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I was watching some episodes of the show ...
Opener Idea (need help expanding the idea)
I was watching some episodes of the show "Keys to the VIP" the other night and I saw a good idea for an opener, I'm just not sure how exactly to craft it. I noticed that many of the guys on that show got shut down by girls and they always gave these weak, obviously fake, excuses: "Oh, I'm moving to Washington next week, so I won't have time for coffee", "I can't dance with you, I'm just here with my friends tonight", etc and so on. It almost sounded like a grade school kid trying to make excuses for why he forgot his homework!
So, I figured there has to be a way to craft an opener out of this by asking the girls what types of excuses they usually give or what their most outrageous excuse was for turning down a guy.
Opener - Excuses
"craft an opener out of this by asking the girls what types of excuses they usually give or what their most outrageous excuse was for turning down a guy."
1)Use a time constraint, and start your opener like it is about a friend of yours cause if you don't, it seems that you are asking for yourself and this is DLV.
Let them talk and then if it goes well say that you can't understand how "some guys" actually believe these excuses. On time go for the second part:
2)say my story 4urself...once you met this beautiful girl in a club from a friend so after you talked to her for about 5 minutes you took her phone number and arranged a date cause it was late and you were about to leave.When you saw her again on a date you decided that she had nothing beyond her looks and that she was not funny (or any quality you want in a woman) & you told her "hey let's meet another time and do something ....with friends!!" cause you didn't want to make it seem like you turned her down.
I think if you use both parts you have enough DHV spikes to go on.
Last edited by ilink; 02-13-2007 at 10:40 AM.