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Guys, I hooked up with cougar the other night and I have a ...
Guys, I hooked up with cougar the other night and I have a feeling she might be having buyer's remorse. Let me tell you what went down and any ideas as to what to do or not do would be greatly appreciated.
About a week ago, met a HB8 (she is a little older and was probably a 9 back in the day). She actually opened me and I drove from there with flawless execution through A1, A2, and A3. Plenty of kino escalation with number close with plans to get together.
On new years day, I drive to take her out for sushi. She lives about 50 min away (that is highway so it is pretty far). We eat and drink with a venue change and flow through comfort with plenty of positive compliance. There was plenty of drinking going on with both of us.
Get to her house and she leads me in without even inviting me in. It was no time before we were rolling around on her couch. After about an hour of that she forces me to leave saying it would not be good if I stayed any longer.
I leave with positive exchange at the door.
Next day morning I send a text "Had fun last night" with no response. End of next day I call and get voicemail and say "Hey, touching base. Had fun, hope you did to, hope the rest of your week goes well."
It is the next day from that with no response to either. Between meeting and date, she was very responsive to both calls and texts.
Is this a case of buyer's remorse and what is the best way to handle? This is someone that I would like definitely have in the rotation, but no big deal if nothing happens again.
Thanks for any thoughts.
I wasnt there so i cant really get into the flawlessness of the situation but the "she forces me to.." sounds a bit awkward especially if u were turning her on all this time there.
Also the next day since she did that you shouldnt respond like that. You should had IOD'd her for being that awkward last night. Less is more in this situation. Also Had fun last night is not something i d use especially because it reminds her of the awkward situation she was yesterday.
I d call her the day after tomorrow to tell her I am going there if you want come and that would be all. If she wants to see u again she d come if not you d just go with some of the other women you have.
Sorry if my reply is a bit off but i dont really deal with buyer's remorse anymore. Meaning that if it happens probably i did something wrong to trigger it. Damage control is something i dont do anymore except for the thing i told you. I just say next.
The forcing me to leave seemed more like anti-slut defense and last minute resistance. She seemed like she was getting too into it and that if I did not leave she was going to go too far.
Good advice and thanks for the response.
Yeap 99% that was it. But LMR happens when you have left some gaps on your game or you havent turned her on enough that she can still think rationally. I think thats where you must search for mistakes.