Ive been going out for a year with 2 wings of mine and have been using opinion openers so far. I have got my delivery almost spot on with pauses and tone. They seem to work by getting a response. How ever i have found it hard towards the end of the nite when it gets loud and busy. This is mainly due to the fact that most girls are in the peak of there state and just want to have fun at this point onwards.
Direct openers work 10 times better than indirect
Coming in with a indirect opener seems to bring there mood down and they wonder why the hell you are asking such a question at that time of nite.
So ive tried going a little more direct and was suprized how well they actually respond.
I saw a cute girl at the bar and was standing a good 1o feet away with other girls near by. So i went up and tapped her arm and with a smile said from where i was standing you looked very attractive, i had to come and tell you.
She instantly smiled and thanked me and stated talking. I made a cold read which she answered and teased her answer. This was my first proper direct approach on a single girl standing with friends so i did`nt take it any further.
What i found out is that its actually easier because u have`nt got to use a time constraint or tell a 3 hr story of why u are asking. And also u can walk past every other girl in front of her and she won`t wonder why u have asked her instead of all the surrounding girls like she would an opinion opener. Because u are coming from a seductive frame its easier to move from there because there is no hidden agender.
It just takes a bit more bottle to do so because of the risk/reward.
It does`nt mean u have to keep changing opener so that u don`t reopen the same sets a few weeks later if u live in a small town. I have done this and it comes across super weird.
I will try this out from now on and see.