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    Girl says: "your too nice"

    I read somewhere that if a girl says your bad you should always agree... but what do you do if she says your too nice?
    Backgroung info: I never act nice (anymore, since getting game ) but its just some thing people attach to me... i think this is good because lately ive just been acting very C/F and teasing alot... and they still see me as nice... after the girl said this to me I said "no im not..." but then thought maybee i should say yes? so i changed the subject, but how would you guys handel the question?
    O yea, also i was making fun of her about something... she said something along the lines of what would you do if i failed all my classes? and i said something like "Id stop talking to you and pretend like i didn't know you " THATS when she said "no you wouldnt, your too nice.."
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    theres no such thing as "too nice" ...thats just a term that applies to those loser guys who are always "just friends"....
    Its a problem if this often gets attached to you, I get it too. Probably because of the way I speak and my general way of interacting with people, but it happens more with girls.
    If she thinks you are "too nice", then tell her some bad stuff you have done... whatever it might be. I tell girls about the only time in my life i went to strip club and me and my mate spent £1,500. This is always a shock to them, because in their minds I am not the kind of guy to go to a strip club... but it gets IOI's.
    Little comments like this here and there not only dispel the notion of "too nice", but also make you more interesting and adventurous...
    I dunno what else.

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    I suppose this depends on how congruent you are, but if you've already established dominance over her (i.e. the dynamics of the relationship is such that you have control), just physically 'violate' her in a playful way to show that you're not afraid of her. I don't mean anything morally reprehensible like taking advantage of her sexually or even rape (god forbid), but for example in response to a playful yet testy comment by a girl I grabbed her ass-cheek and gave it a good hearty squeeze. It was part caveman (to establish or strengthen frame of dominance), part 'fuck-you-with-a-wink'/neg. She was pretty much like, followed by .
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    yes maybe.... you need to be more physical... but not in a scary way. I always find a girl needs to be just a little bit scared of you, i.e. she doesnt know what you might do.... but she must never think you would harm her in any way whatsoever... its a balance

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    That my friend was a shit test. You failed it. The best thing to do would of to just ignore it and go into another routine or story.
    Another alternative is something someone in my lair does. He just says a random word to respond to a shit test then goes into his next thing.
    Example:
    HB:"you're too nice"
    PUA: "asparagus."
    PUA: go into another routine or story before she can respond.

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    I think you're over anyalising it to be honnest. Thats not a shit test. It wasnt a question or something, i dont think it is anyway. My view is she just likes you. It isnt as if she said. " hmm your too nice." like saying your personality is too nice as a general comment. she said it in comparison to your previouse comment about not talking to her again. the comment you said clearly was a joke but the context was quite harsh.. if someone were to actually stop talking to someone if they failed their classes, it would be seen as pretty fucked up. so she was merely confirming to you she knew you were joking by totally underminding the previouse comment by saying you are too nice to do that. not that you are TOO nice meaning aboce the recomended amount of nice. just that you are not too un nice to stop talking to her. showing you she hadnt taken the comment to heart.

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    Nice

    I agree with Poistricks. It sometimes difficult to "interpret" the nice comments toward one. But I believe that Poistrick made a valuable point. Other wise, if a girl negs you, or make niceguy comments toward you, what's funny to do is to just look down at her, smile a little bit, lightly bump her with your ass and say. Yeah right... and give a really flirtatious smile and a little nod. Hahahah, girls love that. Because they don't really know what the hell it means. But it establishes well the frame you want to be in. And that is of you being the on in control, and always seeing through her comments, and it's very sexual. Try it, and please let me know the response!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by eastside
    I read somewhere that if a girl says your bad you should always agree... but what do you do if she says your too nice?
    Backgroung info: I never act nice (anymore, since getting game ) but its just some thing people attach to me... i think this is good because lately ive just been acting very C/F and teasing alot... and they still see me as nice... after the girl said this to me I said "no im not..." but then thought maybee i should say yes? so i changed the subject, but how would you guys handel the question?
    O yea, also i was making fun of her about something... she said something along the lines of what would you do if i failed all my classes? and i said something like "Id stop talking to you and pretend like i didn't know you " THATS when she said "no you wouldnt, your too nice.."
    Any thoughts?
    Being "too nice" means you have weak/low value. In the PUA world it means you have a weak frame.
    Simply put you need to act more valuable, by being valuable and displaying that to others, you become 80% as valuable as you can display.
    The rest comes from being less lazy.
    Value is almost synchronous (is that a word) to frame.
    Yep isn't that cool?

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    That happend to me too, all this "your very nice" "your so sweet" "your a nice guy"
    Geez...
    "If you love someone, let them go, for if they return they are yours always, & if they do not, then they never truly were."

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