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Massive Inner Game Crisis!

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    Massive Inner Game Crisis!

    I'm unsatisfied with my body because it doesn't measure up to societies standards (not tall) so it massively affects my mind and confidence. So, I (to myself) feel ashamed and embarrassed or am afraid of a girl viewing my body or *penis.

    This issue is really affecting my life and I'd really like someone to talk to about this, so I'm reaching out to you guys.



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    Long story short, its out of your control. So become confident in your ability by realizing that not all girls regard tall men with anaconda penises a requirement. A small amount might but not all.
    "Those who hesitate masturbate"

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    Slim, thanks for your comment. Don't the really hot girls, like 9's are attracted to guys like that? I feel like I have no worth.

    In terms of sex, I don't have many lays.

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    Nothing new here. Control the controllables. Maximize what you got and then stop worrying about what you can't change, because, you know, you can't change it.

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    @Tank, thanks for your response. I wish it was that easy. I know what your saying, yet there's deep emotional pain I feel. It all started when I was new with girls and the first girl I ever got naked with was an insecure 23 yr old virgin, who told me "your short" and even "it's not the big" while she gave me oral for the first time. She compared me to other guys and said I wasn't good enough. So I have this fear of rejection, that a girl will see me and say something bad. I feel like I'd be REALLY hurt by it.

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    Massive Inner Game Crisis!

    Why are you taking what an insecure 23 year old virgin said so seriously? And how would she have any basis to compare you to anyone? Forget her and anything she said. She was probably so insecure in her looks and experience that she said those things out of self preservation in case she was shitty in bed.


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    what you have is a complete lack of exposure.

    if you interacted with a buncha women, you'd quickly see that some like you and some dont (just like all of us), and the "rejection" would quickly lose its emotional weight.

    I get "rejected" every night. I also meet tons of good-looking women who are into me. That's because I take more action than 99% of you guys here. For each 5minutes I'm on this forum I spend hours approaching women.

    you dont need pep talks or debates, you need to take action:

    http://www.theattractionforums.com/g...ml#post1016348

    inner game isnt strenghtened by reading forum posts, its built by taking action.

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    Gil really ended this thread with his response, and for good reason; it's actually what will help you.

    Are you looking for help? If so read Gil's post again.
    Are you here because you don't believe short guys can't get girls? I'm 5'6 and get lots of girls, and I've done it on camera, so there's your proof.
    Are you here because you think girls don't like guys with smaller dicks? By the time it get's to the point where a girl is seeing your dick, she's already attracted to you for many other reasons, a small dick is not going to be a deal killer.

    Are you here to bitch and complain and feel sorry for yourself? You're in the wrong place. Man the fuck up and go talk to girls, NOW!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cajun View Post
    Are you here because you don't believe short guys can't get girls? I'm 5'6 and get lots of girls, and I've done it on camera, so there's your proof.
    Cajun is referring to "Keys to the VIP" - google it with Cajun's name. Cajun is also taller than many Love Systems instructors past and present. Who also get hot girls.

    Study these three links:

    Why having a disability can actually HELP your game. (by a short Love Systems instructor who has only one arm)

    Be More Confident - Set Goals (specifically addresses the "too short" issue)

    Overcoming Physical Obstacles
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    1 - Read the Magic Bullets Handbook - it's the bible of the Love Systems community, answers 90% of the questions here, and saves you years of time re-inventing the wheel.
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