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    What to do when you finally grow tired of the whole thing.

    I think i finally grew tired of this. I'm travelling the world, talking to women, sometimes chasing them and getting almost no results.
    I'm frankly saturated of the whole process. I'm depleted. I have no more energy left.
    I want to try no more. It does not work for me. If i have to talk to 100 women to fuck one, well it's not worth it. It's a huge effort for such little result.

    I know it's my responsability and i know that i don't have to be Brad Pitt to get laid but i'm lacking motivation. I'm so tired of chasing the dragon that i'm honestly wishing i met a nice woman and get married or something. I rather live married with children than going through this lonely guy hell.

    All my friends say 'but you are attractive, you're funny, you should have no problems blah blah', i've heard it before a thousand times. Actually paying for sex is a much better idea than trying to meet a girl and get it for free. It's probably my fault, my issues, i know.

    I don't even know exactly why i'm posting this.

    Help?



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    Some men never get a girl their whole life, maybe you are one of them? What I will say is there is more to life than beautiful woman riding you on top, begging you to come inside her.

    Take up finger painting or something. How about jigsaws?

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    I don't really know if this is an issue with you, but if so you should stop focusing so much energy on trying to pick up girls. Go outside and look around, take it all in: the fact that you get to travel the world and see so many beautiful things. Enjoy your time with your friends, and the fact that you can even afford to pay for sex; appreciate what you have more.

    Embracing all the positives in your life will give you good positive energy, and positive people will pick up on that and want to be around you (women included). Don't live for pickup, let pickup happen while you're living.
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    I'm gonna have to say take a bootcamp. Maybe attend a super conference.

    You can be reading all the material in the world, listening, watching and hearing about the best PUAs on the planet, but if you don't get in the in-depth experience that comes with a bootcamp, then you may be stuck in this rut for awhile.


    Are you putting a lot of effort into approaching, tweaking and learning about your weaknesses and strengths? You need to nail your problems down to the point and start working through them one at a time.
    "The mind only acts as an enemy for those who do not control it."

    You only lose what you cling to. -Buddha

    Here's how I see it:

    Men act, women react. Don't take the woman's role.

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    If you want to leave, just do it. No one is going to feel sorry for you, and no one is going to care.

    However, if your serious about improving your skills with chicks, theres plenty of resources out there to help you

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hatman View Post
    If you want to leave, just do it. No one is going to feel sorry for you, and no one is going to care.

    However, if your serious about improving your skills with chicks, theres plenty of resources out there to help you
    Agreed.
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    You only lose what you cling to. -Buddha

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    I totally get what you are saying - and I am sure many of the men on this forum have felt the same way at some point. I know I have had periods where I felt like I was wearing pussy repellant.
    Or I only get successful with women that have little value to me. Itīs so frustrating that you just wanna "get off the train".

    Pickup is like any other skill youīre trying to learn: Sometimes you simply have to let it go for a while and then come back and take a fresh look at it.
    CockOfZeus is right when he tells you to enjoy life and stop focussing on gaming women, and instead letting life unfold - women included.

    The most important point is this:
    Whether you choose to play or not, the game between the sexes is there - and there is precious little you can do to avoid it. Itīs a law of nature - or biology - if you will.
    And if you are ambitious about getting the best woman for YOU, you also have to accept that it will take some level of belief, brains and balls to get her.

    The alternative is to subject yourself to the mercy of the powers of the universe, and let it deliver your soulmate on a silver platter.
    Personally, I donīt believe this is a viable option.

    Take a break from gaming - and just enjoy other aspects of life.
    I am sure you will see things much differently, and perhaps also find better ways to apply the learnings of this forum.



    Quote Originally Posted by LatexX View Post
    I think i finally grew tired of this. I'm travelling the world, talking to women, sometimes chasing them and getting almost no results.
    I'm frankly saturated of the whole process. I'm depleted. I have no more energy left.
    I want to try no more. It does not work for me. If i have to talk to 100 women to fuck one, well it's not worth it. It's a huge effort for such little result.

    I know it's my responsability and i know that i don't have to be Brad Pitt to get laid but i'm lacking motivation. I'm so tired of chasing the dragon that i'm honestly wishing i met a nice woman and get married or something. I rather live married with children than going through this lonely guy hell.

    All my friends say 'but you are attractive, you're funny, you should have no problems blah blah', i've heard it before a thousand times. Actually paying for sex is a much better idea than trying to meet a girl and get it for free. It's probably my fault, my issues, i know.

    I don't even know exactly why i'm posting this.

    Help?

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    The fact that this bothers you so much makes it seem like you are trying too hard to get laid. Thats as big of a turn off to women as the huge AFCs I always see in clubs following girls around.

    As stupid as it sounds, once you stop looking to get laid you start to get laid.
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    Hey guys, thanks for your input.

    I guess i was just bleeding frustration. Once a month or so, i feel like ranting and 'giving up'.

    Whenever things don't turn out as expected, all the shit inside me starts surfacing.

    I've calmed down again.

    Thanks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Birthday View Post
    Some men never get a girl their whole life, maybe you are one of them? What I will say is there is more to life than beautiful woman riding you on top, begging you to come inside her.

    Take up finger painting or something. How about jigsaws?

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