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Ok openers are quite generic in nature, can be used anywhere at ...
Situational openers list
Ok openers are quite generic in nature, can be used anywhere at anytime. But there are some openers that work in specific situations (and are sometimes more effective than 'hey guys, can i get an opinion...'
failed afc opener
a few weeks back a two set gets approached by an afc, who tries unsuccessfully to get them to dance..i bowl up with a smile and say jokingly
'you were SO in there..that guy was perfect for you..i mean he is my idol..i too want to be able to go up to girls and be able to pull them with dance moves like that'..'a year from now youll be alone and crying 'why! Why! WHY!! did i let that guy go!! if id of fallen for those silky pelvic gyrations i wouldnt be so unhappy now! oh woe is me!'
it fitted the situation rather than being a question out of the blue, cos we were taling about a 3rd person i was less of a threat and i engaged the set
I then altered it when i was standing at a doorway and i guy was persistently trying to open a girl and after gettign no love ejected, i stepped in with
'well you have to admire his perseverance..that guy wasnt taking no for an answer' and she went into one on how creepy he was..once again cos its in the 3rd person i sneaked in as a non threat
Bag dancing opener
I saw two hbs dancing round their bags, here in england thats behaviour common to essex girls (blonde, dumb, easy and defo not classy)..so i opened with 'classy! i bet youre essex girls...where the white stilettos?'..they gasped but they played the game and threw back some banter at me
Pole dancing opener
I saw a girl trying to pole dance and used avariation of the above, 'classy!..you must make your parents very proud...'..that worked real well ..never underestimate a girls illogical compulsion to qualify herself to a complete stranger..she went into a speech about how she never does that stuff, it was a dare from a friend..etc
Foreign waitress opener
In central london its 90% likely the bar staff are foreign (mainly polish, but commonly brazilian, spanish, french, swedish etc) so an opener like
'where are you from?' always works well and if you have a neg for their city/country it works even better..i met a waitress from paris..when she told me i said 'ive been to paris their so rude and arrogant..i dont want to speak to you any more'..*theatrical backturn*..she spent 5 mins qualifying to me and trying to say how great her city and its people were (bear in mind she was supposed to be working)..i kept negging all the way and she kept coming back every 10 mins or so for more banter
i want to have an opener for a load of given situations rather than a generic one, a good one i saw last week was the phone openers that some guy thought up when a girl is checking her phone (did he call? no? there must be something wrong with you then?'). I saw a girl checking a phone and used it and she opened easily.
so if you guys have any openers that work in a specific scenario please list them below
Girl looks totally bored
"Hey, See that bouncer over there? *point off into yonder* He said if you keep being so boring he's gonna throw your ass out."
now you can crack a smile at this point or if she doesn't immediately qualify keep the frame serious and hit her with a couple more negs about being boring. Don't tell her she looks bored, accuse her of being boring. There's a huge difference. I've been having success and they've immediately qualified telling me they've been at work all day or some other excuses.
Expect some possible shit tests, keep the frame, pass them, and you'll get the IOI's
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Originally Posted by wanderer
Can you go into greater detail about the conversation flowed through that opener?
I'm definitly using it at the bar tomorrow; it seems like a perfect thing to say to a girl when you head over to one side of the bar to order a drink then you tell the HB(s) right next to you the opener.
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