This girl used to text me everyday for like a couple of months but I never gave her the attention at first. But when I did, she stopped.
does she want attention or is she interested?
I'm not sure if she's interested because she backs off when I make a move, but whenever I'm cold she comes back and is flirty.
I broke contact with her and we didn't speak to each other over a period of time.
I saw her on New Year and we talked and she acted flirty and complied to my kino etc. So I text her two days later. Everytime she replied, she took a couple of hours and gave short answers, didn't initiate in the convo. So I stopped texting her.
Three months later, march, it was my birthday and she text me out of the blue "Happy Birthday Sean " I text her back "Thank you *name* " and she replied with "". I never replied to that text.
Fast forward one month: I'm was walking outside and I saw her. I saw her before she saw me. At first she didn't notice that I'd seen her so she tried to change route. But as soon as she noticed that I'd seen her, she came to me. Before she said hi, I said:
Me: I saw what you did (that she tried to ignore me)
Her: Yeah, because I'm mad at you
Me: And why is that?
Her: Because you never text or say hi
Me: *igonore her, look at my phone and start texting a friend*
Her: *touching my arm to get my attention* SEE! you're not even looking at me right now!
Me: I saw what you did.. *keep texting*
Her: It's good that you saw that! I texted you on your birthday and you didn't even text me back!!!
Me: *I see her book that she's holding, grab it from her and read the cover*
My body language was not towards her. She was facing me and touching me to get my attention while I acted aloof (in a flirty way).
I think her Happy Birthday text was a bait for me to start texting her again which I didn't take.
So, should I just cut her off completely and ignore her? Or should I text her? It feels like everytime I make a move it goes no where.
I feel like I have the upper hand right now and I'm being a challenge to her, being cocky and funny around her but I still don't know.
What does this girl want from me? What should my next moves be? Should I back off or what?