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I befriended a girl who's solid 7 1/2, and admitted to ...
What Appeals to Flirts/Whores?
I befriended a girl who's solid 7 1/2, and admitted to me shes proud of herself for being a "Player" and "Playing Guys". I Believe her, as there's plenty of proof. (I've seen her Kiss multiple Guys in a 2 week span). This really doesn't bother me as I really just want to fuck her. And have an easy booty call, but I really don't know how to deal with her without her playing me and using me. I can only get a'hold of her when shes (probably) really bored, or she needs something(Twice Shes needed a ride, The first time I gave it to her -_- ) Only to stop talking (Texting too) within 12ish hours after.
For a Short While me and her shared some personal feelings.
I kind of got to know her and she told me why she plays guys and about some of the guys she kinda liked but fucked up with. I told her I enjoyed her company and wanted more to do with her and for a couple of days she told me she thought I was a cute guy etc. But her she wasn't consistent as she was talking to a few guys.
I feel that I have to offer her something the other guys don't. But With her Barely talking to me and me really having access to her only in her control, I'm not sure what to do. Any advice on what I need to do?
Be the exception to the rule. Be the one teasing her. Lots of Push/Pull with her. Just when she thinks she has you eating out of her hand, throw in a false dis-qualifier, or a slight neg.
Dont give in to her bullshit.
If she is also over you and but treats you the same as everyone else. Just be non reactive to it.
Sounds like she enjoys the chase, but gets bored once she has the carrot. You have to be a challenge for her.
Dont fall for her shit tests either, otherwise she will treat you like every other guy. Which is exactly what you have to not be.
I would've stayed away from her. She probably enjoys letting you have a sloppy second with her. Truly STD infected.
7 and 1/2
Originally Posted by Stormc
Well Tommorro I as Going to spontaneously call her cause my roomate is going to be gone all day. I'm going To basically say "Heyy I need you to come over and watch this movie with me" I'm going to try and make her feel like she has to come over (By saying she has to see this movie with me, etc)
any ideas on that?
She's not a catch (7 1/2) and is toying with you for validation. You know she's easy and gets around. Treat her like your c*ck is the prize and her vag is just some everyday easy thing that you can get any old time.
Originally Posted by Stormc
I personally have a fbuddy who's similar except that she doesn't sleep around as much as you indicate this girl does. I rarely respond to her texts and if I do, I wait forever to do so and always have a witty and sarcastic reply with heavy sexual overtones. She cannot wait to get me inside her and it's always on my terms. I'd say tease her a bit more than just telling her to watch this movie with you. Get her hot and bothered and 'needing' you so bad that you finally let her. If she doesn't come over and goes aloof on you, give it right back to her and play it off like you don't care. The key here is that you are a horny 18 year old wanting to get with a validation hungry slut. Don't bow down to her and give her validation for free. Let her earn it.
How? haha. My thing is what do I need to portray I can give her something that none of her other guy friends can? Currently On her list of guys to go hang out with I'm not really near the top. And To be honest this having her come over was more so i can work myself into a better position with her. I recently watched some "Mystery Method Videos" and He said a good thing to try is a pillow fight but play with her. Start it up and then leave as if Im bored with her (some of that Kino Escalation) To show her she needs to earn my interest. Then start this movie and play with it, tease her (The Movie is 1408, I have experience that women find this movie terrifying).
So I suppose the reason i said my plans is i want the community to tweak them, Make them better. What can I Do to show her a fun time so she comes back?
This whole "I can give her things other guys can't" might give you confidence, but I wouldn't try and tell her that. It is just desperate.
I'd have some fun with this one, but bear in mind that this is slightly dark.
With a girl like this, a self confessed player, you just need to disqualify her a tonne and make her seek your approval.
Refuse everything from her. Refuse her touch. If she sits close, move away in a very subtle way. If she tries to kiss you turn away and dismiss it without saying anything. Wind he up really tight until she is willing to fuck you just to prove to herself that she can have you. I mean you could go really far, for example "Well I am not really into you, but if you scratch your back, I'll scratch yours" and let her give you head
Sit on the couch and draw a line and say "I know what you are like so don't cross this line"
I would say things like "you must have good game because you do get above average guys" (the insinuation being she is average)
"Any of these guys call you for a second date?" If she says yes act genuinely surprised but excuse your reaction "Oh really, oh I mean, of course they do".
Observe, and read between the lines.
1. I befriended a girl - - - - -> HB7 1/2 - - - - -> proud of herself for being a "Player"
2. I've seen her Kiss multiple Guys in a 2 week span - - - - - > This really doesn't bother me.
3. don't know how to deal with her -----> playing me and using me
4. For a Short While me and her shared some personal feelings. - - - - - > when shes (probably) really bored.
5. She told me why she plays guys - - - - -> I enjoyed her company - - - - > she thought I was a cute guy etc.
This should help you out. When you are hooked on a girl, you pretty much tend to cloud the obvious.
Get over her, and she will come running to you, use all your time on talking to some other girls, and when she comes to you, talk to her, but turn away pretty fast, if she says i wanna talk to you, then respond "Yeah, abit later though" and do not share some personal feelings!
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