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I met this chic last spring. ...
How do I get this girl past second base.....
I met this chic last spring. I finally get her over to my place, this was about the third date, and we end up kissing and then it got really intense and I took her shirt off and was touching her breasts. And she has like incredible tits! Like probably the best set I've ever laid my hands on. So I ask her if she wants to go lay down and she basically says that she has to get home to her kids and doesn't have time.
So then months go by and she's always busy can't get together. So finally I get her over again this week. We picked up where we left off pretty quickly as there's definitely a connection there. This time when it got really intense I just asked her if she'd like a back massage. I didn't want to scare her again. She almost agreed to it. Like she was "that close", but then the intensity slowly died down. Instead we just made it into a very lengthy make out session. Then she left.
So the next date is suppose to be a lunch date because that's all she has time for this week. I get the distinct impression that it's become a situation where she wants it to develop into something serious, so she's been taking her time. Which is fine but I'm thinking man I can't wait for this girl forever.
What should I do in order to get her over her and taking things to the next level? I can usually close when I get a girl that far but for some reason this girl is strange, she's like holding out. What a pain...Any thoughts?????
How old are her kids, and how old is she?
Hard to say her reasons that she's doing what she's doing.
Has she pursued you in any way? It sounds like she has young kids.. who's watching them?
You can't pick up where you left off.
I would LJBF her unless she gets a babysitter. Unless you enjoy it the way it is.