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    I love you. Now im fucked.lol

    HB ive gone to second base with (co worker) (while shes dating her current bf) basically twisted my ego on me just now.

    She asks why our conversations always go so serious.
    I say "cause you love me blind. and yeah, basically thats why. :P"
    she replies with: " i love puppies too, and we never get all serious! and dont go all you love me thats all. you love me too"
    I say "go to your room."
    she says "say it"

    Anyone have a reply for me? lol. This is a current skype convo.. So a quick reply would be best


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    she says "say it"

    "okay, it"

    Having a serious convo about lurve online is not such a great idea.

    Neither is feeling up a co-worker. Who has a bf.

    Maybe you're in above your head?
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    Firstly, thanks for the reply.

    I know its not a good idea at all to talk about that shit.. ever, yet alone online.. and it didn't start out that way.. was talking sexual, then all of the sudden BAM! She started talking about relationships etc.. So I, in a nice way, told her that I wasn't personally in a good place for a relationship + some other scrambled bullshit. She shortly after, sent "wtf why do our convos always end up all serious and stuff". Here are the two messages leading into her reply and the messages after:

    [03:22:54 PM] Me: so please dont try and push for anything, or try and help me come to conclusions i need to come to on my own.. or ill knock you da fuq out!
    [03:24:24 PM] L: i will do nothing of the sort! besides, i have a boyfriend to push around and make decisions for
    [03:24:40 PM] Me: exactly
    [03:25:38 PM] L: wtf why do our convos always end up all serios and stuff
    [03:26:19 PM] Me: cause you love me blind. and yeah, basically thats why. :P
    [03:28:14 PM] Lisa: i love puppies too, and we never get all serious! and dont go all you love me thats all. you love me too
    [03:29:12 PM] Me: go to your room.
    [03:29:26 PM] L: say it
    [03:51:23 PM] L: josh can i move trac forward? ..... (work related message)
    [04:13:13 PM] Me: okay, it
    [04:13:28 PM] L: thank you
    [04:13:50 PM] Me: outright pleasure

    Well the fact she's a co-worker (which would be the normal concern) wouldn't hold bar considering the fact she works for my parents. (whom are aware of the fling and have no problem with it).. So the fiscal risk is atleast out of the equation. Any insight would be amazing!
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    ^ That's hilarious. The fact that she works for your parents is more complicated, not less, and wouldn't stop her at some point from filing sexual harassment charges against you if she chose to.

    Were me, I'd move on to non-work chicklets.
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    Thanks bro .. I didnt really consider that possibility considering ive known the girl going on 5 years now, but girls are emotional and therefore unpredictable.
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    As the quote goes, "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned."

    Play it safe and leave this one alone ...
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    I agree with DED, let her go.

    She's a co-worker with a boyfriend. That's a recipe for disaster.
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    Quote Originally Posted by howmuch View Post

    [03:22:54 PM] Me: so please dont try and push for anything, or try and help me come to conclusions i need to come to on my own.. or ill knock you da fuq out!
    DED nailed this, now you stop trying to nail her!
    It just isn't worth it... the best result here: you have sex with her - is she that special? or is she just that available - in your immediate environment. Don't be lazy, get out there and get gaming new options with no ties.

    The reason I quoted that part of your message is: where did that come from? and why did she feel the need to then ask about why convos always end up all serios (sic) and stuff??

    are you keeping this playful, or do you keep moving toward relationship matters?!
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    Whenever I see these situations I always think the same thing "Why don't these losers get a life outside of work?"

    No offence intended, but if it wasn't true, you wouldn't be interested in her (a girl who disrespects and cheats on her boyfriend with everyone knowing about it).

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    @Maverick76 - I have forbidden fruit syndrome.. Sums it all up. The convo we were having before was sexual (rehashing our previous sexual interactions).. Then she basically came out of the blue and said:

    [03/07/2012 02:51:03 PM] Her: :^)
    [03/07/2012 02:52:12 PM] Her: josh...who is the right guy for me?
    [03/07/2012 02:52:57 PM] Me:: Me. Just not right now
    [03/07/2012 02:53:32 PM] Her: why do you say that?
    [03/07/2012 02:56:45 PM] Me:: because if im going to do something i want to do, i do it properly. and at this second, my life isnt condusive to a proper relationship.
    [03/07/2012 02:58:55 PM] Her: so youre saying you want to do me properly?
    [03/07/2012 02:59:03 PM] Her: (chuckle)
    [03/07/2012 03:00:08 PM] Me:: stop skimping
    [03/07/2012 03:00:10 PM] Me::
    [03/07/2012 03:01:20 PM] Her: nooooo i just had? why do you want a proper relationship with me though? like why arent i like all the otHer: girls?
    [03/07/2012 03:01:56 PM] Me:: dont ask me shit
    [03/07/2012 03:03:14 PM] Her: i want to know! why are you being selfish? why do you want me all to yourself?
    [03/07/2012 03:09:46 PM] Me:: its for me and me alone to know!

    Then its a little more fluff leads in the next message to the convo I posted before... I know i overstepped investment when I said that I was the right guy for her, but I turned it into a push/pull and it seemed to spark something with her.
    @Birthday - Cute. If she was my only option, you would be founded. But, she's not and so neither is your opinion.
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