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    Chicks get bored quickly.

    Being Predictable = Attraction Killer

    Your thinking about her way more than she's thinking about you. Isn't that kind of disrespectful? Your basically not worth her time anymore. So, instead she's not worth yours. Go out and find someone worth "thinking about all the time". She's clearly not one of them.


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    instead of worrying about what's she thinking you should be turned off/pissed off that she's flaked out like this. Your response should be to move on & find someone else without giving her another thought. Obviously you can't do that now but you can pretend you are then soon you will be.

    Basically I don't think the response to someone treating you poorly should be trying to think of ways to get them back, it should be finding people who won't treat you poorly.

    BTW) when I say you should be pissed I mean in a have respect for yourself way not in a send angry text or anything crazy way

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    Pesante,
    Ive definitely been in your shoes, so I know exactly how frustrating it can be.
    Having said that - there is only ONE viable option for you now: Let her go! And focus on YOUR life. Not her!
    You will only make matters worse for YOURSELF if you pursue this further. Youīve allowed her to have you on a string, and thatīs a recipe for a really painful relationship.

    Try to get some perspective: I know itīs easier said than done - but the time and energy you waste on her, you could have spent landing a woman like this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OldFart View Post
    Pesante,
    Ive definitely been in your shoes, so I know exactly how frustrating it can be.
    Having said that - there is only ONE viable option for you now: Let her go! And focus on YOUR life. Not her!
    You will only make matters worse for YOURSELF if you pursue this further. Youīve allowed her to have you on a string, and thatīs a recipe for a really painful relationship.

    Try to get some perspective: I know itīs easier said than done - but the time and energy you waste on her, you could have spent landing a woman like this.

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    Have you seen her laughing or smiling wide that shows her big horse teeth? There's one chick I know in person, who I felt attracted to, when she laughed so hard - I got freaked out by looking how chunky her horse teeth. That's kinda sad, because she still looks cute when she close her mouth...

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    Thanks for all the replies everyone, all excellent advice and good slaps in the face

    UPDATE to this situation....I proceeded to go on a "coldout" and she actually sent me a text that said Hey! How have you been? after not hearing from her for a week. I told her I'd been good and asked her what's up? She said "Just wanted to say hey it's been awhile! Last week was crazy!"
    And then went on to explain that her friend that has been pregnant gave birth early and her other friend that has been staying with her was hospitalized for an infection
    I simply asked how everyone was doing and asked about work, then left it at that. Haven't heard anything else from her yet.
    Hopefully it wasn't a sympathy text?

    Where to go from here if I want to game for just hooking up?...The no contact for a week and the great advice on here made me step back and reevaluate this whole thing and myself.

    Give it the weekend and then maybe contact her early next week to inquire about getting a drink?

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    Quote Originally Posted by version2 View Post
    Basically I don't think the response to someone treating you poorly should be trying to think of ways to get them back, it should be finding people who won't treat you poorly.
    Brilliantly put!

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