at some point), even my job interviews but the bigger goals come from making the most of your opportunities. I am going abroad to work and then to travel in India and China. I have stuff planned but I'll look for things to do on top of them. For example exchange my English skills for lessons on Hindi in India & Mandarin in China.

    That would be a lot of fun and I'll get some basic knowledge in the local language. At the same time it will help me to take on leading/teaching roles and I want the experience. If anyone has any desire to learn to lead, a good way of improving this could be as simple as going on gumtree and making a post to teach for free for XYZ, or ask for a skill exchange. You're getting a skill (leading others/taking the initiative) regardless but it may help to achieve another one of your goals.

    If you say, "I don't have skills" firstly slap yourself. Then continue reading as we all have skills we can teach. As you're on the internet I assume you can use your computer to get on the internet/check emails/use Microsoft Office. And you can read this... so you can read English (I hope) so you can teach that skill to someone who is starting to learn the language. Make use of your skills. And if you don't have any... its time to learn. Learn something that would be beneficial to others... and then find people who want that skill.

    2) Positivity

    During the whole of Rockstar I have felt more positive. One of the things I remember learning before project rockstar is that we have power over our emotions. We may not want to change them... there are times that people want to be upset... they feel they should be. But you can cheer up.. if you picture one of your favourite memories (one not linked to the subject that's making you sad) and feel how it felt, feel how happy you were at the time then you will cheer up. At the least it will give you an opportunity to get off your lazy bum and do something. I said to one of my friends who was down, that the reason he's down is that he's got too much time on his hands. If he was driving on a rally car course rushing around, he wouldn't be thinking about the things that made him down. Even the thought that went through his head of being in a rally car made him smile! Instead do something that you enjoy.

    Remember, nothing 'bad' that happens changes your value unless you let it.

    3) Personality in social settings

    When you're happy to make the initial conversation and talk about stuff it comes so much easier. I had an interview yesterday and I could be myself... I used to have a problem where I thought what I was going to say before I said it. I still have it a fair bit but a lot less. But being yourself (and being interesting with it) is what makes people know that you are genuine and a person that they want to hang out with.

    Do things you've never done before and meet people outside of your comfort zone, by doing your goals.

    There are a tonne more things I learnt but these are the things that have stuck with me most of all. Also, self-development is key. Always aim to improve yourself everyday. Most people don't and are lazy. Don't be the same. If you want to achieve excellence, make it a habit everyday.

    Anyway, you're notice there is little game in my post. I'm aiming at the moment to do things that I always wanted to do and to be in a position to teach others as I feel I want to improve my leadership skills. I feel 'game' mainly relates to being an attractive person with skills/traits associated to being a man, comfortable with talking and having the attention of a group. Then, after that, to reduce variance and increaI feel some routines, such as disqualification/push-pull lines, helps to push the subconscious triggers within women.

    Thanks to everyone involved with Project Rockstar. It was a blast.

    See you around.

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    I try and stay away from semantic game-related debates. I personally have heard many conflicting theories and technical tips on game from top instructors who are equally successful with women. The myth of self-improvement is that there is one golden strategy, thought process, or acronym that will change your life. The truth is that there are good pieces of information scattered everywhere in this community. How to take advantage of the good pieces is a function of what stage you are at in game and how receptive you are to learning something new.

    The people I've seen improve most in game are the ones most receptive to change.
    Wow. Dude that's a powerful realisation. Great post man.

    See you at the superconference in LA baby!


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    Final Post - Keychain


    Hey guys! So it's finally over...Project Rockstar 2008 has come to an end. And what an adventure it has been, from that first interview with Mr.M, Vercetti and Sheriff ...to the life I’m living today. I wake up every morning, excited about life and the possibilities ahead. Project Rockstar has taken off the blinkers that I was wearing…now I’m beginning to understand the huge potential in a life.


    I can say without a shadow of a doubt that Rockstar has been the watershed experience of my social life.


    I wanted in on Rockstar for the Social Circle Mastery principles…I had dreams of these ideas transforming the way I network and do business. It has. But little did I know what I can now walk into a room of high value people and actually forge alliances, build connections and create positive relationships where previously I’d be relying on ‘just being friendly’ to get by.


    My game has skyrocketed. We were trained 6 days a week for eight weeks by the top dating coaches in the world. That’s hours and hours of real INFIELD work. Not only were we regularly working one-on-one and in groups with London’s best, but we had regular guest talks and visits from some of the biggest names in the international seduction community. For eight weeks, we LIVED in-field.





    Thanks so much to 5.0 (Tuesday), Daxx (Wednesday), Vercetti (Thursday), London Hunk (Friday), Sasha, LondonSoul and Dr.Yen (Saturday and daygame whenever possible!) and Mr.M (who worked 9 days a week to keep this show on the road!).

    5.0 – such insightful and compassionate advice at every stage. 5.0 was always there for us to gently steer us through each stage of Rockstar…from those heady days of working on the basics of opening to teaching us instruction and set-critique…a true friend and a big brother figure.

    Daxx – very.fucking.cool.guy! Just hanging around this guy is so great, he oozes natural.

    Vercetti – some words…leadership, dominance, masculinity, achieving life-goals, deep breathing, centredness, power, overwhelming positivity, leaves no man behind, hero to many.

