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    What To Do About This Mega-Bitch Who Is Constantly Talking Shit Behind My Back?

    So, there's this girl who I met in one of my classes in college last year. We both hit it off well and had lots of attraction. So we dated for about a month or two and then all of a sudden she tells me she has a boyfriend. Then I do one of the dumbest things I've done in a long time and become all AFC expressing my sad feelings and shit.

    We both live in a close-knit college dorm where everyone knows everyone else. Whenever she sees me talking to a new girl and its going really well or when I try making new friends, she tells them what happened above. I know she must be doing this because one day the girl is all into me and a few days later when I haven't even spoke to the girl, she becomes all distant for no reason. This has happened twice so far.

    What do you guys think I should do about this? I thought a good idea might be to tell the people I meet about this bitch before she gets to them. Another option would be to live somewhere else, but I don't want to just give up like she has kicked me out. I want to stand up for myself and maybe let others know how much of a bitch she is. Any other ideas?



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    Having a girl become distant doesn't necessarily mean that someone is talking shit about you. It's quite possible that you're judging their politeness for interest.

    Unless you have better proof than your intuition (like a friend or acquaintance telling you), ignore her and move on. All you gotta do is get the new girl interested, exchange numbers and carry on with witty conversation. Set up a meet up and fuck her.
    If you feel that's not possible in your current location, you could try talking to girls outside your dorm and closing 'em. Talk to girls in clubs, in the mall, etc. There are lots of places to meet girls and chat and unless this girl is a stalker, she won't be able to screw you over (assuming she is).

    I don't think it's necessary to tell the girls about your crazy ex. It'd seem random and depending on how you put it, may come off as shit talking her (won't do you any favours).

    Keep in mind that this has only happened twice and isn't an indication of anything other than the fact that you failed to follow through properly.

    Keep at it for now and forget about your ex.

    btw, are you on speaking terms with your ex? or share the same social circle?
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    Quote Originally Posted by d_downs View Post
    Having a girl become distant doesn't necessarily mean that someone is talking shit about you. It's quite possible that you're judging their politeness for interest.

    Unless you have better proof than your intuition (like a friend or acquaintance telling you), ignore her and move on. All you gotta do is get the new girl interested, exchange numbers and carry on with witty conversation. Set up a meet up and fuck her.
    If you feel that's not possible in your current location, you could try talking to girls outside your dorm and closing 'em. Talk to girls in clubs, in the mall, etc. There are lots of places to meet girls and chat and unless this girl is a stalker, she won't be able to screw you over (assuming she is).

    I don't think it's necessary to tell the girls about your crazy ex. It'd seem random and depending on how you put it, may come off as shit talking her (won't do you any favours).

    Keep in mind that this has only happened twice and isn't an indication of anything other than the fact that you failed to follow through properly.

    Keep at it for now and forget about your ex.

    btw, are you on speaking terms with your ex? or share the same social circle?
    I probably didn't describe the situation enough. It's not just that the girl would become distant. One day she would be extremely interested and attracted to me. Then a few days later, it's like the biggest flip-flop I've ever seen. It's the only explanation. I ruled out PMS, since it lasts more than a week.

    I wouldn't really consider her my ex, just a close girl whom I was dating. We are still in the same social circle.

    So you don't think it's a good idea to try damage control on the girls she's talked to? This may make me look bad even though this girl probably had psychological issues and no respect for others?

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    This is a perfect example of shitting where you eat, and why you always leave them better than you found them.

    You still have no idea if she's saying shit. Get proof. Ask her if she is, and why she's doing it. Just be unemotional about it. You can turn it onto her. But not by saying your crazy ex, that's DLV, as why would you date someone like that.

    If she is saying shit, it's ruining your social proof. And the shit she must be saying must be somewhat congruent to your character, or the attraction these girls would override it, telling them "that sounds nothing like him, this bitch is crazy". So you need to look at what she might be saying, and how much of its truth, and evolve yourself to be better. You cannot control what this girl does. That's the bottom line.


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    get rid of her.

    remove her from your reality

    A good way to do this is to use the smurf technique - its a psychological tactic

    imagine the chick in your mind

    make her turn blue

    then make the image of her as small as possible (still blue) and turn it into a leaf. Make that leaf glide away into the distance and out of your reality

    works a charm

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    you guys already date for a while right? that's enough fun, find other girl now. Next time follow MRB5 model

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