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    How do you respond to a girl saying "I love you" to you
    whats the best way dealing with this



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    It's a shit test neg her, she's trying to LMR you into ASDing where she can SOI with her MLRT. The first response is to DHV then DLV, then IOD, don't, you'll need to FTC again otherwise, which will take you into EV territory before C37.5. Instead stay in A2.64 and run jealouse girlfriend while social proofing with a HB 15. AMOG the HB then us BF destroyers.

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    Anyway the actual anser is if it's in attraction, neg her, and I do mean neg don't tear her up, or be insulting. You don't have to seperate this one like you do normal negs from IOI's because she is acting out a rapport situation, which is the same as trying to get rapport with you (assuming she is serious about it, it could be a shit test but I don't know any girl who would risk creating a big misscommunication like this just for a shit test). Anyway the fact she acted out a rapport situation means she DLV'ed in addition to IOI'ing (acting out a rapport situation or trying to get rapport with you is an IOI, and a dlv). It's the same as if a girl asks where you live in attraction.

    Normally if a girl IOI's you you can't stack into a neg because that will cause negative momentum in the sarge. You have to put a routine in before the neg assuming you wanted to do one. However this is a special case where it's congruent to neg because she DLV'ed. (some say her doing rapport stuff in attraction or trying to get rapport creates negative momentum with regards to qualifying where she won't want to meet your standards (because you accepted her DLV'ing) but whatever).

    If it's C1 I would say "I love me too", but then tell her you love her back when you read C2, ie mark it down in a way.

    If you are in C2 or C3 just say I love you back.
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    another good question is how do you know when a girl means it when she says "i love you" or not?
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    Quote Originally Posted by jasonpower111 View Post
    How do you respond to a girl saying "I love you" to you
    whats the best way dealing with this
    For the millionth time, PUTSF.

    http://wwv.theattractionforums.com/f...highlight=LOVE

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    What to say when she says 'i love you'? (A question)

    Hey PUAs wudup

    so my question is: What do you say when she says 'i love you'? do you just say 'love you too' or what?

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    HB: "I love you"
    YOU: "I know "

    HB: "I love you!"
    YOU: "I don't blame ya! "


    Don't say "I love you" UNLESS you really do and mean it.


    To girls it has completely DIFFERENT meaning than it does to us.

    (learned from painful experience)
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    oh maan that sounds cool! and thanks for the fast anwser

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    Depends on the stage you're in.

    If you're only friends:

    HB: I love you.

    Pua: I love you too, but only as a friend.



    If it's beyond an LTR--and you feel the same...Truestory nailed it.


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    "you don't really love me. you just worship me... theres a difference"

    "I love burger king??"

    "whats love got to do with it?"

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    Quote Originally Posted by TrueStory View Post
    HB: "I love you"
    YOU: "I know "

    HB: "I love you!"
    YOU: "I don't blame ya! "


    Don't say "I love you" UNLESS you really do and mean it.


    To girls it has completely DIFFERENT meaning than it does to us.

    (learned from painful experience)
    Can you explain?

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