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Advice? A girl that likes me is avoiding me for no good reason?
Ok so one of the girls that I'm semi close with and also likes me, seems to be avoiding me and not talking to me for no good reason.
Seeing as our paths rarely if ever cross during the day.
I really don't know why she's mad at me, and 4 times is not a co-incidence.
Girls do this on purpose, and I just don't know what's wrong. I swear, other than being a little too nice to her I did Nothing wrong.
Anyway, I'm not going to just ask her because that is the neediest thing ever.
Help? This is soooo random.
Obviously you did SOMETHING wrong.. otherwise you'd be making out with her between classes. I'm assuming you're still in high school based on your use of "This girl likes me".
Originally Posted by Legion5
"being a little too nice" can be a BIG DEAL.
Stop trying to see her. If you don't see her then don't worry about it.
You aren't even gaming her are you? If you were gaming her or using m3 you shouldnt have this problem.
hmm well girls can find the stupidest reasons to avoid a guy.
Originally Posted by Legion5
I was going to drop out the whole "hard to get" idea but 4 times seems more like she doesn want to be gotten period.
You can ask her though and continue gaming properly. If you slip it in right. Just be like "hey i consider you a good FRIEND, and id like to further be your FRIEND, but you've been acting real wierd lately".
She may ask "well what do you mean?"
And you say "well if you cant figure out something so obvious to me than its also become obvious that you were never my friend to begin" (disqualify her)
If she gets the slightest bit of an attitude here that means she absolutely attaches no value to you whatsoever.
If she tries to qualify herself than id pump in some type of social proof or dhv and be like like well "thats fine, but im gonna have to think about things" while i go out with this SHB9 tonight blah blah blah.
Truth is if she avoiding you it could be 3 things. Hard to get, she doesnt like you, or she cares about you so little to being she doesnt even notice shes doing it which more accurately = you caring about her too much that your noticing it/
P-U-A Sports.. Its in the Game.
There are a million different reasons:
Someone talked shit about you.
She has personal issues that are serious and none of your current biz.
Do not email ,text, or even call her.
Walk up to her in a public place and ask nicely "Hey stranger, you look down. What's on your mind?"
Face and Masters have the right idea. Notice that her not talking to you is driving you nuts and don't say "it is really" or else you wouldn't have posted it here? Do the same thing to her.
Nope just starting college. No clases yet, and I was, until she decided to avoid me.
Originally Posted by Masters
but do you really think it's THAT big of a deal? (being a little too nice).
That's pretty much what I've been doing, and I do a 50/50 split I do half M3, half up beat natural game. Call it augmented natural game.
and how not so? People talk about flakes all the time, but this is flake but this is more flaking on her own mood.
yay. I'm just very interested in how you said.
"being a little too nice" can be a BIG DEAL."
It's not on my mind per say, I just really want to know how to deal with it in the future.
Masters said something very interesting where he essentialy talked about pre-empting it.
Oh well, thanks for the imput, I'm not here to be captain negetive and focus on bad stuff, so oh well.
She wants you to chase. Obviously you know not to. Play it smart.
Because he believes in himself
he doesn't try to convince others
Because he is content with himself
he doesn't need others' approval
Because he accepts himself
the whole world accepts him
The Master- Tao te Jing
How do you know she likes you ?
P.S. What Face-model said is fine, but instead of calling her friend throw in nerd !
[or possibly nerd-burger]
dude! i was actually in this exact same situation 2 weeks ago. me and this girl were all over each other, then she went cold and unresponsive. looking back i had decided that i hadn't maintianed alphaness the whole way through. so yea watch that "nice" thing. at first i started to chase, then i just stopped calling, emailing, texting. when she did finally come around i took my time in responding. in my case however i found out it was a mixture of the niceness thing and issues that she was dealing with.
moral of the story don't chase her. she will see that u are not wonder why and respond back to you. when she does remain in higher value.