    London Hunk – The physical transformation his workout regime has begun in me will carry on for the rest of my life…his talks on living generously and helping others had me literally bursting with energy and desire to get out there and GIVE. A tidal wave of inspiration.

    Sasha – The funniest guy in the seduction community bar none. Beyond that, one of the few genuine innovators in game today – a genius of daygame with a unique and powerful approach to meeting women. One of the great teachers and a huge influence on my game and life. A confidant in the tough times and a mentor to me throughout the programme. True legend.

    LondonSoul – This man’s honesty, transparency, deep compassion and congruence have changed the way I live. Spending time with Soul has reprogrammed my attitude towards sex and attraction …no more guilt, no more fear, shame or embarrassment…all that replaced with freedom, light, expression and honesty. Deep inner game .

    Dr.Yen – This man’s enthusiasm, joy and ‘go for it!’ attitude have been so inspirational! A warm, considerate man when you get to chatting…and a tornado of sexuality and attraction in-field. This man defines the words: sexual threat (in all the best ways!).

    Mr.M – The father of Rockstar. I doubt any of us really knows what this man has achieved with this project, it’s so deep. But I do know that through his blood, sweat and tears Mr.M has changed the lives of six young men in a way that we could never deserve or repay. How can I thank the giver of such a gift? Simple: go on, live, grow, succeed, give back…be a fucking Rockstar!



    So many of the special guests have also made a deep impact on me, I can’t hope to name them all (please read through my blog to find reference to all of these great men)… Sebastian Drake, Johnny Soporno, AFCAdam, Harlequin, Sheriff , Skeletor, Virgo…the list goes on.

    And so many members of the seduction community in London who ran with us on the journey… you know who you are! Great friends.

    And the Rockstars themselves…Blackswan, Paladin, Starlight , Optimistic, Prizefighter…guys, what a journey ey? Every one of you has picked me up when I’ve fallen, helped me out when I’ve been at an impasse and inspired me with your dedication and zeal for improvement. I hope to count you all as dear friends for the rest of my life.

    Guys, I have so much I want to do now…I’ve been teaching and have loved meeting and helping all of those that have been working with me. I love this and want to do much much more…I’ve been meeting and dating (and laying!) girls with the kind of beauty, personality and, um, talents that I literally never dreamed possible. Literally guys. I fundamentally did not believe that I had any right to be even talking to the kind of girls that I regularly meet, attract and seduce now…this has been a MAJOR SHIFT in my brain. It amazes me even as I write this, I’m humbled and so so grateful to all the instructors.


    Everyone, keep in touch, go visit my personal blog (The Adventures of Keychain ), and check out RockstarStory Book for futher info on future programmes. Thank you for following this journey…

    See ya in-field

    Laters,
    Keys


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    #8 PICK-UP-ARTIST IN THE WORLD 2009, THUNDERCAT LIST


    'It was literally my first step away from books and towards... people (*gasp*). From 0 to direct openers in less than 1 hour, what more do I need to say? That guy makes it easy!' - Joave

    'I've made more progress in a few hours with him, than probably hundreds of hours unaided...and to think there was a point in my life when I thought I would die a virgin.' - Will33t

    'As I approached women, we began to chip away at my technique, refining it with each approach...' - StudentX





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    Default Starlight.... hahahaha, I am so jealous. :P

    Hey Starlight ,

    Saw your comments about being from CA, and going to Shanghai. Struck a chord with me. So, wanted to reply. I'm a sub-newbie PUA (not even a novice, yet?). Read about your trip in Shanghai. Happy for ya, dude, (and a touch of envy, in a good way, I hope. )

    I am also 2 m, and from California, with yellow fever. Took a sabbatical from work to work on making myself more attractive to the opposite gender, after one-itis with a gal from Chengdu that didn't pan out. But, I now understand that, yes, women CAN backward-rationalize the weirdest cr*p. The best breakthroughs come from real life experiences. Anyhow, after studying Chinese a year, I started to pick up IOIs from gals on the bus who saw me studying Chinese here in Cali. That blew my reality! (Having an aerobics instructor ask for my number at end of guitar class also shifted my reality. Oooooh, THAT's why we tease in the Attraction stage. Check!)

    My brother turned me onto MM after I came back from China. He joked, 'Ok, you're only allowed to date girls in the same area code.' Haha.

    Now I gotta line up my basic Attraction /Qual/Comfort routines and get out there and do it.

    Congrats on your adventures in China, and Project Rockstar.



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    At one point I walked around on my own and like 10 girls opened me. How's that for cool? Families asked to take pictures with me. Art students chatted me up and showed me their work. Note to self: Being 2 meters, blond and from California is a DHV in China. Then I realized I was so sleep deprived from late nights of Shanghai lovin' that I fell asleep against a stone pillar. I awake to Mr M filming me and cracking up.

    A pua named Angel found Mr M on some underground forum. We decided to meet up and he met us at the open-air bar on the top floor of the Hyatt. He's english and has lived here for a few years. Seems cool. We went out the next night and I experienced my own Lost in Translation moment. I opened like 12 consecutive sets and NOT ONE spoke more than 5 words of English. One girl understood when I told her that she looked beautiful in her dress....then jumped up and down clapping and smiling. That was cute. Angel speaks Chinese. It makes things easier by miles



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