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    What the hell??!?!??!

    I dont know whats with me, but every girl i seem to attract (and am attracted to ) are in some sort of relationship. Its been happening to me for years now. I never ask a girl if they have a boyfriend, i always assume they dont. but then after we have hooked up they tell me about their bf. im single and i really dont need a relationship so thats fine with me i tell them, usually these hook ups only last for a few weeks anyway.
    also, whenever i try to have a real relationship (twice) with a single girl i end up getting fucked (back in my AFC days).

    so this is my story. a couple weeks ago i met this girl, really hot (HB9.5) i didnt get her number nor i got hers, but i gave mine to her friend. HB9.5 calls me a couple days later and i asked her out.
    when we went out i was kinda nervous, we met a couple of my friends at a bar, they kept telling me that she was totally into me, i wasnt even spitting game on her, i was just having a good time. we went to her house afterward to "watch a movie" and we talked for a while, i felt we had a connection.
    when she told me she liked my do-whatever-i-want-whenever-i-want-to attitude i knew it was on, we started making out, got LMR, took care of it and then cuddled after sex. we talked on the phone a few times after that, and then last saturday when i invite her to come with me and my friends to an upscale club she tells shes got guest visit, she tell me its her bf!!
    i thought it was hilarious and disappointing at the same time. but im seen another girl now, yep she has a bf too, they have been together for a month. the second i saw this girl i knew we were going to hook up, she knew it too.

    i just want to know if anyone else has this kind of "problem" or can give me logical explanation for this, i would like your feedback.

    im starting to think there is some kind on magnetism or subliminal shit going on that attracts them to me...i dunno anymore



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    but then after we have hooked up they tell me about their bf.

    If she bangs you anyway it was either a mercy fuck or shes afraid of her boyfriend (whos being a complete patriarchal numbnut if he's that jealous IMO).
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vulture629 View Post
    If she bangs you anyway it was either a mercy fuck or shes afraid of her boyfriend (whos being a complete patriarchal numbnut if he's that jealous IMO).
    she would cheat on him if she is afraid of him??? it doesnt make any sense buddy. i dont see how that could be a mercy fuck either (??) when most of the time they are the ones coming on to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TigerEye View Post
    they have been together for a month.
    After six months, he MIGHT be a BF, but after one month, he's still just the guy she's fucking until she finds something better. Just remember that a woman who cheats with you will cheat on you.

    You've been warned.


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    i know, that happened to me last year, i hooked up with this girl who had a bf for 1 year, they were even living together, she broke up with him the day of his birthday and a month after that she cheated on me with her best friends crush, behind her back....lol so much drama...but lesson learned..never date women seriously.

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    Oh well, I'd just continue banging chicks if I were you
    Quote Originally Posted by TrueStory
    I've fucked your type of girls in the ass before she had to meet her boyfriend for dinner. Guy NEVER suspected a thing.

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    I dont know where you live but it sounds like you are in the twilight zone of singleness. Every girl has a bf. Thats my dream to find girls like that that want no commitment just sex and since they have a bf its easy to compete because u can easily be a more interesting guy. First of all you dont know what you want... Do you want hook ups? Then no problem these girls will cheat on their bf. Want a relationship? Dont hook up with girls like that. If u sarge a place that has 5 sets its unlikely that all have bfs unless u go to weird places to pick girls up. Rule of a thumb: Saturday nights almost no girl with bf go out without him so...

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    she would cheat on him if she is afraid of him???

    Ya. Females don't like confrontation; so they'll cheat on someone, and then who has to deal with the jealous boyfriend who now wants to kill someone? Thats right, they guy she cheated on.
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    Quote Originally Posted by silversixone View Post
    After six months, he MIGHT be a BF, but after one month, he's still just the guy she's fucking until she finds something better. Just remember that a woman who cheats with you will cheat on you.

    You've been warned.


    Silver
    I agree with silver completely. Women want what they need right now. If a woman doesn't love their BF very much and they need sex and he isn't there to provide it, they will seek it elsewhere. I've seen it happen countless numbers of times to many friends. Though they idea of "friends with benefits does sound kind of appealing" lol.

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