Lastly, don't take her climbing anymore. DON'T TAKE HER CLIMBING UNTIL YOU'VE HAD SEX WITH HER. Test her, if that's what she enjoys doing with you - take that away from her. Stop catering to what *she* wants to do. She has to realize that you're not just going to be nice & do what she wants all of the time. Nice = Boring. Be the employer, not the applicant. If she is applying to be your new girlfriend/fuck buddy, make her pass your tests, do what you want, play by your rules & wait around for you. Otherwise, she doesn't get the job. Let her know this, but don't SAY IT - CONVEY IT.