Just woke up from one of the worst nights of my dating life, hopefully some of you can learn from this or maybe give good advice on how to deal with the date from hell.
Insulting, Disrespectful, and Obnoxious - TRIPLE SHIT TEST DATE FROM HELL!!!
background - known HB9 for several months now, she was in a relationship with a friend of friend, however during their relationship she would always flirt with me and even asked me to kiss him in front of him once at a night club. always lots of kino and IOI, but she is bit of a wild girl as i learned last night. she recently broke up with her boyfriend, so we have been texting and flirting a bit for a week and decided we would hit up the town with a bunch of our friends, limo, night clubs, and a hotel for the nightcap. seemed like a good plan and a good chance for a score. i could not have been MORE wrong...
$1500 dollars and no pussy later......
shit test 1 - as soon as she started drinking she was being very obnoxious. she would loudly talk to her female friends about sex with her ex boyfriend. she mentioned several times other guys names. but then she would initiate kino again along with provocative actions, sitting on my lap, the regular stuff...a few hours in and total reversal of attitude...when i would try to get closer to her she would back away even telling me once "dont touch me". she would make stupid little jokes about my hair and nationality, pretty insulting stuff to be honest. but then she would say stuff like "you can stay at my house tonight dont go to the hotel"
shit test 2 - she would start openly talking with other guys, sometimes random guys in the club in a flirty nature. it was a very hard shit test to handle, instead of standing there waiting for her to stop i left her twice and would just talk to her friend instead. have no idea how to handle that one...
shit test 3 - i mean by this point, i already knew the plan was a total disaster. but it got worse. then she started openly flirting with my friend danny..taking pictures, even dragged him off to the bar by themselves (which she did to me like 10 min before)....danny is a good friend and coworker of her ex so i was pretty surprised what was going on. but then i noticed she was doing shittests to danny, she told danny she thought one his friends was hot and dragged danny off to introduce them. they disapeared and came back a few minutes later, danny shaking his head and her even more out of control. and what pissed me off even more, right in front of me, she tells danny "you can come sleep on our couch later tonight"...he denies and leaves.
after that my patience was done, i even told her friends how out of control she was acting and they agreed. the night basically ended with her storming off with another of her friends, not even saying bye. while outside a house party at 4am, she and her girlfriend complained about wanting to sleep and took the limo home, ditching their other friends which they were angry about.. i slipped up and texting her something very suggestive along the lines of "damn sarah so you would rather go home alone than me going down on you all night..you suck"
she texts me this morning "whoa john out of pocket!" which is total bullshit because with how many times she has teased and touched me any girl would have responded differently, i mean for christ sakes this girl cried when i flaked on her one night and turned down her request to take her home......then she calls me right after and i dont pick up.
i want to NEG THIS CHICK HARD. let her know how ridiculous she was...but i just dont have it in me right now. im totally drained of all energy after last night, i have no idea how i would react to her if i picked up the phone. i dont want to diss her too bad because we have many mutual friends and there are high odds i will see her again.....but i cant come off like a pushover. i want to hear from you guys and get a level head.......since things are obviously not going to work out i need to smooth this out so that there isnt tension or drama between us. and sad to say but theres still a 10% part of me that wants to try and fuck her and kick her to the curb..