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    2nd try: Q from a she-dog about A3 ;)

    Sorry for my little manipulation trick there, hehe, but I really want your input on this one...
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    >Hi all,
    I'm pretty new here, but I'll skip an introduction since I've already presented myself in length on the Introduction Board
    I have a question for all you guys. I've read the online part of VAH, chapter 3, a few times (I like it very much!), and the summary of A3 has kind of caught my eye, the male-to-female interest part.. "The man baits the woman to become more invested in the interaction, and then he rewards her efforts with indicators of interest". OK, what I wonder is - I take it you get very varying responses from different women in this stage, right? Would you tell me a bit about the different responses you get, and what you like best?


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    Quote Originally Posted by Fida
    I take it you get very varying responses from different women in this stage, right? Would you tell me a bit about the different responses you get, and what you like best?
    Do you mean the responses you get before you reward her or after?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vapor
    Do you mean the responses you get before you reward her or after?
    Oh *head scratch*... I'm not sure. Let's take that VAH quote again "The man baits the woman to become more invested in the interaction, and then he rewards her efforts with indicators of interest"... OK, what does "bait the woman" mean here, more exactly? Can you give examples? From both IRL- and online playing, preferably.
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    Baiting the woman would include demonstrating higher value wile negging/disqualifying to act as if you aren't sexually interested in her. It's a huge topic; you basically asked how one attracts a woman. I'd suggest getting the whole VAH e-book.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vapor
    Baiting the woman would include demonstrating higher value wile negging/disqualifying to act as if you aren't sexually interested in her.
    OK, thank you for clarifying that!
    Well then in that case my question is if you could describe different responses you get, from different women, to this 'baiting', and also I would like to know which types of responses you like best.
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    It's a huge topic; you basically asked how one attracts a woman.
    No, I'm asking the opposite ; how a woman in the female response stage best attracts the player... when he has 'baited' her.
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    I'd suggest getting the whole VAH e-book.
    Oh, I would, I would, if I had the money for it. But unfortunately, I don't
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fida
    OK, thank you for clarifying that!
    Well then in that case my question is if you could describe different responses you get, from different women, to this 'baiting', and also I would like to know which types of responses you like best.
    She gives IOIs, or indicators of interest. Touching him, asking him questions, qualifying herself in some way, that kind of thing. The PUA doesn't care which ones are "best," only that she is giving him about three distinct IOI's. E.g., she asks him is name, laughs at a joke that isn't very funny, initiates kino (touching).
    how a woman in the female response stage best attracts the player... when he has 'baited' her.
    She gives him IOIs. There is an IOI thread around here somewhere, if you do a search they may come up. Don't worry about the "best" ones, the guy doesn't care as long as he recognizes them.
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    Are you asking how to best attract a player?? Hmmmm...now that would depend on the player, wouldn't it? ;-)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vapor
    She gives IOIs, or indicators of interest. Touching him, asking him questions, qualifying herself in some way, that kind of thing. The PUA doesn't care which ones are "best," only that she is giving him about three distinct IOI's. >snip>
    Don't worry about the "best" ones, the guy doesn't care as long as he recognizes them.
    Really?? *surprised* Don't you guys have any greater preference for certain types of IOIs and lesser for others?
    What if she starts being too persistent... chasing you, type of... um... like I did... after M... at the party? Of course I was drunk as well... I guess that can be quite a turnoff, right, haha
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