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    Insulting, Disrespectful, and Obnoxious - TRIPLE SHIT TEST DATE FROM HELL!!!

    Just woke up from one of the worst nights of my dating life, hopefully some of you can learn from this or maybe give good advice on how to deal with the date from hell.

    background - known HB9 for several months now, she was in a relationship with a friend of friend, however during their relationship she would always flirt with me and even asked me to kiss him in front of him once at a night club. always lots of kino and IOI, but she is bit of a wild girl as i learned last night. she recently broke up with her boyfriend, so we have been texting and flirting a bit for a week and decided we would hit up the town with a bunch of our friends, limo, night clubs, and a hotel for the nightcap. seemed like a good plan and a good chance for a score. i could not have been MORE wrong...

    $1500 dollars and no pussy later......


    shit test 1 - as soon as she started drinking she was being very obnoxious. she would loudly talk to her female friends about sex with her ex boyfriend. she mentioned several times other guys names. but then she would initiate kino again along with provocative actions, sitting on my lap, the regular stuff...a few hours in and total reversal of attitude...when i would try to get closer to her she would back away even telling me once "dont touch me". she would make stupid little jokes about my hair and nationality, pretty insulting stuff to be honest. but then she would say stuff like "you can stay at my house tonight dont go to the hotel"

    shit test 2 - she would start openly talking with other guys, sometimes random guys in the club in a flirty nature. it was a very hard shit test to handle, instead of standing there waiting for her to stop i left her twice and would just talk to her friend instead. have no idea how to handle that one...

    shit test 3 - i mean by this point, i already knew the plan was a total disaster. but it got worse. then she started openly flirting with my friend danny..taking pictures, even dragged him off to the bar by themselves (which she did to me like 10 min before)....danny is a good friend and coworker of her ex so i was pretty surprised what was going on. but then i noticed she was doing shittests to danny, she told danny she thought one his friends was hot and dragged danny off to introduce them. they disapeared and came back a few minutes later, danny shaking his head and her even more out of control. and what pissed me off even more, right in front of me, she tells danny "you can come sleep on our couch later tonight"...he denies and leaves.

    after that my patience was done, i even told her friends how out of control she was acting and they agreed. the night basically ended with her storming off with another of her friends, not even saying bye. while outside a house party at 4am, she and her girlfriend complained about wanting to sleep and took the limo home, ditching their other friends which they were angry about.. i slipped up and texting her something very suggestive along the lines of "damn sarah so you would rather go home alone than me going down on you all night..you suck"

    she texts me this morning "whoa john out of pocket!" which is total bullshit because with how many times she has teased and touched me any girl would have responded differently, i mean for christ sakes this girl cried when i flaked on her one night and turned down her request to take her home......then she calls me right after and i dont pick up.


    i want to NEG THIS CHICK HARD. let her know how ridiculous she was...but i just dont have it in me right now. im totally drained of all energy after last night, i have no idea how i would react to her if i picked up the phone. i dont want to diss her too bad because we have many mutual friends and there are high odds i will see her again.....but i cant come off like a pushover. i want to hear from you guys and get a level head.......since things are obviously not going to work out i need to smooth this out so that there isnt tension or drama between us. and sad to say but theres still a 10% part of me that wants to try and fuck her and kick her to the curb..



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    i need to know what kind of attitude i should respond to her..

    "i need a vicodin after what you put me through last night" she mentioned before the date that she was going to show me how to party hard

    "ur a crazy girl but not crazy enough for that?" as annoying as she is, her body is just too hot and the offer still stands...she must have flashed me her panties last night more times than the amount of shots i took..

    "speaking of out of pocket...."

    "sorry im gonna find a nicer girl to take me up on that offer..."

    really have no idea....i have a feeling that calling her out and saying she was obnoxious and rude would not fare well.

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    The most I have ever spent on a girl without getting some is $30. The most I have ever spent on a girl AND gotten some is $0. Just thought I;d throw that out there.

    Don't neg her, don't text her, don't call, her, don't talk to her.

    Let her go. Shit tests happen a lot. Where I have a problem is the fact that she was rude and disrespectful. Ditching her friends is all kinds of fucked up and that's what pisses me off. She already sent you a sort of "rejection of advancement" text and the best thing you can do is gather your cock and balls along with your self-respect and walk away. I'm not saying you'll never get to fuck her, but for right now, she doesn't need your attention. She needs to realize that you won't put up with shit. Texting her and giving her your attention will scream desperate and she'll fuck with you even more.
    Hey, it's all just advice. You can go out there and do whatever the FUCK YOU WANNA DO! - Hodgetwins

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    I don't think she's worth the time and energy but it's your decision.

