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Hey guys, ill get straight to it, i was sarging just a ...
A3 TRAP help!
Hey guys, ill get straight to it, i was sarging just a couple of days ago and there was this girl that i opened, after several iois we went off to eat somewhere. Whilst walking i was proceeding into A3. I used the 'if nothing was holding you back what would you like to be'. She said she wanted to write a novel, and that she loved authors : x , y , z (fucking russian names or someshit). I qualified myself by saying 'omg seriously, no way i love that'
She then says: "name me one book by x".
ROFL i blanked out what should i have said her if i wasnt knowledgable about that topic!!! Surely this will occur sometime we cant all be interested in every HB's hobbies and dreams lol.
2nd part of the question is, i'm actually meeting this girl again, what would be a good strategy to resolve this and i think now her trust level has lowered pretty much. Coz of my bullshitting. Shes quite intellectual, reads quite a lot, but her confidence is not that great, so i laid off the negs. Is there anyway to redeem myself? Should i just keep showing alpha characteristics until i get iois again or ? Any ideas would be appreciated.
hah, that's funny. Well it's a shit test lol, so do'nt respond to it logically. Just say, you know what, look don't tell anyone this... but I actuallly can't read. I never passed 1st grade. I'm surprised I've made it this far. Standard shit test passing competency.
As for general A3, if you do'nt know baout the topic, just qualify her on somethign general like "i like girls who are intelligent and well read, etc. Tell me about the book". there ya go
Remember to calibrate your game, with each girl their personality and temperament varies. Don't just throw out lines whenever you feel like it.
The whole bullshitting thing is unfortunate, and it's also why I like to bait with more generic topics like "what nationality are you" or "what do you want to be when you grow up" etc.
Hmm, It seems to me just didn't think quick on your feet at the moment.
Originally Posted by intel
When she told you wanted to write a novel, you should of said something like No way! That's awesome..and then go off on what it would be.
She told you the names of the authors she loves, and you qualified saying you love that.
Hmmm, Probably just tell her that its awesome that she has some great authors she loves....She has variety while others will only read textbooks or...books from.......damn, I can't think of an author...only tom clancy lol....
You see that was a pretty great qualification...of course not to your tastes...and not to your knowledge yet, since you don't know what books those authors she said wrote.
But, It was pretty different than what someone else would say.
for the second part...hmm, pick up a reading for dummies book hah, that would throw her off ...no just kidding with ya man...Just continue it and don't let it bother you...she should get over it.
The reason she shit tested you is when you said you liked what she did it set off the alarm in her head that makes a girl think you are just agreeing with her to get into her pants.
My opinion is you could have pretended you didn't hear her question and just go into:
"Yea, It's rare to find a girl that enjoys literature. Personally I love (name one or two GOOD authors that do not relate to the ones she likes).
Any girl would feel weird by asking "name a book by my author" again if you go onto naming your fav authors.