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    The Green Monster of Jealousy

    I have read in may places outside of MM that it is not wise (in any phase) to let your attention wonder to another woman momentarily. The idea is that focus is flattering and lowers her defenses by being absolutely focused on her. It also builds trust in that you're not just after any tail that comes along.
    However I think I have heard Dave D. say things like laying back and looking around at other women sometimes is advisable. Is this not simply a small jealousy plotline that you can use on a woman once she is sufficiently invested? (and show lack of neediness) Obviously some attraction and investment has to be there for jealousy to be triggered, on the other hand one doesn't want to use this too late into comfort building as it can break trust.
    I am not really sure how to balance such jealousy IOD's, can't you use them just like any other slight IOD in the punishment/reward phase of midgame? Personally, it seems too wusylike for my taste to completely ignore other women and focus completely on her.
    For the more experienced, what's your take?



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    Quote Originally Posted by tachyon
    For the more experienced, what's your take?
    Ain't go that much of "experience", but here's my take anyways:::
    Look... it's ok to do whatever you want.
    Look where ever you want.
    Look at whom ever you want.
    Do you think women focus 100% on you?
    Bullshit!
    Look man... giving her 100% attention will prove to her that you are "needy" of her... I mean... think about it for 0.14 seconds.
    Why not look at other girls?
    There you go man, Keep as cool as you can.
    It riles them to believe
    that you perceive the web they weave.
    Keep on being free!

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    I know that was exactly what I felt, but alot of people seem to disagree.
    I think its also important that we differentiate a girl comming and sitting in your lap, something that you obviously are not liable for (and builds true jealousy) in contrast to you looking at other random women.
    Thinking about it, the latter may actually be interpreted as a sign of neediness (since you are not satisfied, your eyes are always on the prowl) as opposed to qualifying her to see if she is quality material.
    On the other hand 100% attention is probably to unnatural...so I think in this case the optimal strategy is occasional glancing elsewhere if really merited. Hey, I'm not ashamed of my hormones, right?

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    Go out and get more field... field!
    There you go man, Keep as cool as you can.
    It riles them to believe
    that you perceive the web they weave.
    Keep on being free!

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