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    agreed.....like i said im already really turned off. but we know alot of mutual friends....high probability of running into her again...

    how would texting her with negs scream desperate? something like "that offer only stood when i was drunk enough to put up with your craziness..."


    i already know where i need to stand on this...im the biggest breadwinner in my circle and i got plenty of other whores i can mess with. the money really isnt an issue to me i can make it back in a few days...i kind of have a reputation of being about my money and disregarding females and their BS....friends joke that girls are always trying to "trap" me with a baby or something. this girl left the impression she wanted a man with money so i was surprised it went so bad, with her hitting on broke dudes who dont even have 1000 dollars to their name..

    most of that 1500 was really because it was a friends bday...so certain things like the limo and hotel were already paid for regardless of pussy....it was just a nice setup i thought if i was going to score i wanted to it in a 5 star hotel and not a motel...at the club i only bought her 1 drink actually, but did buy bottle service for the table. but i wasnt the only one blowing money my friends were spending alot as well..

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    I don't think negging is even at option at this point. It looks like you had a bad night, that's obvious, but don't try to get revenge on this one girl.

    When you think about it, is she really worth all this nonsense? The fact that she abused what you gave her to begin with is disrespectful. But not all the blame is to be set on her for the night. You could've hit on other girls, gotten numbers, and COMPLETELY and UTTERLY ignored her attempts to get a reaction out of you. In that kind of case, I'd probably just focus on having a good time, meeting new people, and being the life of the party. She didn't lead you on - you lead yourself on by expecting too much out of her. Anyone can change in the flash of a second, you just need to be mentally prepared for something like that to happen. I've texted girls back and forth for 2 weeks and, when we finally met up, they ended up being spoiled little brats expecting me to fulfill their every need. When I'm faced with these kinds of women, the best option is removal of yourself from the situation - indifference and happiness towards others and life in general.

    The key to getting women to notice you? Being fully content and happy with yourself, the situation and anything else happening around you.

    Nothing stands in the way of your game but you.
    "The mind only acts as an enemy for those who do not control it."

    You only lose what you cling to. -Buddha

    Here's how I see it:

    Men act, women react. Don't take the woman's role.

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    The neg will scream desperate because after last night, you should be spending some time away from her with other girls. She should miss you (assuming she gives a shit in the first place) and know that while you're fun, putting up certain things will not happen.

    As for mutual friends, that's never stopped me from not giving a fuck about someone. You've got mutual friends so don't do anything stupid that will cause tension but that doesn't mean you have to text her. If you're turned off, you really have no reason to text her because pussy is all you want from her. Unless you want an LTR.
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    i feel like by ignoring that is tucking my dick between my legs and giving up..like she scared me away and im retreating....depending on the context of the return text messages..something that lets her know "yeah you know what bitch you really arent all that and im not interested in you anymore" but indirectly and in a way i can play off the oral sex comment maybe tease her a bit who knows...

    like i said eventual goal here is not LTR or anything like that...its to get a taste and then break her heart like i usually do with triflin american girls with GPS (golden pussy syndrome)...


    btw booking my ticket to the phillipines asap....american women are notorious for this kind of blatent drunken bitch attitude. i need a place where girls still respectful and are excited and happy to be treated out on the town or hit on by some one who is well off and successful...or a place where i can fuck a hot girl all night for 40 bucks lol.

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    ok im really appreciative of your insights d and BT.....i just feel like not responding to her "whoa john out of pocket" comment makes me look scared and that im retreating...i also have to recover from the obvious DLV i showed by offering her oral sex all night even after how obnoxious she was...

    I dont want her to guess she pissed me off...i want her to KNOW she isnt shit to me after her actions last night. i want her to know she fucked up and wont be getting any diamonds from me anytime soon lol...i want her to think i changed my mind about her, knowing her attention whore tendencies i feel like thats a good approach

    btw we are younger im not an old sugar daddy. im only 25 and shes 22 or 23 i think....im not ugly or awkward at least compared to her old boyfriend and the pathetic dudes she was talking to last night....id safely bet on that. my hot or not average is 8...

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    great now shes texting me again and again telling me to call her......with lols and smiley faces

    games games games....

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