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Who lies more? Men ...
Excuse me guys, can I get a PUA opinion on something...
Who lies more? Men or women?
Lol i lie to everyone just making up stories, even making it obvious is kinda funny. Making them sooo over the top
I will go as far as to lie about: "hey last week I was at this..." or "you guys saw the fight outside?!"
But I will not lie about who I am or what I've been trough in life. When she'll ask me if I have been traveling alot, I'll tell about my traveling, I will not lie about it.
In other words: attraction routines, I do lie, I haven't seen a fight just a few seconds ago... but if she asks me in comfort a legit question, radical honesty is my deal.
By the way, it's girls definately that lie the most... at first they always pretend there not into me and then suddenly they make out with me... see... girls... they lie most
I live by a simple rule...
If i can get caught lying about something...I won't lie about it.
No I didn't almost die the other day, no I didn't see a fight outside. But who cares? Nobody is going to go out of her way to find out.
Also, if your going to lie, be congruent with your lie. If your going to tell a magic story, be into magic. If your going to tell a motorcycle story, ride a motorcycle. It's usually pretty obvious when your not congruent.
Truth be told, being caught in any lie is a big DLV. Think of the last time you caught a friend lying...
'Do you ever lie...'? is a solid inner game question.
To lie or not lie, what is a lie, what is the truth? Saying something and being incongruent with it comes off to the set/HB/person as a lie, or more accurately, looks more suspicous than something said congruently.
Google the words 'slave morality.'
Lying demonstrates that you are insecure with who you are. Even if she doesn't find out, you will know deep down that you had to lie to get her to be interested in you, and that will effect YOU.
Not to mention, what's the point? She'll eventually find out you're full of it, and it's over. If there's anything women don't forgive, it's liars.
All is fair in love and war... LIE YER FVCKING BALLS OFF! Girls are the biggest liars there are... they lie without even opening their mouths... they stuff bras... cinch waists... wear heels... Hey - yer tits aren't that big... and yer waist isn't that small... and you definitely aren't that fvcking tall - all of this before they even open their mouths... seriously though... you should always be a gentleman and treat women well... to a degree - that is... obviously... don't supplicate and all that dumb crap... but you know - be cool and nice... and you know the deal...
Originally Posted by Slav
But, NEVER WORRY ABOUT LYING TO A GIRL! Trust me... every girl you have ever known... has told you lies... MANY LIES.. regardless of how white or little they may be...
I never say anything that flat out isn't true about myself.
However, I do exaggerate stories in my life to make them more interesting and display attractive qualities.
Well I tell them that within a week I will be going off on a space ship with Ben Affleck and Bruce Willis to destroy an asteroid on a collision course with earth.
"We are men of action. Lies do not become us." - Wesley, the Man in Black, aka 'The Dread-Pirate Roberts'
I don't EVER lie to anyone who I'm going to need to trust not to geld me as I sleep next to her. Which basically means any women I'm interested in, because it's pretty inevitable that I'm going to fall dead-asleep (albeit briefly) after she blows me.
In all sincerity, I simply don't lie at all. Your reputation is one of the most substantial and 'real' tools at your disposal, and a reputation for honesty and integrity is invaluable, both in sexual relationships as in all other aspects of life.
MY problem is that my absolutely-verifiable, completely accurate descriptions of what has happened or is happening in my world SOUND LIKE TOTAL BULLSHIT.
This is why I take so many photos - otherwise even _I_ wouldn't believe my own stories!
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