Thread: Was She Flirting With Me Or.....

So theres this girl I have in class and so lets dub her HB8.5. The reason I didn't really game her is because I have a rule about hooking up with girls where I HAVE to see them on a daily to weekly basis. We've noticed eachother, smiled and said Hey but thats as far as it went. A few days ago, I got there early to get some work done. She was there as well with someone else. She then walked up to me and asked if I ever went to this highschool which I did.

She then said that my face looked familiar and she kinda remembers me and said she was a grade lower then me. So she then started gossip about a friend's sister I knew who got pregnant and got kicked out of the house by mom. We got a little conversation started and rated eachother's work. The convo was dying out so I decided to excuse myself and get back to my work.

Later on in class, she was asking a few peeps if they had a color wheel. I had one and told her that I let her borrow my wheel if she could let me borrow one of her brushes. She looked around and asked someone else to borrow thier brush and smiled, "There I found you a brush". I then began teasing her how she still owed me and everything. After class, I wanted to #close her because I have a tendency of not pulling the trigger at a golden moment. So I left class earlier before she could get a chance to give me back my color wheel. I was chilling in the hallway drinking from the water fountain and she waled by, glanced and kept walking.

I caught up with her in the parking lot playfully yelling, "Stop, thief!". She looked over, smiled and begain to act like she was running and was trying to get away. I teased her about being a thief and she explained that even though she saw me in the hallway getting a drink, she would give me the color wheel next class. We walked together to her car and she gave me back my wheel. I noticed there were a few drops of paint. I then playfully told her how she messed up my wheel and owed me $50 bucks. She smiled and said, well you can use that as a reminder that you let me borrow the wheel. I smiled and she said, "Well, I gotta go..see ya buddy!"

I didn't number close only because it didn't feel like the right time. My worry is, I'm not sure if she was being flirty because she might like me or she was charming her way to get out of any trouble. Thats where I'm the most confused about!

Which one is it?

since she used the word buddy...she was thinking of you as a friend and trying to stay out of trouble.

so far you have shown her no reason to be attracted.

even though you were flirting...she was just using her "woman powers" to get the paint wheel she wanted.

i would try some light kino and she her response to that. body language gives out a whole lot more information than words.

Thanks for the tip...I was talking about this with my friend who seems pretty experience in the ladies department. He thinks she was flirting and when I asked about whats up with the "buddy" thing, he just simply explains that I'm just a friend to her right now and gotta give it some time but slowly escalate it into somethng more...

My friend that was definatley flirting.

A girl will not interact with someone she is not comfortable with. Let alone joke the way she is joking with you.

You are in a good position bro. Trust me I know when a girl is flirting and that is playfull flirting. There is sexual flirting and playful flirting. You have playful flirting both good in my opinion.

what is better than a girl who is attractive and gets your sense of humor ? Gotta love that. Anyhow sarge on!!

Thanx MARZOSIRUS! For some reason, that gave me a little boost in more confidence. Next time I see her, I'm going to work on building attraction , use strong body language and kino . If its a good vibe and she gives me a few good IOIs then I'll ask her to hangout like maybe help go shopping or hangout at a park. I do have one question though, since she knows and remember me from school....is there any need to use any comfort ?

Originally Posted by BigSeanSDB

Thanx MARZOSIRUS! For some reason, that gave me a little boost in more confidence. Next time I see her, I'm going to work on building attraction , use strong body language and kino . If its a good vibe and she gives me a few good IOIs then I'll ask her to hangout like maybe help go shopping or hangout at a park. I do have one question though, since she knows and remember me from school....is there any need to use any comfort?

Naturally the more positive time you spend with someone, the more comfort you are building.

I sounds like it could be either, she may have been attracted to you, but It may of been just because she wanted something, next time you see her, don't flirt back so much, give her a few attration stories, make sure your body language is good, and don't make it so easy for her, also don't come on to strong