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Getting laid in College: Sorority Girls
getting laid in college is not as easy as everyone might think. the women are younger, and coming fresh out of high school where social status is what ultimately defines you, the mentality carries over. the first thing to look at is whether or not the campus has a predominant greek system. if everyone is in a frat, dont expect to get hot sorority girls unless you are too. the second thing is a universal concept, which is identifying your target market. if u like asian girls, network with asian guys and get introduced, etc.. the point is, you have to be established socially first in order to have any consistent success in any given social circle. everyone is in a different crowd, so figure out which crowd has the kind of women youre after, and join it. ok. about frats. the hottest women on campus are in sororities. but the greek system works more like high school in its social dynamic than any other crowd. the better the frat ur in, the hotter the girls that will come to party. its a name brand kind of thing. every frat has a different rep, so depending on the rep girls will either come over to drink up all ur shit and then bounce, or come over to get laid. also, your target pool will be divided. typically, younger sorority girls that cant get into bars wll hit up frats like theres no tomorrow. the ones that are over 21 however, will primarily go to bars but still ask you which frat ur in as a way of qualifying you. being part of a frat on the low end of the social ladder can be a dealbreaker in itself. another downside to being in a frat is the universal reputation that all fratboys are players. the image is of a wild horny alcoholic prankster that wont call you in the morning. trust me, it kinda sucks. i have attraction right off the bat for being in a frat in most cases, but getting over this stigma that causes ASD shields and LMR to plague my every interaction is a bitch. another thing to keep in mind is that the flake % goes up. everyone has different schedules, and with class drop/adds they change quite a bit. you'll find yourself flaking out on girls as well unless ur not a very active person. one complaint ive heard from a few high quality female friends of mine is the lack of identity that guys have in school. it seems that most guys are in a transitional stage while in college(which is true), and there is no set identity off which congruence tests can be bounced. identities are sculpted based on majors, and are more like forward projections of who youre going to be upon graduation that affect your present social status. again, the fratboy image supercedes these identity issues for the most part, and these questions will most often come up in comfort rather than as an initial attraction qualification. so what works? for me, it was developing a large social network, carrying myself as the prize, being highly active on campus, always doing favors, and being a good listener/ problem solver for my actual female friends(not targets) who now always come over to party with me and introduce me to their hot friends.
No one will read this (inlcuding me) while its one long sentance.
Try editiing it to be reader friendly and you might get some replys
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i wasnt really looking for a reply but thanks for the tip. i'll do that in the future.
What college identities would you say you recommend since this has been a problem that's been on my mind even before your thread?
problem for me too. i go to arguably the best frat school in the country and i didn't pledge.
the fraternity parties are big and I can't get in. sucks. at least you still have the bars though.
^because you didnt have the balls to swallow your pride and commit to something.. the same reason youre game needs work....
this topic is completelly and utterlly retarded.
college is the easiest venue ever. even before i pledged, i never slept alone in my bed, mind you i only fucked a choice few. but i never have had any problems with needing women in college.... its like shooting fish in a barrell.
This thread is ew. The notion of an ENTIRE COLLEGE having a social hierarchy is rediculous. There's simply too many people. Even if there is a slight social hierarchy, an efficient gamer can easilly get in with ANY group. These kids just left home, they're still looking for father figures.
Originally Posted by Rewok
what the fuck are you talking about?
i'm a bodybuilder and being in a frat would interfere with my training and diet. don't tell me i've never committed to anything when here i've gained over 80 pounds in the past 1.5 years (150 to 230) and i'm benching more than you squat.
His correct point is getting laid in college is incredibly easy relative to getting laid before or after college. OP's first sentence is ridiculous.
Originally Posted by southernstunna
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Let's not diss bicep peaks. I happen to think they are very important in a sarge.