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    She's got a Boyfriend, but she's showin IOI's

    Theres this hot gal in ma class , i known her for 3 weeks
    she gave me her no. but i don't call her , goes into her voice mail !, i dont leave any voice mails ,
    she's come over one day to ma place, to wrk on a presentation in our psy class,
    she keeps laughing , a lot , touching me , she says im funny , I took those as IOI
    but she's got a bf , she casually told me tht , i jus ignored it ,
    Now how do i handle it frm here , i never asked her out , she's got a bf , so i don't know whether she'll come , im going slow in my interaction with her



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    She's got a Boyfriend, but she's showin IOI's
    Theres this hot gal in ma class , i known her for 3 weeks
    she gave me her no. but i don't call her , goes into her voice mail !, i dont leave any voice mails ,
    she's come over one day to ma place, to wrk on a presentation in our psy class,
    she keeps laughing , a lot , touching me , she says im funny , I took those as IOI
    but she's got a bf , she casually told me tht , i jus ignored it ,
    Now how do i handle it frm here , i never asked her out , she's got a bf , so i don't know whether she'll come , im going slow in my interaction with her

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    If they are true IOIs then she's giving them as a nautal response to you. Her telling you about her BF was to let you know she doesnt want any funny business with you...remember she chose to tell you as a safety net for herself. Or maybe she's a prick teaser who just loved the mind fuck and ego boost.
    If they break up you got a chance though but don't try to make that happen. I've been in a similar situation as you...they never broke up and probably wont.
    Last edited by nicky; 10-16-2006 at 05:39 AM. Reason: New material

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    if it's not in a bar situation, she probably does have a boyfriend, though not neccesarily. but if she's comin over to your place and giving ioi's, she's at least thinking of dumping him or cheating on him. check out Boyfriend Destroying in the classics section, maybe do a search on "boyfriend", theres a lot of material on it. many hb's have boyfriends, but dont let that stop you! some girls want the safety net of having a bf until they find someone to replace him, some girls are quite happy to cheat. so dont count yourself out yet!
    one of my fb's has a (long distance) boyfriend, doesn't stop her from fucking my brains out once a week.

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    Alpham:
    the situation is very simple:
    This is a shit test by means of an IOI followed by an IOD. this means the girl is yours if you pass it through a mature masculine identity.
    game on bro, this girl is in CHECKMATE if you play solid game.
    the BF also counts AS A DISABLEMENT OF HER ANTI SLUT DEFENSE. this means she is releasing herself the burden of responsiblity in her relationship and passing it to you. this means she is easy if you have solid game.
    advice from now:
    just sarge her normally as if she didnt have a boyfriend. remember her considerations. also remember that most girls having a bf is a casual relationship anyway so she'll come to you easily if you play it normally.
    regards

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    Please read carfully: If in fact she really does have a boyfriend....
    RUN!
    They always go back..
    and i know what your thinking. "I just want to screw her and that's it." Youll get sucked in. Ive seen it happen, and have gone through it myself. They always go back.
    Especially if hes a good guy and dosent do anyhting wrong.
    You have no idea what your walking into. You may feel strong and confidant now. But slowly the situation will take you apart Brick by Brick.

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